Help me understand this Scorpio man!

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Beriejuice
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Ok I met a Scorpio sun, Scorpio Mercury, Scorpio Mars, and Scorpio Venus man named Adam 20 years ago. We chatted for a few weeks online, met up once and hung out, kissed and fooled around but no sex. We actually had a really good time. We talked a couple times after that and without any explanation from him, he just disappeared and didn’t contact me again. In late 2019 I get a message on a social media app saying how much fun he had with me and never forgot l me, I was intrigued so I talked to him. we talked daily about everything you could think of for about a week and then he vanishes with no indication that he would do that. About 9 weeks later I was contacted on that same site by some guy and we chatted for almost a day until he finally told me it was actually him. We talked for a few days, he said he had feelings for me and openly admitted on his own he was scared. I told him I was scared too and to take his time, I understand, after one more day of talking, poof he’s gone again. Five months have gone by and I get another message on the app from an Adam with a picture of someone else. He clearly has no intention of admitting it’s him, but I know without a doubt that it is. Everything he says is almost identical to his real self. We’ve been talking for about a week now like this. I have not let on that I know it’s him and not sure that I should. WTF is going on? Is this guy clearly out of his mind or is this normal Scorpio behavior? Mind you we are not young and it’s quite unbelievable that a man his age would do such a thing. I’m actually embarrassed to say how old he is. Any help about Scorpios would be greatly appreciated. I really just want to understand!!
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Beriejuice
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he’s scared, his heart has been broken, he also has said that I’m way out of his league. He has also said that I’m very intriguing. I think in his head he believes that because he thinks he’s not good enough for me, I’m going to hurt him. I also think that he had no other way of getting to know me and see how I react to his unusual behaviors and sexual interests, that’s his only option I’d to do it online somehow. We are not in the same circles or town or anything like that.
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Posted by dillpickle
Posted by Beriejuice

My gut tells me he’s not! I was married 20 years ago when I met him. Part of why I think he disappeared.

your gut tells you he isnt married?!

lmao omg this has gotta be a troll.
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Sounds like a typical married man cheating on his wife.

This is not about Scorpio sign or other signs.

This is about a cheater who’s probably cheating on his wife.

He wants his cake and eat it too.
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Posted by Beriejuice

Ok I met a Scorpio sun, Scorpio Mercury, Scorpio Mars, and Scorpio Venus man named Adam 20 years ago. We chatted for a few weeks online, met up once and hung out, kissed and fooled around but no sex. We actually had a really good time. We talked a couple times after that and without any explanation from him, he just disappeared and didn’t contact me again. In late 2019 I get a message on a social media app saying how much fun he had with me and never forgot l me, I was intrigued so I talked to him. we talked daily about everything you could think of for about a week and then he vanishes with no indication that he would do that. About 9 weeks later I was contacted on that same site by some guy and we chatted for almost a day until he finally told me it was actually him. We talked for a few days, he said he had feelings for me and openly admitted on his own he was scared. I told him I was scared too and to take his time, I understand, after one more day of talking, poof he’s gone again. Five months have gone by and I get another message on the app from an Adam with a picture of someone else. He clearly has no intention of admitting it’s him, but I know without a doubt that it is. Everything he says is almost identical to his real self. We’ve been talking for about a week now like this. I have not let on that I know it’s him and not sure that I should. WTF is going on? Is this guy clearly out of his mind or is this normal Scorpio behavior? Mind you we are not young and it’s quite unbelievable that a man his age would do such a thing. I’m actually embarrassed to say how old he is. Any help about Scorpios would be greatly appreciated. I really just want to understand!!


Holy Fuck. 20 YEARS of "dancing around" with a looser freak Scorpio. Hit us up in the next 20, when you still trying to figure him out. Or better yet, move on and have a wonderful next 20 years, without him.
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Beriejuice
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I was just trying to get some info on Scorpio behavior that’s all. I know they’re weird and this may have been a game because he likes games. Clearly a lot of people on here only come on to make assumptions, nitpick and insult. Not that I care, I’m just saying. thank you for your response.

So, the downside of this, besides the obvious is that if you play along soon you won't trust anyone on the internet, and you will suspect everyone you meet on the internet of being him or at least someone other than who they say.

It's a gateway to paranoia. Damage might already be done whether you play along or not, actually.
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Posted by Beriejuice

I actually really like him. We are the so compatible, right down to our interests and values. I would love to date him.


You do not 'know' him AT ALL.

You do not know if you are compatible or if your interests and values are the same.

He values talking to you then disappearing. Then talking to you then disappearing. Then resurfacing under the guise of another profile so he can pretend it is not him in order to talk to you. Then he dissapears.

Do you do this? Is this one of your values too?

If you were to write a list of how you would like your partner to behave, would you write 'I want my partner to talk to me then disappear for weeks on end and then come back to pretend to be someone else'? Or would you write that you would like a partner who is able to communicate openly and honestly with you?

This guy is a nut job. Nut jobs come in all shapes, sizes, colours, creeds... And star signs!

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Posted by Beriejuice

he’s scared, his heart has been broken, he also has said that I’m way out of his league. He has also said that I’m very intriguing. I think in his head he believes that because he thinks he’s not good enough for me, I’m going to hurt him. I also think that he had no other way of getting to know me and see how I react to his unusual behaviors and sexual interests, that’s his only option I’d to do it online somehow. We are not in the same circles or town or anything like that.


If he's not asking you out then what is he point of it all?

If you're not local or within travelling distance to date then what is the point?

What is it you are looking for? It sounds as if you are lonely and just talking to random people online.

Are you single? Are you available to date people? Are you looking for a relationship? Sex? Friendship? Online chat only?