Help me with an old flame

I met this guy - Libra in 2010 Jan for a brief 2 hrs with families & I really started liking him, Our families made us meet so we could see if we can get hooked up together. After talking to me for a few times on phone he said No "Our thoughts didn't match". Later the same year he contacted me again when i moved to a location near him & we were friends for approximately 10 months. In those 10 months i fell in love with him, i didnt have the guts to express myself directly so I just said " You know we gel so well together. do you think we can have a future together ?" he said No again & said " Out thoughts dont match" I stopped all contact with him & in the last 2.5 years he got married & got a kid. 2013 April he started talking to me again & we became friends again. I still have feelings for him. The only change is he confessed having feelings for me a couple of days back. (he started talking to me coz i met with an accident & had to go into surgery). A week back when we were talking i confessed to him about my feelings for him in 2010 - 2011. i have suddenly drawn very close to him again. I do like it that he feels the same about me, but i m not sure what & why is this happening ? i also know this will not last long since his wife is visiting her family & will be back next month.

i find it very difficult to go away from him & resist him specially when i see him feeling the same about it.

i am not sure if I know what i should do or may be I am just venting this out. he and i have no intentions of having sex but we did make out once & we enjoy each other's company.

Is this right to even be in the first place ?? can people have feelings even after having a happy family ?

To answer your last question, no. Start space zpning and recover then return to each other with open confidence.

He's married with kids. There is no future here for you.

Posted by Rituv13
I met this guy - Libra in 2010 Jan for a brief 2 hrs with families & I really started liking him, Our families made us meet so we could see if we can get hooked up together. After talking to me for a few times on phone he said No "Our thoughts didn't match". Later the same year he contacted me again when i moved to a location near him & we were friends for approximately 10 months. In those 10 months i fell in love with him, i didnt have the guts to express myself directly so I just said " You know we gel so well together. do you think we can have a future together ?" he said No again & said " Out thoughts dont match" I stopped all contact with him & in the last 2.5 years he got married & got a kid. 2013 April he started talking to me again & we became friends again. I still have feelings for him. The only change is he confessed having feelings for me a couple of days back. (he started talking to me coz i met with an accident & had to go into surgery). A week back when we were talking i confessed to him about my feelings for him in 2010 - 2011. i have suddenly drawn very close to him again. I do like it that he feels the same about me, but i m not sure what & why is this happening ? i also know this will not last long since his wife is visiting her family & will be back next month.

i find it very difficult to go away from him & resist him specially when i see him feeling the same about it.

i am not sure if I know what i should do or may be I am just venting this out. he and i have no intentions of having sex but we did make out once & we enjoy each other's company.

Is this right to even be in the first place ?? can people have feelings even after having a happy family ?

No, it's wrong!
Forget him, move on!

Posted by Rituv13
I met this guy - Libra in 2010 Jan for a brief 2 hrs with families & I really started liking him, Our families made us meet so we could see if we can get hooked up together. After talking to me for a few times on phone he said No "Our thoughts didn't match". Later the same year he contacted me again when i moved to a location near him & we were friends for approximately 10 months. In those 10 months i fell in love with him, i didnt have the guts to express myself directly so I just said " You know we gel so well together. do you think we can have a future together ?" he said No again & said " Out thoughts dont match" I stopped all contact with him & in the last 2.5 years he got married & got a kid. 2013 April he started talking to me again & we became friends again. I still have feelings for him. The only change is he confessed having feelings for me a couple of days back. (he started talking to me coz i met with an accident & had to go into surgery). A week back when we were talking i confessed to him about my feelings for him in 2010 - 2011. i have suddenly drawn very close to him again. I do like it that he feels the same about me, but i m not sure what & why is this happening ? i also know this will not last long since his wife is visiting her family & will be back next month.

i find it very difficult to go away from him & resist him specially when i see him feeling the same about it.

i am not sure if I know what i should do or may be I am just venting this out. he and i have no intentions of having sex but we did make out once & we enjoy each other's company.

Is this right to even be in the first place ?? can people have feelings even after having a happy family ?

LEAVE THIS WOMAN'S HUSBAND AND FAMILY ALONE!!!!!!!