Help needed

I started dating a Scorpio man back in April. He lives with another woman but I know their relationship is platonic and he is there because of his child. I've fallen quite deeply for this man even though I know he won't leave his family home. I know our relationship might seem weird, and sometimes it feels weird. He doesn't express his feelings ever and I'm never sure how he really feels about me, but today I plucked up the courage to ask him straight. He said he views me as a friend and a confidante. Do Scorpios usually have sex with friends and confidantes, am I just being used? He calls me everyday and he's never been sensitive or emotional, he's not that kind of person. When he calls its like he has to have a reason to call, he needs me to do something, or its like he doesn't really have something to say and after a few minutes he rings off.

Anyway, after I'd asked him he said there was no need to have asked, that it should have been obvious, but to be honest it wasn't, I never really know what he's feeling as he doesn't show them.

Should I walk away before I get hurt, or do Scorpios just behave like this? After he'd told me I was a friend and confidante he then asked "what would you have liked me to say?"

I'm really confused.

YOU: Do Scorpios usually have sex with friends and confidantes, am I just being used?

First question:

ARE YOU having sex with him? That is not clear to me. Please answer and I'll continue.

Yes, I am.

Posted by aPiscesPrincess
To me it sounds like he's playing both you and the woman he lives with (the mother of his child). He tells you that their relationship is platonic but it doesn't mean that's true. Does she know about you? If she does know and she doesn't care about your situation with him then I might actually believe him.

Personally I would walk away before you get hurt. And yes Scorpios do act like that sometimes.. they won't say what they're really feeling or thinking. Some are masters of hiding their emotions too, so when you say he's never been sensitive or emotional, he might just be putting up a really good front.

What is it that you want with him though? Do you just want to stay as friends with benefits with him? Or do you want more? It sounds like you're afraid of falling for him though since you mentioned walking away before you get hurt. But unless you know for a fact that the woman he lives with is truly platonic (she knows about you and doesn't care that you're with him), I would walk away.

No she doesn't know about me. I guess you're right, I'll just walk...

Posted by seavixen2
not walk..run.

I know they don't share the same room, a friend has been to the house, and I thought his silence was because he doesn't like to rub her nose in it, so to speak, but to be told I'm a friend and confidant was a bit of a slap in the face to be honest, and I'm still not exactly sure what it means.

Posted by seavixen2
not walk..run.

What she said....

Posted by KingPisces

Posted by tiki33

Posted by seavixen2
not walk..run.

What she said....

Hi tiki 🙂

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Hi KP (:

HI Tiki,,,
Im new to dxpnet..as of 2nite..
Wanted to tell you i saw a response you gave ...on one of these threads....
And it wowed the hell out of me
You mentioned how you got rid of text..and youre the first person..Ive seen to reflect the same thoughts i have reflecting that
Bravo...!
have the same mentality regarding text..
If a man wants to talk to me...he can call me...
Too..many escape behind the text facade..To me its impersonal & not real.
Now,if i can think of how to close my email i get my weekly texts from my Leo...

Posted by aPiscesPrincess
To me it sounds like he's playing both you and the woman he lives with (the mother of his child).

That's exactly what he's doing. RUN AWAY...NOW! Or you'll be in this limbo forever.

Posted by scorpio_chic
they both fought over him like some blind bats.

Ahhhhh....heaven
"Success is having 2 chicks want to screw us
just so we don't go with the other chick."


No, just kidding. But the Scorpio Chic is right in this case.

This can ruin your life if you let it. He won't care.

Go find a nice Taurus ... a single one ...with money.

If you think you can pull yourself away ... do it while you still can.

He will of course not be happy ...but if you want to master this situation
you just tell him that he can't talk to you again until he's no longer
living with "her" and if he does so again, the police will be involved.

Posted by Eleni
"I'm really confused"

this is funny...lol

Your one-liners make this board MUCH more fun. 🙂

Posted by PandorasBox
N next time make sure you're gettin what you want out of a man first before droppin trou unless you're just lookin for a fling muh-thing.

"Happily Married"
"Puttin up with it"
"Thankfully Divorced"

Which is it? Just curious.