Heres a Q to all Scorp men out there....

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Unregistered on Tuesday, March 12, 2002 and has 8 replies.
How do you go about winning a scorpio mans heart???
It sounds a lot like i am asking for a step-by-step -doesnt it!? smile)
Honestly, this is the only genere of men that hold my intrest and baffle me with thier aloofness. They show absolutley no sign of having a heart or they make it appear as a "NO-ENTRY zone!
I want to get in there and see for myself why those mystries attract me soo much!
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Scorpio men ARE mysterious - it's their basic nature. They DO have hearts and feelings and are extremely sensitive whether they show it or not. Scorpio men are afraid of getting hurt and they may not realize they turn people off if they act aloof. They best way to win a Scorpio's heart is to be yourself and let him decide for himself if you're the type he wants to be with. If not, don't worry - no two Scorpio men are alike!
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Its not that were aloof , its quite the opposite. When we fall in love we fall hard and love unconditionally. We just like to make sure that our mate is on the same page as we are before we make ourselves vulnerable. Dial direct and tell your guy how you feel, in no uncertain terms. If youre gonna get him, that should do the trick. and if its not meant to be, at least youll know. If you do make him yours, you had better be prepared to get drawn into a whirlwind of emotion, passions and sexual adventures that threaten to redefine the word hedonism. Sometimes we dont even understand the depth of our passion, yet we crave the intensity. If you understand this and dont let yourself become overwhelmed by it, he'll love , honor and cherish you forever. Just let him know you will too........... Good luck
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yup....WHEN you fall in love you fall hard(i hope)! BUT when does the "WHEN" happen???
I have noticed that telling a scorpio man that you are interested most directly will surely...most surely..put him off!! It is like you have to play the waiting game and keep teasing him with you wit and cleverness and just in general be the nice non-committed friend till he decides otherwise!!!!!!
Sometimes it can get frustrating and most definitley confusing and baffaling for many of us! I read some of the posts here and most of them deal with exactly the same problem "you never NEVER ever know where you stand with a scorpio man!"
Well...no point in steaming like this! I guess the trick is to be patient and keep your fingers crossed and hopefully it will dawn on him one fine day soon how madly you love him! smile
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In response to the above let me give yo this advice. Keep it simple. We are
very polar people...... yes or no if you will. Its either all or nothing If hes with you and things are "happening" you can safely assume that hes in it for the duration. Otherwise I wouldnt be responding to this because you would be wthout....
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As an addendum to the above. Did you tell him you were interested or did you tell him you were in love with him. Or are you playing that guessing game with him that I find so many women ae fond of.
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Ironic it will be if i tell you that ....Yes or No was what i was looking for! BUT i found he was the one who could not decide and seemed lost.
I told him though subtly, that i was interested! I am a lady and i too (unfortunatley...maybe!!) have an ego! smile I too am scared to open my heart right out and let it be stamped to pieces!
Well so i am taking solace in the fact that i could not have done anything else to try to gauge the situation other that the way i did.

PS : If this is what you mean by "guessing game" ...then i guess this might provide you with some input on what women really do it! (these feelings of ego may not justify the reason for doing it but who said anyone was perfect!)
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Well sorry to say but some Scorpio men are just plain too insecure to act on their feelings and don't mind dangling you from a string as long as it suits their purposes.
Know what, he (scorpio man x) could have that Love there but not know how to handle it, and in fact, mistreat you.
There is this scorpio man floating around out there who scrawled my name across his chest with a knife and veers back and forth from expressing his intense love for me to not taking any action.
Like umm ah dumping the wife. No we have not even been physical so its not a sexual thing. My instincts tell he truly feels this unbridled love for me--but can't or won't act on it.
He is doing a great disservice to both his wife and myself, but hey, he is her partner not mine.
So I have stepped back, but the more I do that, the more I feel his energy coming at me. Know what I mean? Its psychic almost. He is married but says crap like "remember our love!!" and looks so tortured.
But my god the man is 28, if he wants me he has to come get me (as a divorced man)or put this demon of our so-called "Love" to rest. I mean that is what I am doing.
He feels so guilty as he should for loving another woman instead of his wife, but ah, isn't the solution for that to dump this woman? She too deserves an authentic relationship if he can't give it to her.
He can't give it to me so I gave him his walking papers, now he is pulling all sorts of strange stuff. He scares the hell outta me sometimes with his intensity and I am another scorpio.
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