hey scorpio ladies... fate is treetrunking me

I bumped into my scorpio ex (who has a "boyfriend") at of all places getting an oil change. we gave each other a friendly hug, definitely a casual friendly hug no mistake about that, felt a little forced. Probably because I've been avoiding her for the last week. her appointment was an hour after me so instead of awkwardly talking around people, we decided to sit in my car after it was done and chat in person for the first time in 44 days.

we talked for about an hour. in which time we caught up again...she showed me pictures from her travels while I was gone for 18 months. including a few selfies, a couple were topless and i think on purpose while we were maintaining arm contact on my middle console of the car. she mirrored my body language. and removed her sunglasses for eye contact then it was getting too much like old times.

I noticed time was flying by and told her I needed to go. She jumped out and gave me a LONG hug definitely about 20 seconds full on embrace, that hug was definitely romantic and then texted me later "thank you for keeping me company!". I made it a point not to talk about the past. but it was kind of fate-ish showing up like that together.

I'm still going back to avoiding her, but I shot back "yeah, just like old times".

It just reminded me of what we were. It was fate-ish, I made that appointment yesterday, for a trip out of town Saturday to see my brother. no stalking involved on that situation.

It just reminded me again of how much I like spending time with her and want her physically. Scorpio ladies should I just come out and tell her I want her?

I don't want to get shot down like 1 1/2 months ago, granted we've talked a lot since then... with the whole "boyfriend/rebound" she has and when I got home she had no desire to reconcile, but doesn't let more than a day go buy without text/calling me. I got fed up a week ago and was like "look bring your @s $ over here and let me give you what I've been waiting to give you for 20 months" and she just texted my back "lol that's the man I know." and with that I was done with any contact. when she didn't show up and texted me the next day asking How I was doing.

I know me being back is confusing things for her, but she's obviously knows she's flirting with the pics and the hug.

Trying to figure this out. The good thing about not getting any is I've gotten in even better shape (I was almost cut up now Its even better, she said as much when she was hugging me.) lots of working out. I'm not really into casual hookups when my mind/heart is somewhere else.

plus I need to get power back in the situation. I gave it up asking for her back and putting myself out there. I don't know whether her pride/ego is keeping her from coming back. I've already told her I wanted her, so if she had reservations in telling me she missed me and wants me back they should have been dispelled.