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This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by hidden scorp on Friday, January 18, 2008 and has 11 replies.
hi everyone. I am supposedly a libra, well virgo/libra cusp actually. but looking up my chart finally made sense to me why i hate the guts of librans and other air signssmile venus, moon, pluto, mercury are in scorpio, the rest are in virgo and to be honest, i would define myself as a sugar-coated scorpio. i gets more apparent with age, and so is my sixth sense. there is a cap at work, and i swear i can read his mind and i suspect he does mine, at least he has an inkling of what is going on inside my head and i hate this. we dont talk, dont even say hi, but i know he is watching me, although in "real" life he is ignoring me, so am i. i know that i like him and i just cannot control this, so i never look into his eyes because he can read eyes well (i just know it) and so does he. is it just my mind playing games, do i attach too much meaning to actions? normally i would dive into peoples souls and get myself what i need and figure the person out. but this man is aware that i "drill" and i am hiding, so i cannot figure him out which makes me even more mad...
sorry no offense. just the flakiness and the "shallowness", their talking for the sake of talking etc etc. i mostly dont get along with air signs, the people i am get along fine are earth and water signs usually.
It seems that you have "sniffed out" a new victim ! LOL ! Just joking
Why would you want to read his mind ? I think there is an underlying attraction here but whether it's 2 sides , I don't know.....Cap is slow but they usually make faithful friends ...If you have moon in scorpio , your eyes can speak volume without your lips moving ! On the other hand , come up and say hi to your colleague. He might not play any game but just shy and your mercury in scorp plays detective role too much .Perhaps you're playing mind game and project that thought into others without realising it in conscious level...
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To express indignant disbelief at another's fanciful proclamation.
Up until around the age of 12 this is a common phrase in every child's vocabulary. Used to question the validity of somebody's statement. In cambridgeshire there were two variations of chinny reckon or "Chinny Rah-Kon". Firstly one would put their tongue imbetween their bottom teeth and lip, making it swell, and make a low noise before saying "Chinny Reckon" or "Itchy Chin". The phrase "Chin Spin" was also used in the same context.
source:Urban dictionary
thanks a lot everyonesmile no i am not trying to read him, i just know what he is thinking, no idea how but i do. and so does he, i am sure of that. i just get very uncomfortable when i feel that someone can "see" me, this doesnt happen a lot.
usually i am a loner, i cannot chit-chat, i cannot gossip, i am reserved and distant, i never get invited anywhere at work, mostly serious and no matter how much i am nice or smile, people just stay out of my way.
i was in a serious relationship with a cap, long distance though, and i gave him an ultimatum because he tried to vanish on me 3 times and not answer the phone. i lashed out and hurt his pride and i refuse to apologize. it must have shocked him as I have been a doormat for him for the first time in my life. i believed love should be giving and forgiving and let him trample over me. since the ultimatum, no answer for more than 4 weeks, i guess this was it with himsmile it still hurts, i will eventually get over it.
back to the workplace cap. i dont want him to see that i like him, i definitely dont want a work-love, i would hate that gossip. this thing with the cap has been going on for 2 years, and i am getting tired and want this to stop, i have enough of feeling his eyes on me whenever i turn or feeling he is watching me when i move although he is talking to another person. over the 2 years i have done some pretty gross stuff, like not cutting my finger nails or dressing really bad, it has done the trick to some point. he is more distant, but he still keeps watching me without even looking at me. i have to admit this annoys. it is like he knows what is going on, how uneasy i feel and wants to keep me dangling at his fishing rod. has this happened to one of you? since we have had no communication so far, we dont talk, i cannot just go over and say "look just stop following me with your eyes and do something else", this would be awkward...
sure i move a lot, when i go and take me a coffee, or downstairs for a cigarette break. maybe exam is right and i am the one playing head games and projecting it to the other side. i didnt occur to me... but on his birthday, they celebrated it at the office, everyone was inside the office in a room, i was last and stood outside the room, and he bent over to see whether i was there and smiled at me, he still sometimes does that. ok time to face it and look him straight in the eyes cold, without being reserved. this will make him stop, i knowsmile
oh you meant move the desk or something irishlibra. no, no chance of that, and its an open office. the only thing i can do is to hide behind the pc monitor.
elementism...its shameful really.
There might be something going on here........
He might be an "eyes stalker"! LOL!
Or you read into it too much and actually the one who is doing the interpretion based on your emotion ........
He might be a replaced image of your Cap boyfriend......
If you don't like him , no reason to do this guess work , just focus on yourself .
If you like him , well ......do what you think is right smile
Thanks a lot people. This was exactly the dose of reality i needed. i got so worked up in my own little world that i lost touch of the border between the inside and the outside, so i desperately needed some outsider comments. i did convince myself its all in my head, and voila, things are great now. i got my inner calm backsmile
okay

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