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Aug 29, 2011Comments: 1 · Posts: 505 · Topics: 41
I have a question about what is goin on in my situation..I realize that my guy has these tendencies astrology says theyll have.we have the physical ,mental,spiritual,and intellectual understandin, to make it, both of us are leanin towards our careers.we dated in the past,so now we found our ways back to one another.the past i wasnt expressful with my emotions, now i am honest about them.he says he doesnt wanna take us too fast,and he would perferr he gets his career together cause he wants to take care of me.I say we can together, he says he know,but this is somethin he knows he has to do on his own because it doesnt work with a woman involved.but he is always reenerating on subjects about takin it slow, he says im aggressive, I read on here that they like to come to you and thats all he ever says but we have been nagotiating on this issue..we never argue about what is goin on and he does his best to please me as do i .
I felt he has a hidden agenda because of the issues from the past,but he has attempted to come around me a few times after our breakup happened(4yrs ago)and i was thinkin about that now..he says he had really really strong feelings for me in the past but didnt know if it was love or not. he says that the relationship he experinced throughout these last few years with the ex girl he had (4yrs)messed him up bad, but hes over it and hes always talkin about her..he sees i been bothered by this , so he says that he wont do it anymore.Although he says hes past it all and he wants me and is really into me I feel he really does this with me for some other reasons other than caring..he and the girl been broken up for about four or five months now and we have been together now for a month..I had the breakup of my kids father earlier this year, i thought of all the logic to the point were it doesnt affect me at all.i understand hes as cautious as me, but he has me wondering whats goin on now..so to all, please give me a lil more understandin from YOU (SCORPIOS)MINDFRAME..others with eexperiences please dont hesitate,but I want the insight of how should I take this..I really believe him, but my cautious ways wont allow me to, also, I was supposed to have a child by him, so thats our issue.
to be honest...he doesn't sound like he's over his ex. That's why he's not promising u anything. So just be patient yet cautious.
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Aug 29, 2011Comments: 1 · Posts: 505 · Topics: 41
Which is exactly y I came to scorpios for this anaylsis.i say that samething,but both of us is his ex.i was b4 her,she was exactly behind me.he was b4 my baby dad and now we back with eachother,so when I tell him that,he says he was just ventin and neither one of us are alike,the only similarity is our hustle mentality,he says im way more intellegent,eactly the woman he can breeze thru life with and make things happen,wed be the power couple.i ve been worried hes still feelin her so ive been guarded,but he says he wants to warn me of what not to do which is everything she did.he says I dont do any of that and when he was with her they never talked like that,we stay up all nite talkin and we do this thing where we make love to one another with our minds.i usually would let somethin like this go if I have an ounce of doubt but when I do this to him,he just tells me that he doesnt want to lose me,so y would I easily let him go this easy.he says be patient y rush somethin that can be IT for both of us,he says he is tryin to get his things back together so he can take care of me how he would if he was finacially set,but I think theres more to this than that...you broke all this down and it went right back to the samething he says be patient,so maybe your exactly right about this guy..he not over her,im just bein used I should forget about him,move on find what im wantin else where.i try to controll love by anaylzing it b4 goin thru it,he does too,each of us is bein cautious but we still interactin on lovers levels,if this make you think of anything else then please add,oh and he has four scorpio placements,so ill post his chart when I get to a computer cuz im n my phone
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Aug 29, 2011Comments: 1 · Posts: 505 · Topics: 41
One more thing,she was prostitutin as a hustle..i do hair,sell things etc...but we have been back to this topic a few tmes,how could we really get things goin by ventin I know this girls whole life story now,but it hasnt been comin up n e more lately so now back to the topic