How a Virgo Dumped Me

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by amethystaquamarine on Wednesday, July 18, 2007 and has 12 replies.
Thanks for your honest mail. Unfortunately, I don't think it's that simple. Despite agreeing with most of what you said, I don't think it's a wise thing for you to do when you said that you would wait. It may be a really huge mistake, because I can tell it won't work at all. I'm no longer the guy you thought I was. There really is a lot on my mind and time is something that I can't wait for. I'm in the midst of straightening my priorities and knowing which path to take in life, and thinking about my future. I'm really sad to say that I don't really see you in that future. I know this will disappoint you and make you hate me. If it does, there really is nothing I can do because I have to be honest to both you and myself.
It would be a lie if I told you to wait for me and eventually my feelings for you will return. I really can't see that happening. It really isn't because I fell for someone else or anything but I really don't want to think about love at this time or anywhere in the near future. Yes, everyone needs love, I agree. But I really can't accept that level of love that you are willing to give.
Think about it, I haven't really been treating you with the honest respect that I should. I'm really not the right guy for you. Thinking about marriage and fear of commitment is a little naive. Unfortunately, not everything will work out the way you plan. I don't want you to wait for me to get those feelings back and depend on that small pinch of hope because it really isn't worth it. To be honest with you, I may have been really lying to myself when I was with you. This may not sound right coming from me now, but when I first fell for you I think it was a little superficial and also due to the fact that I just broke up with my ex and needed someone to love again. I think that was really foolish of me, and I don't want to mess with your feelings any longer.
When you say give time, I don't think that will work out. True, I want to focus on my career and all that but there's no point getting back together when you're saying it's ok if I see you just once a month. We're not kids here, there is no way I will allow myself to leave someone I like waiting for me once a month. That's just unfair and really selfish. Something that I cannot do.
I really feel you should go out and meet more people and eventually you will find someone who really loves you for who you are. I'm not that someone that you think. We are on totally different wavelengths and channels.. I
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don't see the things that I need in you any longer.. I'm sorry. And it's not just the distance, it's this whole relationship thing that has left a stale taste in my mouth.. Sorry again
Just a small piece of advise, I really do hope you will work on your confidence and self-esteem which you seriously lack. It will do you a world of good. Meet more people, sincerely.. See the world and how everything falls in place. You're still living in a pretty naive world.. One that this reality will eat up and eventually spit out. Not everything is as innocent as you think nor will it ever be. I'm sorry for being so straightforward but I really don't want to see you falling along the way to something even better than now..
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I'm glad he did it.. but the way he did it sucked
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So .. what's your thoughts?
It would have been nice if he had omitted that last paragraph .. that was kind of the knife in the back .. the rest wasn't near as bad.
At least you got him to communicate .. most people just experience the Virgo doing the ignore act.
Sorry he hurt your feelings Sad
Just think .. now you can have a first kiss again smile
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"At least you got him to communicate ... most people just experience the Virgo doing the ignore act."
I bought a ticket to go see him hoping that he would change his mind once he saw me but he refused to meet me & wouldn't even answer my calls or smses. It has been 2 months since the breakup. I still miss him a little...
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Yeah I didn't like the condescending attitude towards the end but yeah at least he was honest..
Oh well you will find another..
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"dont forget to tell him;
"THANK YOU for taking the Garbage away from my life, considering my loyal and trusting nature I would have never done it.... Ciao""
Thanks Archer I will definitely use it smile
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"Want me to kick his ass??"
I'd love to see a Virgo kick another Virgo's ass :p
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yeah , guess whose back in the matha fuckin house
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I read your post today about how that virgo dumped you. I have read that when virgos are critical that's because they care. What a way to show it.
Virgos can be so analytical. And when things dont match up to their plans, they prefer to let things be. The virgo guy that I talked to you about, we broke up the same way. I tried to see him and talked to him in person, but he refused. I always wonder why. I see your virgo did the same thing. I think he was considerate of your feelings, bc of the long distance relationship.
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"I tried to see him and talked to him in person, but he refused. I always wonder why."

You wonder why?

::boinks pattylaindia::

Because he broke up with you ..
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"You have lost nothing extraordinary"
I realise that now..
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