How can I win scorpio's heart?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by irina on Thursday, December 31, 2015 and has 3 replies.
Hi,

I am a Taurus and started working at a new company a couple months ago. There is a guy who I work with on a regular basis and he came on to me a couple of times and was flirting with me so much. Then he started approaching me sexually, I was not interested but endedup making out with him a couple of times and then I started having feelings for him. I could tell he started to fall for me, too but he doesn't want to lose control or fall in love so he denies himself everything just to stay in control. He stirs at me all day, teases and flirts all day, something has changed for him after the makeout sessions, I can tell he has fallen for me really hard and just tries to avoid me physically so he can keep a clear head.

He picks at me, teases me and has his eyes on me all day to a point that he can't even focus on his work. I am in love with him, too and I told him, he said he is really attracted to me but he doesn't want to have another break down and do something stupid. Now this emotional situation is too exhausting for me and I'm sure is for him, too.

I want to make him fall for me and chase me, but I am just too honest and confessed love way too soon. Can you guys please teach me how can play hard to get and what to say/do so he loves me and chases me. Right now he just busts at me and pick at me all day in a funny way and just acts so silly and disagree with everything I say and tries to make me jealous by telling me how everyone loves him! Please teach me tricks to make him approach me and come closer and fall in love smile What do scorpio like? How can I play hard to get, etc. thanks in advance smile
I was not interested before but now I am. He is, too but at first eveything was just a game for him to get close to me physically. Then after that, he got attached to me and you can tell he is deeply in love but doesn't want tomshow it so he plays it cool but it is still obvious that he has fallen for me. I just need to learn how I can be hard to get, etc. How can I make him come close again and confess?
Yawn... I fell asleep reading this over complicated drama...

He probably is seeing you as a pawn. Don't play games with a Scorp. He's probably not as invested in you as you think he is.

If you're interested in him then just be open and clear about it. A pointless game of smoke and mirrors is probably what he gets most of the time from daft women who pretend to play hard to get but who fail miserably. He just sits back and observes to see who are the genuine ones.
Buck the trend and just tell him you like him or something simple like that and see if he wants to go out sometime. If he runs for the hills then let him go. If he starts being a prick then let him be a prick. If he agrees then keep it simple.