How can Scorpios Handle Jealousy?

Its hard for me sometimes But I'm not violent,
How can you put up with it when a women likes your man.
I know this sounds so stupid you can't control your feeling no matter who you are.
So asking your advice to control it please?

When I get jealous it kills and hurts up inside and i try to hold it in and a few minutes later I'm going crazy.

healthy jealousy is okay as long as your not consumed by thoughts of where is he, what is he doing? who is he with?
if you think your jealousy is getting out of control, you should really sit down and and try and pinpoint where this is coming from...revaluate your relationship, is it good, has he been loyal and trustworty in the past...because severe jealousy usually comes from self consciousness and low self esteem, not feeling confident in yourself or your partner...

if a woman likes my man i usually take it as a compliment, and not worry about it...i used to trust my bf not to react to other women paying him attention, can't really say the same thing now.

btw i used to get really jealous too, as a matter of fact i still do, but the way i control it i just remind myself i have nothing to be jealous about it, [if that's the case] i don't need to be possesive of the person and that they love me and you know all that stuff.

Yeah I try that stuff but It still eats me up if you get what i mean?

By the way what happened between your guy and girls I hope I'm not getting personal by this question?

it's on the scorpio thread titled: cheaters + second chances,

i do know what you mean, usually just taking some time out for myself and focusing on other things calms me down, why is it that your jealous again?

I remember when I was experiencing extreme jealousy for the first time...I was cut up about it..thinking I wasn't normal. Why I would be feeling this way..had a real hard time dealing with it..Back then, wasn't aware of the whole astrology thing..and didn't know that it was part and parcel of who I was..Now I just keep it under wraps..it does rear its ugly head now and then..

i used to be consumed by extreme jealousy when i first met my LTR...hated that he was popular and friendly with women and they loved flirting with him.

then i realized that i can't control these women, and i can't control him. if he's going to cheat on me it'll happen regardless of whether or not i worry about it.

and the jealousy was really eating away at me, so i let it go. told myself that i'll just cross that bridge if i have to.

what i DID do, however, is sit my BF down at the time, and told him that if he ever did do anything with another woman, i am trusting that he cares about me enough to let me know. i told him that not only is it an emotional issue, but more importantly, a health one.

he understood and appreciated where i was coming from. in fact he told me something that made me feel really secure: he said that he wouldn't cheat and hide it, because HE would know and that would eat at him if he didn't tell me.

you also have to realize that jealousy is a really negative and life sucking emotion...and your energy could be put to better use in your relationship

C-L

Be confident!!!
If you are confident, you are just possessive..marking your territory.
If you're jealous, you have potential to live up to...

Trust yourself, trust your man and your relationship, let those other women envy you..you got what they want!!!!

Congrats!!!
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