How do Scorpios do this when married?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Gemitati on Thursday, June 8, 2017 and has 38 replies.
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?
I dont believ it has anything to do with the sign at all in this case. I think its literally the person and their value in the person/ relationship. My ex never brought up marriage because he said its just a paper he believes in the bond... yaddy yadda yadda smh..
Posted by treatherbetter89
I dont believ it has anything to do with the sign at all in this case. I think its literally the person and their value in the person/ relationship. My ex never brought up marriage because he said its just a paper he believes in the bond... yaddy yadda yadda smh..
Mmmmm...that wasn't a question.

I can't speak for other Scorpios, just myself.


You can't really disappear by not talking with a spouse or live in partner, as you could with people you don't live with or share a domicile with. However, I copped myself up in the bedroom for a few days with barely any interaction. I needed space to myself, by myself, without all the chatter. But I would explain to them why, before I did it.
Posted by bittercupcake
....seems like you keep trying to seek validation...from a man that doesnt even belong to you...... how would you feel once the veil is off...and the fantasy doesnt meat your reality..??.... what then.....? ....would you feel remores for betraying your husband...?
I wouldn't feel any remorses! It's much too complicated. As tooba said:Cheating is like symptoms of a deeper issue; it is not the issue itself.
Posted by Scorpio84
Gemitati are you already taken?
Twice! ?

First time 23 y ago and last 8. Which is included in 23...???
Posted by Scorpio84
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Posted by Scorpio84
Gemitati are you already taken?
Twice! ?

First time 23 y ago and last 8. Which is included in 23...???


Know what? i attract people shadows to me for odd reason

who knows what nature wouldn't bring if i met you too.
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You scaring me! ?
Posted by Scorpio84
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Posted by Scorpio84
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Scorpio84
Gemitati are you already taken?
Twice! ?

First time 23 y ago and last 8. Which is included in 23...???


Know what? i attract people shadows to me for odd reason

who knows what nature wouldn't bring if i met you too.
You scaring me! ?


That may have sounded scary but you would feel at ease with me though ^_^

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Of course! You are a Scorpio after all and I had been lately a Scorpio magnet!

I am actually pretty easy with anybody.

I am a Gemini, remember? Winking
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....seems like you keep trying to seek validation...from a man that doesnt even belong to you...... how would you feel once the veil is off...and the fantasy doesnt meat your reality..??.... what then.....? ....would you feel remores for betraying your husband...?
I wouldn't feel any remorses! It's much too complicated. As tooba said:Cheating is like symptoms of a deeper issue; it is not the issue itself.
...... but how would you feel...once you got a taste of living with the Scorpio you ben obsessed about... and hes worse than your capricorn husband?
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I know him for 8 years. We had talked about it because we are basically the same person. I said we both are dominant and who is going to be the boss? He said 'you can tell me why to do' - so I lmao bevause he is so not going to let me!

Maybe in bed...

Then we had discussed how is he going to take it when I am going to do anything around the house. Because he does EVERYTHING and I mean EVERYTHING!

He said we will figure that out.

So...I am sure it could be bad IF I wasn't totally be at his feet and catered to his every whim. I had changed 180 after we've got together. Because I know my place! And it's not going to change. I worship him. And he appreciate it.

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Gemitati are you already taken?
Twice! ?

First time 23 y ago and last 8. Which is included in 23...???


Know what? i attract people shadows to me for odd reason

who knows what nature wouldn't bring if i met you too.
You scaring me! ?


That may have sounded scary but you would feel at ease with me though ^_^

Of course! You are a Scorpio after all and I had been lately a Scorpio magnet!

I am actually pretty easy with anybody.

I am a Gemini, remember? Winking


Already imagining Gemitati talking with me like there is no tomorrow lol

right now got lot free time anyways.
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You bet!

? Let's waste your time!
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Posted by Gemitati
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?
Doesn't your scorpio disappear on his wife to see you?


So, your answer is yes.
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OMG! ??? that is a riot!

But I meant seriously.
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Posted by Gemitati
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?
Doesn't your scorpio disappear on his wife to see you?


So, your answer is yes.
OMG! ??? that is a riot!

But I meant seriously.
So did I.
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I meant a loooong dissapearance.

Got it?
Posted by Gemitati
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?
disappear how? when you use Find 'Our' Phones lol

Posted by iCloud9
Posted by Gemitati
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?
disappear how? when you use Find 'Our' Phones lol

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Imagine that doesn't work! ?

Posted by Gemitati
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?
I really dunno what I'm gonna do???
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Posted by nikkistar
I copped myself up in the bedroom for a few days
Interesting, but pretty normal if you ask me. Every person has those moments.

Is this the only reason why Scorpios disappear? It seems as if they have tons of emotions they can't really cope with, and they need time alone to adjust and go through it. But there could be other reasons why they disappear. I would love to know more. Me for example: I disappear in the beginning when I'm not really into you.


I'm very curious as there are high chances I could end up with a Scorpio as my Last. I'm talking to one for 8 months now and I noticed the disappearing pattern. She would disappear before we met, and she disappears now. I don't pry to find out why...I simply go at her pace, but this would never work in a marriage.


You disappear on me without an explanation and I will leave you for a LEO woman.



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I don't do it because of any emotional problems. Going out, or dealing with people in general, can take a huge toll on me energy wise. So I do this to essentially "recharge" my energy. It almost never deals with a person, but me just needing space to do my thing.
Posted by Gemitati
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?


Since when is it a 'nessesary dissapearing act' for a Scorpio to cheat on someone they are married to. what is it exactly that makes it necessary.


You are married to right. Let's ask about a Gemini as you find yourself in the same necessary position.


As @Capz would say...


L for the Gemini board.


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lmao!!! ah man, I didnt read anything but the title of this thread and who created it..ah man, its over for you Gem, lol he musta fawked da-sheete out of you...now ima read everything else, one sec lol
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Posted by Gemitati
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?


Since when is it a 'nessesary dissapearing act' for a Scorpio to cheat on someone they are married to. what is it exactly that makes it necessary.


You are married to right. Let's ask about a Gemini as you find yourself in the same necessary position.


As @Capz would say...


L for the Gemini board.


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lmao


Posted by bittercupcake
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Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by bittercupcake
....seems like you keep trying to seek validation...from a man that doesnt even belong to you...... how would you feel once the veil is off...and the fantasy doesnt meat your reality..??.... what then.....? ....would you feel remores for betraying your husband...?
I wouldn't feel any remorses! It's much too complicated. As tooba said:Cheating is like symptoms of a deeper issue; it is not the issue itself.
...... but how would you feel...once you got a taste of living with the Scorpio you ben obsessed about... and hes worse than your capricorn husband?
I know him for 8 years. We had talked about it because we are basically the same person. I said we both are dominant and who is going to be the boss? He said 'you can tell me why to do' - so I lmao bevause he is so not going to let me!

Maybe in bed...

Then we had discussed how is he going to take it when I am going to do anything around the house. Because he does EVERYTHING and I mean EVERYTHING!

He said we will figure that out.

So...I am sure it could be bad IF I wasn't totally be at his feet and catered to his every whim. I had changed 180 after we've got together. Because I know my place! And it's not going to change. I worship him. And he appreciate it.

..so when's he leaving the wife..?
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You not seriously expecting the answer to that right?
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Posted by bittercupcake
....seems like you keep trying to seek validation...from a man that doesnt even belong to you...... how would you feel once the veil is off...and the fantasy doesnt meat your reality..??.... what then.....? ....would you feel remores for betraying your husband...?
I wouldn't feel any remorses! It's much too complicated. As tooba said:Cheating is like symptoms of a deeper issue; it is not the issue itself.
But instead of fixing or even focusing on the issue itself, you go spread you legs for someone else.


It's called divorce.. You should look into it.


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It doesn't make sense to divorce yet.

One of us have to find where to go.

We aren't enemies. Nothing had changed for my husband. He gets what he likes the most - drink, food, TV and life is good for him! Why would I rock the boat? We both love our house. I live in my half - he has his parlor...why would o change it?

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Posted by Gemitati
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?


Since when is it a 'nessesary dissapearing act' for a Scorpio to cheat on someone they are married to. what is it exactly that makes it necessary.


You are married to right. Let's ask about a Gemini as you find yourself in the same necessary position.


As @Capz would say...


L for the Gemini board.


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You didn't get it and I am tired of explaining. It's easy to find. If you have nothing better to do go fetch.
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lmao!!! ah man, I didnt read anything but the title of this thread and who created it..ah man, its over for you Gem, lol he musta fawked da-sheete out of you...now ima read everything else, one sec lol
Another clueless grey lizard! ?
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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Gemitati
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?


Since when is it a 'nessesary dissapearing act' for a Scorpio to cheat on someone they are married to. what is it exactly that makes it necessary.


You are married to right. Let's ask about a Gemini as you find yourself in the same necessary position.


As @Capz would say...


L for the Gemini board.


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You didn't get it and I am tired of explaining. It's easy to find. If you have nothing better to do go fetch.
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I'm not stupid.


Let me rephrase your question you posed to the Scorpios.


Dear Scorpios.


Please tell Gemitati the lies you willing to spin while you out fucking the woman you not married to.

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Posted by Gemitati
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?


Since when is it a 'nessesary dissapearing act' for a Scorpio to cheat on someone they are married to. what is it exactly that makes it necessary.


You are married to right. Let's ask about a Gemini as you find yourself in the same necessary position.


As @Capz would say...


L for the Gemini board.


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You didn't get it and I am tired of explaining. It's easy to find. If you have nothing better to do go fetch.


I'm not stupid.


Let me rephrase your question you posed to the Scorpios.


Dear Scorpios.


Please tell Gemitati the lies you willing to spin while you out fucking the woman you not married to.

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You making it sound like me and woman he is not married to is 2 diff women!

???
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Gemitati
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?


Since when is it a 'nessesary dissapearing act' for a Scorpio to cheat on someone they are married to. what is it exactly that makes it necessary.


You are married to right. Let's ask about a Gemini as you find yourself in the same necessary position.


As @Capz would say...


L for the Gemini board.


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You didn't get it and I am tired of explaining. It's easy to find. If you have nothing better to do go fetch.


I'm not stupid.


Let me rephrase your question you posed to the Scorpios.


Dear Scorpios.


Please tell Gemitati the lies you willing to spin while you out fucking the woman you not married to.

You making it sound like me and woman he is not married to is 2 diff women!

???
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Which one are you married to. The Scorpio or the Capricorn?

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Posted by 13th
lmao!!! ah man, I didnt read anything but the title of this thread and who created it..ah man, its over for you Gem, lol he musta fawked da-sheete out of you...now ima read everything else, one sec lol
Another clueless grey lizard! ?
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grey lizard? oh im "un-evolved"? smh at least ask me why I made that comment Gem


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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
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Posted by Gemitati
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?


Since when is it a 'nessesary dissapearing act' for a Scorpio to cheat on someone they are married to. what is it exactly that makes it necessary.


You are married to right. Let's ask about a Gemini as you find yourself in the same necessary position.


As @Capz would say...


L for the Gemini board.


User Submitted Image

You didn't get it and I am tired of explaining. It's easy to find. If you have nothing better to do go fetch.


I'm not stupid.


Let me rephrase your question you posed to the Scorpios.


Dear Scorpios.


Please tell Gemitati the lies you willing to spin while you out fucking the woman you not married to.

You making it sound like me and woman he is not married to is 2 diff women!

???


Which one are you married to. The Scorpio or the Capricorn?

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Cap
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by 13th
lmao!!! ah man, I didnt read anything but the title of this thread and who created it..ah man, its over for you Gem, lol he musta fawked da-sheete out of you...now ima read everything else, one sec lol
Another clueless grey lizard! ?



grey lizard? oh im "un-evolved"? smh at least ask me why I made that comment Gem


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I am letting you. Ask. ???
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Posted by Gemitati
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?


Since when is it a 'nessesary dissapearing act' for a Scorpio to cheat on someone they are married to. what is it exactly that makes it necessary.


You are married to right. Let's ask about a Gemini as you find yourself in the same necessary position.


As @Capz would say...


L for the Gemini board.


User Submitted Image

You didn't get it and I am tired of explaining. It's easy to find. If you have nothing better to do go fetch.


I'm not stupid.


Let me rephrase your question you posed to the Scorpios.


Dear Scorpios.


Please tell Gemitati the lies you willing to spin while you out fucking the woman you not married to.

You making it sound like me and woman he is not married to is 2 diff women!

???


Which one are you married to. The Scorpio or the Capricorn?

Cap
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I rest my case. Like I said you asking other Scorpios to validate your sketchy Scorpios behaviour.




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Posted by 13th
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by 13th
lmao!!! ah man, I didnt read anything but the title of this thread and who created it..ah man, its over for you Gem, lol he musta fawked da-sheete out of you...now ima read everything else, one sec lol
Another clueless grey lizard! ?



grey lizard? oh im "un-evolved"? smh at least ask me why I made that comment Gem


I am letting you. Ask. ???
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I have no idea whats goin on or what youre really asking us but all I know is you are always here, talking ":scorpio" stuff...And why are u always here? cause u are in-love with a scorpio. I repeat, its over for you lol he musta fawked da-sheete out of you...If my comment makes me this stupid un-evolved grey lizard than so be it..

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Posted by Gemitati
I mean 'nessesary dissapearing act'?


When you are married - do you dissapear as well or that piece of paper have POWER?


Since when is it a 'nessesary dissapearing act' for a Scorpio to cheat on someone they are married to. what is it exactly that makes it necessary.


You are married to right. Let's ask about a Gemini as you find yourself in the same necessary position.


As @Capz would say...


L for the Gemini board.


User Submitted Image

You didn't get it and I am tired of explaining. It's easy to find. If you have nothing better to do go fetch.


I'm not stupid.


Let me rephrase your question you posed to the Scorpios.


Dear Scorpios.


Please tell Gemitati the lies you willing to spin while you out fucking the woman you not married to.

You making it sound like me and woman he is not married to is 2 diff women!

???


Which one are you married to. The Scorpio or the Capricorn?

Cap
I rest my case. Like I said you asking other Scorpios to validate your sketchy Scorpios behaviour.




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When? Where? I am just talking. Finding out stuff. You don't have an answer - butt out!
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lmao!!! ah man, I didnt read anything but the title of this thread and who created it..ah man, its over for you Gem, lol he musta fawked da-sheete out of you...now ima read everything else, one sec lol
Another clueless grey lizard! ?



grey lizard? oh im "un-evolved"? smh at least ask me why I made that comment Gem


I am letting you. Ask. ???





I have no idea whats goin on or what youre really asking us but all I know is you are always here, talking ":scorpio" stuff...And why are u always here? cause u are in-love with a scorpio. I repeat, its over for you lol he musta fawked da-sheete out of you...If my comment makes me this stupid un-evolved grey lizard than so be it..

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You are not an eagle for sure! ?
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Posted by 13th
lmao!!! ah man, I didnt read anything but the title of this thread and who created it..ah man, its over for you Gem, lol he musta fawked da-sheete out of you...now ima read everything else, one sec lol
Another clueless grey lizard! ?



grey lizard? oh im "un-evolved"? smh at least ask me why I made that comment Gem


I am letting you. Ask. ???





I have no idea whats goin on or what youre really asking us but all I know is you are always here, talking ":scorpio" stuff...And why are u always here? cause u are in-love with a scorpio. I repeat, its over for you lol he musta fawked da-sheete out of you...If my comment makes me this stupid un-evolved grey lizard than so be it..

You are not an eagle for sure! ?
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is your scorpio married/boyfriend a eagle? hahaha


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Posted by bittercupcake
....seems like you keep trying to seek validation...from a man that doesnt even belong to you...... how would you feel once the veil is off...and the fantasy doesnt meat your reality..??.... what then.....? ....would you feel remores for betraying your husband...?
I wouldn't feel any remorses! It's much too complicated. As tooba said:Cheating is like symptoms of a deeper issue; it is not the issue itself.
But instead of fixing or even focusing on the issue itself, you go spread you legs for someone else.


It's called divorce.. You should look into it.


It doesn't make sense to divorce yet.

One of us have to find where to go.

We aren't enemies. Nothing had changed for my husband. He gets what he likes the most - drink, food, TV and life is good for him! Why would I rock the boat? We both love our house. I live in my half - he has his parlor...why would o change it?

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of course it's hard to break decades of codependency so ^^^ this is what most do. most people do not have the guts (or not crazy enough for love lol) to drop what they are accustomed to, break down all the way and start from scratch. but you know what, this is also why you don't hear successful love stories often (after marriage lol)


if you have the guts to tear down your life for love, i'd tip my hat to you. seriously


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Posted by bittercupcake
....seems like you keep trying to seek validation...from a man that doesnt even belong to you...... how would you feel once the veil is off...and the fantasy doesnt meat your reality..??.... what then.....? ....would you feel remores for betraying your husband...?
I wouldn't feel any remorses! It's much too complicated. As tooba said:Cheating is like symptoms of a deeper issue; it is not the issue itself.
...... but how would you feel...once you got a taste of living with the Scorpio you ben obsessed about... and hes worse than your capricorn husband?
I know him for 8 years. We had talked about it because we are basically the same person. I said we both are dominant and who is going to be the boss? He said 'you can tell me why to do' - so I lmao bevause he is so not going to let me!

Maybe in bed...

Then we had discussed how is he going to take it when I am going to do anything around the house. Because he does EVERYTHING and I mean EVERYTHING!

He said we will figure that out.

So...I am sure it could be bad IF I wasn't totally be at his feet and catered to his every whim. I had changed 180 after we've got together. Because I know my place! And it's not going to change. I worship him. And he appreciate it.

..so when's he leaving the wife..?
You not seriously expecting the answer to that right?


...i take it...because you dont know

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Exactly. But no one is rushing. It's not an easy thing. But you can keep poking. I don't mind because I don't care! ?
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Posted by blackphase
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Posted by bittercupcake
....seems like you keep trying to seek validation...from a man that doesnt even belong to you...... how would you feel once the veil is off...and the fantasy doesnt meat your reality..??.... what then.....? ....would you feel remores for betraying your husband...?
I wouldn't feel any remorses! It's much too complicated. As tooba said:Cheating is like symptoms of a deeper issue; it is not the issue itself.
But instead of fixing or even focusing on the issue itself, you go spread you legs for someone else.


It's called divorce.. You should look into it.


It doesn't make sense to divorce yet.

One of us have to find where to go.

We aren't enemies. Nothing had changed for my husband. He gets what he likes the most - drink, food, TV and life is good for him! Why would I rock the boat? We both love our house. I live in my half - he has his parlor...why would o change it?

of course it's hard to break decades of codependency so ^^^ this is what most do. most people do not have the guts (or not crazy enough for love lol) to drop what they are accustomed to, break down all the way and start from scratch. but you know what, this is also why you don't hear successful love stories often (after marriage lol)


if you have the guts to tear down your life for love, i'd tip my hat to you. seriously


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Exactly! You said it better than I could.

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Posted by bittercupcake
....seems like you keep trying to seek validation...from a man that doesnt even belong to you...... how would you feel once the veil is off...and the fantasy doesnt meat your reality..??.... what then.....? ....would you feel remores for betraying your husband...?
I wouldn't feel any remorses! It's much too complicated. As tooba said:Cheating is like symptoms of a deeper issue; it is not the issue itself.
But instead of fixing or even focusing on the issue itself, you go spread you legs for someone else.


It's called divorce.. You should look into it.


It doesn't make sense to divorce yet.

One of us have to find where to go.

We aren't enemies. Nothing had changed for my husband. He gets what he likes the most - drink, food, TV and life is good for him! Why would I rock the boat? We both love our house. I live in my half - he has his parlor...why would o change it?

Nothing has changed for him except that his wife is cheating on him and only staying cause she fears that she will have no where to live if she divorces him. That's pretty much what I got from that..
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Who's wife? And what's your point?


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