How do u get a scorpio girl to forgive? Do i still have a chance with her?

Posted by peachy06

Others : "FoRgIvInG"

Scorpios : Suddenly I can't hear.

Posted by saggurl88

You're moving anyways right? Just leave it alone.

Scorpios don't want to be understood, but then get mad if you don't understand them.

But you betrayed the trust, so just go on with life and take it as a lesson to learn.

Posted by Onigen

Posted by saggurl88

You're moving anyways right? Just leave it alone.

Scorpios don't want to be understood, but then get mad if you don't understand them.

But you betrayed the trust, so just go on with life and take it as a lesson to learn.

Shut up you. To understand us, you let us unfold naturally. Not go behind our backs and invade our privacy. There's levels to this shit.

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Posted by DMV


Another guy actually blabbed his mouth to my friends about how I was making him feel when he can barely open his mouth in front of me. I was lowkey traumatized and humiliated.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by DMV

Another guy actually blabbed his mouth to my friends about how I was making him feel when he can barely open his mouth in front of me. I was lowkey traumatized and humiliated.

Legit one of my biggest fears.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

She trusted you enough to share about her past trauma.

You rewarded her for that trust by sharing her intimate and painful past with her friend whom didn't know this information because, wait for it, the Scorpio didn't want the friend to know.


You could apologize for a start.

But I think its pretty unlikely that she's gonna trust you again cause thats a huge breach of confidence.

I know I wouldn't...

Posted by Fanta

Sexual trauma is no joke. If she shared that with you and you spread it, why should she ever trust you again?

Posted by Fanta

Also, how much "further" did you go? You might have committed a sexual assault yourself.

Posted by Onigen

Leave certain signs alone if you don't know anything about them. You can't push your ego around with Scorpio and come out successful. We do shit on our own time when we feel like it. So you need to back off and let her have her space. Damn, that's the second time I have said that. Regardless of ANY sign, LET WOMEN HAVE THEIR SPACE!!!


You dont GET us to do anything, especially forgive. That's our choice and you cannot force it. Forgiveness is NOT a strong point with Scorpio. Secondly, keep pushing and you'll piss her off even more and she will leave you. Don't tell her to calm down. All that is is you saying she doesn't have right to her feelings. Back up. Let her cool off. If she wants, she will come back. If not, oh well. Shouldn't have been fucking up.

Posted by Kouzi

Firstly: my grammar suck so be pls be gentle.

Im a cancer leo cusp Asc ♊️ moon ♓️ ( i hate my moon cuz it make me so emotional n overthinking)

Me and this ♏️ have been dating for 6 months. The first 2 months i fucked up because i was assuming her personal life n she forgave me. Everything was going so well untill the 6th month. I have to move to another state so I tried my best to get in the relationship with her which is a dumb move. One night, she invited me to her house n drink. We play truth or drink but we both drink n chose to tell the truth, we reveal eachother secrets, i finally know that she really likes me but not enough to have a ldr or wair for me to comeback, she also told me if she’s still single when i am back then yeah, she also told me that she doesn’t want me to leave my family to comeback cuz of her. We were tipsy at the time n i fucking went for a kiss, guess what we kissed but i went further so she push me away and say : “ All men r the same, u guy only see me as a meat” i immediately stop n try to sorry her. What i did bring back her bad memories which she never told anyone even her bestfriends. She wasnt mad cuz i went further but i was so curious about her past so i went n ask 1 of her bff but the bff doesn’t want to tell me ( this is where i made the same mistake ). I ASSUMED that her bff know so i went n ask the bff if it was the FWB of the ♏️ caused the bad memories ( this is where i give away ♏️ FWB secret to her bff cuz i assumed that ♏️ told her bff about it) yep new mistake. And ♏️ found out about it, she called me with an angry tone, we talked n she told me i dont have to try to understand her( she’s right cuz i went too far n too fast even i love her) she hope that i wont make this mistake in the future and she doesnt want to talk or see me again ( she told me that she would’ve ended this even if i didnt do anything that night) i need helps, a lot of helps and advices.

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Posted by Onigen

Leave certain signs alone if you don't know anything about them. You can't push your ego around with Scorpio and come out successful. We do shit on our own time when we feel like it. So you need to back off and let her have her space. Damn, that's the second time I have said that. Regardless of ANY sign, LET WOMEN HAVE THEIR SPACE!!!


You dont GET us to do anything, especially forgive. That's our choice and you cannot force it. Forgiveness is NOT a strong point with Scorpio. Secondly, keep pushing and you'll piss her off even more and she will leave you. Don't tell her to calm down. All that is is you saying she doesn't have right to her feelings. Back up. Let her cool off. If she wants, she will come back. If not, oh well. Shouldn't have been fucking up.

I dont know if ur mad but i never force her to do anything even hanging out with me, i never text bomb her, she took hours even a day to reply but i was patiently wait and rep. We dont even text that much, mostly we text on the weekend and hangout.

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Posted by Kouzi

Ok people, thanks for y’all words. I know i fucked up cuz i care for her wayyyyy toooo much. But a friend of mine is also a ♏️, she told me that if i can show a ♏️ That i really change for the better like : spiritually, emotionally. Oh and own up to my shit without excuses, she would change her mind. I dont think ♏️ can’t forgive, it’s just the matter of time and the efforts that they see in the other person? Cuz i once lose my trust with my scorpio brother, after 2 years, he’s now looking up to me ( he never told me until recently when we had a talk). I am a really stubborn cancer so i dont want to give up, she’s the one that brought all my fears n problems out (it’s just unconsciously when we talk) n i want to face all of it. Before i know her, i’m just a coward who always run from my own shit.

You're more worried about impressing her than the fact that you backstabed her and her feelings around that.

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Sexual trauma is no joke. If she shared that with you and you spread it, why should she ever trust you again?

I didn’t know what happened, I’m thinking about rape, i hope it wasn’t. But if it was, she’s must be really mentally strong to be this open. But on the other hand, i am a Fxxking overly sensitive mofo tried to care for her but went too far by assuming things. I always thought that it was my fault that night, my behaviors lead to the bad memories is true but i thought she was mad about it n i went to ask for help from her bff and spilled her T thinking they might be able to help but nope.

It doesn't have to be rape to be traumatic. Just having a bigger, stronger person force himself on you and having to feel the fear associated with losing control of your own body and not knowing what might happen to it, is enough.


You're more concerned about your own feelings than hers. That's coming through loud and clear. You want us to be "gentle" with you, but you were not gentle, and she is still not at the uppermost of your mind. You are.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

She trusted you enough to share about her past trauma.

You rewarded her for that trust by sharing her intimate and painful past with her friend whom didn't know this information because, wait for it, the Scorpio didn't want the friend to know.


You could apologize for a start.

But I think its pretty unlikely that she's gonna trust you again cause thats a huge breach of confidence.

I know I wouldn't...

I figured that thing wont be the same when we started but is it really possible if i put efforts.

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Posted by Fanta

Posted by Kouzi

Posted by Fanta

Also, how much "further" did you go? You might have committed a sexual assault yourself.

Uhh, the kissing was fine with her but i went further by touching bla bla n bla bla. I have to admit, she wore a damn short skirt n i accidentally saw her bump when she lifted her leg ups, n i was on NoFap journey so the urges to masturbate is huge n i have feelings for her so i did that. No excuses tho its just what happened to me. Should’ve ask her but didn’t.

OMG, you actually mentioned that she was wearing that short skirt and all. Dude, fuck you.

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Posted by Dastard2020

You fucked everything up. You might as well fuck off and go on your merry way. And while you're it, pick up a grammar book to help you with that atrocious paragraph structure.

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Sexual trauma is no joke. If she shared that with you and you spread it, why should she ever trust you again?

I didn’t know what happened, I’m thinking about rape, i hope it wasn’t. But if it was, she’s must be really mentally strong to be this open. But on the other hand, i am a Fxxking overly sensitive mofo tried to care for her but went too far by assuming things. I always thought that it was my fault that night, my behaviors lead to the bad memories is true but i thought she was mad about it n i went to ask for help from her bff and spilled her T thinking they might be able to help but nope.

It doesn't have to be rape to be traumatic. Just having a bigger, stronger person force himself on you and having to feel the fear associated with losing control of your own body and not knowing what might happen to it, is enough.


You're more concerned about your own feelings than hers. That's coming through loud and clear. You want us to be "gentle" with you, but you were not gentle, and she is still not at the uppermost of your mind. You are.

First, im skinny n 5’8, she’s average n 5’4. I wasnt even forcing her. Im not even on her.


Im concerned about my feeling? Ok I’ll take that but I usually unconsciously pick up on other feelings so i didnt know if i was confuse by the feelings that i picked up( im still young, still learning, still growing) im trying to understand myself, see where im doing wrong to fix n learn from it.

Yes i did ask u guy to be gentle with my English grammar not what i ‘ve done.

I was explaining that it doesn't have to be a consummated rape to be traumatic. She told you what caused her reaction, but she shouldn't even need to do that. Simply telling you no should be enough. It's way out of line to question it or go looking for corroboration or more information about it.

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Also, how much "further" did you go? You might have committed a sexual assault yourself.

Uhh, the kissing was fine with her but i went further by touching bla bla n bla bla. I have to admit, she wore a damn short skirt n i accidentally saw her bump when she lifted her leg ups, n i was on NoFap journey so the urges to masturbate is huge n i have feelings for her so i did that. No excuses tho its just what happened to me. Should’ve ask her but didn’t.

OMG, you actually mentioned that she was wearing that short skirt and all. Dude, fuck you.

What else can i say? Lie about it? Im asking for advices and trying to be as honest as possible, i told her the samething, she didnt even give a f about it. Im owning up to my shit, why would i be afraid?

You could acknowledge that those are excuses and don't matter.

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Posted by Fanta

Sexual trauma is no joke. If she shared that with you and you spread it, why should she ever trust you again?

I didn’t know what happened, I’m thinking about rape, i hope it wasn’t. But if it was, she’s must be really mentally strong to be this open. But on the other hand, i am a Fxxking overly sensitive mofo tried to care for her but went too far by assuming things. I always thought that it was my fault that night, my behaviors lead to the bad memories is true but i thought she was mad about it n i went to ask for help from her bff and spilled her T thinking they might be able to help but nope.

It doesn't have to be rape to be traumatic. Just having a bigger, stronger person force himself on you and having to feel the fear associated with losing control of your own body and not knowing what might happen to it, is enough.


You're more concerned about your own feelings than hers. That's coming through loud and clear. You want us to be "gentle" with you, but you were not gentle, and she is still not at the uppermost of your mind. You are.

First, im skinny n 5’8, she’s average n 5’4. I wasnt even forcing her. Im not even on her.


Im concerned about my feeling? Ok I’ll take that but I usually unconsciously pick up on other feelings so i didnt know if i was confuse by the feelings that i picked up( im still young, still learning, still growing) im trying to understand myself, see where im doing wrong to fix n learn from it.

Yes i did ask u guy to be gentle with my English grammar not what i ‘ve done.

I was explaining that it doesn't have to be a consummated rape to be traumatic. She told you what caused her reaction, but she shouldn't even need to do that. Simply telling you no should be enough. It's way out of line to question it or go looking for corroboration or more information about it.

Yes sir or ma’am.

Just leave her alone. You clearly don't get it.

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Posted by Onigen

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Posted by Onigen

Leave certain signs alone if you don't know anything about them. You can't push your ego around with Scorpio and come out successful. We do shit on our own time when we feel like it. So you need to back off and let her have her space. Damn, that's the second time I have said that. Regardless of ANY sign, LET WOMEN HAVE THEIR SPACE!!!


You dont GET us to do anything, especially forgive. That's our choice and you cannot force it. Forgiveness is NOT a strong point with Scorpio. Secondly, keep pushing and you'll piss her off even more and she will leave you. Don't tell her to calm down. All that is is you saying she doesn't have right to her feelings. Back up. Let her cool off. If she wants, she will come back. If not, oh well. Shouldn't have been fucking up.

I dont know if ur mad but i never force her to do anything even hanging out with me, i never text bomb her, she took hours even a day to reply but i was patiently wait and rep. We dont even text that much, mostly we text on the weekend and hangout.

Boy i don't care about your life story. You missed the whole point.

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Posted by PhoenixStorm

Some men are worse than women when it comes to running their mouth.


She will probably forgive you for going behind her back and doing this, but trusting you again is highly unlikely. Contrary to popular belief, we are very forgiving after given time to cool down.. but earning a scorpios trust is difficult enough as it is...after you’ve betrayed it once, don’t hold your breath.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

She trusted you enough to share about her past trauma.

You rewarded her for that trust by sharing her intimate and painful past with her friend whom didn't know this information because, wait for it, the Scorpio didn't want the friend to know.


You could apologize for a start.

But I think its pretty unlikely that she's gonna trust you again cause thats a huge breach of confidence.

I know I wouldn't...

I figured that thing wont be the same when we started but is it really possible if i put efforts.

Start by showing remorse for your actions. Apologize.

And apologize without the expectation that you’ll gain something more from this.

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Also, how much "further" did you go? You might have committed a sexual assault yourself.

Uhh, the kissing was fine with her but i went further by touching bla bla n bla bla. I have to admit, she wore a damn short skirt n i accidentally saw her bump when she lifted her leg ups, n i was on NoFap journey so the urges to masturbate is huge n i have feelings for her so i did that. No excuses tho its just what happened to me. Should’ve ask her but didn’t.

OMG, you actually mentioned that she was wearing that short skirt and all. Dude, fuck you.

What else can i say? Lie about it? Im asking for advices and trying to be as honest as possible, i told her the samething, she didnt even give a f about it. Im owning up to my shit, why would i be afraid?

You could acknowledge that those are excuses and don't matter.

I dont think that those are excuses at all, im just explaining why i did that to her. People always misunderstand me for having too much excuses when im owing up my shitt. I only have excuses when im trying to lie about what i’ve done.

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Also, how much "further" did you go? You might have committed a sexual assault yourself.

Uhh, the kissing was fine with her but i went further by touching bla bla n bla bla. I have to admit, she wore a damn short skirt n i accidentally saw her bump when she lifted her leg ups, n i was on NoFap journey so the urges to masturbate is huge n i have feelings for her so i did that. No excuses tho its just what happened to me. Should’ve ask her but didn’t.

OMG, you actually mentioned that she was wearing that short skirt and all. Dude, fuck you.

What else can i say? Lie about it? Im asking for advices and trying to be as honest as possible, i told her the samething, she didnt even give a f about it. Im owning up to my shit, why would i be afraid?

You could acknowledge that those are excuses and don't matter.

I dont think that those are excuses at all, im just explaining why i did that to her. People always misunderstand me for having too much excuses when im owing up my shitt. I only have excuses when im trying to lie about what i’ve done.

Just move on, stupid.


Your focus was completely on what you and your cock wanted, what you felt, blah blah blah. And now your focus is on justifying your actions and selfish disregard for her feelings.


Everyone here is trying their best to drill into your head that you should leave the girl alone. Yet here you are trying to gather sympathy by babbling pathetic excuses nobody except yourself is interested in. Goes to show that you can't reason with a donkey.

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Also, how much "further" did you go? You might have committed a sexual assault yourself.

Uhh, the kissing was fine with her but i went further by touching bla bla n bla bla. I have to admit, she wore a damn short skirt n i accidentally saw her bump when she lifted her leg ups, n i was on NoFap journey so the urges to masturbate is huge n i have feelings for her so i did that. No excuses tho its just what happened to me. Should’ve ask her but didn’t.

OMG, you actually mentioned that she was wearing that short skirt and all. Dude, fuck you.

What else can i say? Lie about it? Im asking for advices and trying to be as honest as possible, i told her the samething, she didnt even give a f about it. Im owning up to my shit, why would i be afraid?

You could acknowledge that those are excuses and don't matter.

I dont think that those are excuses at all, im just explaining why i did that to her. People always misunderstand me for having too much excuses when im owing up my shitt. I only have excuses when im trying to lie about what i’ve done.

Just move on, stupid.


Your focus was completely on what you and your cock wanted, what you felt, blah blah blah. And now your focus is on justifying your actions and selfish disregard for her feelings.


Everyone here is trying their best to drill into your head that you should leave the girl alone. Yet here you are trying to gather sympathy by babbling pathetic excuses nobody except yourself is interested in. Goes to show that you can't reason with a donkey.

Thanks again but still a no from me.

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Posted by Onigen

Leave certain signs alone if you don't know anything about them. You can't push your ego around with Scorpio and come out successful. We do shit on our own time when we feel like it. So you need to back off and let her have her space. Damn, that's the second time I have said that. Regardless of ANY sign, LET WOMEN HAVE THEIR SPACE!!!


You dont GET us to do anything, especially forgive. That's our choice and you cannot force it. Forgiveness is NOT a strong point with Scorpio. Secondly, keep pushing and you'll piss her off even more and she will leave you. Don't tell her to calm down. All that is is you saying she doesn't have right to her feelings. Back up. Let her cool off. If she wants, she will come back. If not, oh well. Shouldn't have been fucking up.

I dont know if ur mad but i never force her to do anything even hanging out with me, i never text bomb her, she took hours even a day to reply but i was patiently wait and rep. We dont even text that much, mostly we text on the weekend and hangout.

Boy i don't care about your life story. You missed the whole point.

Thanks but i dont think i did.

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Posted by Kouzi

Ok people, thanks for y’all words. I know i fucked up cuz i care for her wayyyyy toooo much. But a friend of mine is also a ♏️, she told me that if i can show a ♏️ That i really change for the better like : spiritually, emotionally. Oh and own up to my shit without excuses, she would change her mind. I dont think ♏️ can’t forgive, it’s just the matter of time and the efforts that they see in the other person? Cuz i once lose my trust with my scorpio brother, after 2 years, he’s now looking up to me ( he never told me until recently when we had a talk). I am a really stubborn cancer so i dont want to give up, she’s the one that brought all my fears n problems out (it’s just unconsciously when we talk) n i want to face all of it. Before i know her, i’m just a coward who always run from my own shit.

Posted by PhoenixStorm

Some men are worse than women when it comes to running their mouth.


She will probably forgive you for going behind her back and doing this, but trusting you again is highly unlikely. Contrary to popular belief, we are very forgiving after given time to cool down.. but earning a scorpios trust is difficult enough as it is...after you’ve betrayed it once, don’t hold your breath.

Posted by Dastard2020

You fucked everything up. You might as well fuck off and go on your merry way. And while you're it, pick up a grammar book to help you with that atrocious paragraph structure.

Posted by Dastard2020

You fucked everything up. You might as well fuck off and go on your merry way. And while you're it, pick up a grammar book to help you with that atrocious paragraph structure.

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Posted by Dastard2020

You fucked everything up. You might as well fuck off and go on your merry way. And while you're it, pick up a grammar book to help you with that atrocious paragraph structure.

Not everyone is form the U.S. or U.K. !!!!!!


geez!

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Posted by Dastard2020

You fucked everything up. You might as well fuck off and go on your merry way. And while you're it, pick up a grammar book to help you with that atrocious paragraph structure.

Not everyone is form the U.S. or U.K. !!!!!!


geez!

Dastard is originally not from the US or the UK lmao

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Posted by Dastard2020

You fucked everything up. You might as well fuck off and go on your merry way. And while you're it, pick up a grammar book to help you with that atrocious paragraph structure.

Not everyone is form the U.S. or U.K. !!!!!!


geez!

Dastard is originally not from the US or the UK lmao

I wonder why is he criticizing ..hm?

haha

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Posted by Dastard2020

You fucked everything up. You might as well fuck off and go on your merry way. And while you're it, pick up a grammar book to help you with that atrocious paragraph structure.

Not everyone is form the U.S. or U.K. !!!!!!


geez!

Dastard is originally not from the US or the UK lmao

I wonder why is he criticizing ..hm?

haha

Because his grammar isn't a mess?

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Posted by PhoenixStorm

Some men are worse than women when it comes to running their mouth.


She will probably forgive you for going behind her back and doing this, but trusting you again is highly unlikely. Contrary to popular belief, we are very forgiving after given time to cool down.. but earning a scorpios trust is difficult enough as it is...after you’ve betrayed it once, don’t hold your breath.

I figured it wont be the same. My brother forgive me but he never forget what i did but i tried my best n now he’s looking up to me. I really have no expectations if she forgive me. What come will come.

You already have a thing w/ breaking the trust of people with this energy. my take is you're dealing w your own karma.


Didn't learn your lesson w your brother (+maybe there were other people w/ scorp or pluto energy who put themselves out there for you and you dropped the ball) You got another opportunity with this scorp, you repeated the pattern.


You are behaving from subconscious stuff, attached to this energy.


Think about it. Now you may repeat this same pattern w/ her and it'l take her two years (at least) to *maybe* forgive you.


If you can think of other people in your life who've either offered their trust and you've taken it for granted, misunderstood, dropped the ball or they just "out of the blue" got mad at you for something along the lines of trust, you maybe have some inner digging to do..

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Posted by Chessmess

I see a lot of angry idiots getting all worked up by this post...


haha

Posted by dillpickle

dang double mutables coming thru, once again, w/ the lack of boundaries.

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Posted by Chessmess

I see a lot of angry idiots getting all worked up by this post...


haha

Haha, ur the best

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