How do you feel about.:Your BF/BF talking to an EX

I was talking to my new girl, and she told me she had an argument with an ex who apparently called her "Fake" on twitter or some sh!t. Anyway, my first thought was "Why would someone you broke up with 2 years ago (according to her) would just randomly call you "Fake" out of no where...?" But I let it go and kept on with the convo..I guess she meant it to be funny by the time she finished telling me the story but since I gave probably the worse fake laugh in history, she quickly progressed the convo forward. So with all that said, that's how this question popped into my head. I'm just wondering how other Scorps feel about this subject...

Posted by ScorpioMackin
I was talking to my new girl, and she told me she had an argument with an ex who apparently called her "Fake" on twitter or some sh!t. Anyway, my first thought was "Why would someone you broke up with 2 years ago (according to her) would just randomly call you "Fake" out of no where...?" But I let it go and kept on with the convo..I guess she meant it to be funny by the time she finished telling me the story but since I gave probably the worse fake laugh in history, she quickly progressed the convo forward. So with all that said, that's how this question popped into my head. I'm just wondering how other Scorps feel about this subject...

Not a Scorpio, Gemini here just thought I would comment.

I really, really dislike it when the person I am dating is still speaking to their ex. They are an ex FOR A FUCKING REASON! I don't get what they have to say now that they couldn't say then when they were involved with each other? I have made the mistake of not really looking into it further once a red flag pops up about the exes. And sure enough what happens? They were never really over that person in the first place.

Ugh if I had a dollar for every time that has happened, I'd be rich bitch!

I get that some people continue to be friends but to me it's a black or white deal. After we break up we are amicable, great. Hi and bye. But nothing more than that. I guarantee she's been talking to him. Why would he come out of no where and go "You're fake."

Posted by Xin

Posted by ScorpioMackin
I was talking to my new girl, and she told me she had an argument with an ex who apparently called her "Fake" on twitter or some sh!t. Anyway, my first thought was "Why would someone you broke up with 2 years ago (according to her) would just randomly call you "Fake" out of no where...?" But I let it go and kept on with the convo..I guess she meant it to be funny by the time she finished telling me the story but since I gave probably the worse fake laugh in history, she quickly progressed the convo forward. So with all that said, that's how this question popped into my head. I'm just wondering how other Scorps feel about this subject...

I get that some people continue to be friends but to me it's a black or white deal. After we break up we are amicable, great. Hi and bye. But nothing more than that. I guarantee she's been talking to him. Why would he come out of no where and go "You're fake."

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Hmm this could be true. I know I don't get the best of feelings when my SO talks about their ex. Makes me feel like there is unresolved issues...and there usually is

@Xin- I completely agree. I've been through something similar which is why that whole "Fake" line caught my ear. But I know i'm controlling and jealous so alot of times, I have a hard time knowing when to go off and when i'm tripping if that makes sense. I was sure she had to be talkin to him because like you said..it makes no sense for him to come out of no where with it. I don't plan to trip though...I was going to avoid the whole testing thing Scorpios do with their significant others but it seems to be required at this point lol...

lol @ the fakest laugh in history

bwahahaha. i give my left tit to see your face and hear that laugh.

all jokes aside, what they got to talk about enough that he can call her fake? did u ask her why he thinks that she is fake?

Posted by DMV
lol @ the fakest laugh in history

bwahahaha. i give my left tit to see your face and hear that laugh.

all jokes aside, what they got to talk about enough that he can call her fake? did u ask her why he thinks that she is fake?

I'm trying to show a little trust here. I really can't tell when I'm on my Scorpio shit and when its time to throw some sh!t at the fan...But to answer your question..No, I didn't ask.

Why is she even telling you that? Little girl games. And you're feeding right into them.


Im grown, don't have to deal with stuff like that. No guy I've been in a relationship has ever really mentioned exes. If I'm in a relationship to begin with, I already know the guy isn't thinking about any ex. He's with me, afterall. So silly to feel threatened by stupid stuff like that when you know what you bring to the table.

And if you are worried, you need to step your own self up.

Your mind doesn't question that same things as mine .... you would want to know why she has a need to talk to him, and to conclude that the talk must be often in order for him to have that opinion ... whereas my mind .....



.. would question why a woman feels the need to tell her current boyfriend that she has men on the side she talks to.



Is she trying to get a reaction?

The normal person would avoid the possibility of a confrontation if the potential existed for injured feelings.

Yet, she had no qualms in telling you something that could have created an ugly situation ... why?

Perhaps, you've pulled yourself back too far .... and this is her testing you, to see if you feel enough for her to care

@ MsPisces- No, I'm not worried about it at all. She hasn't been with me long enough for me to really care too much. I just found it wierd.

@P-Angel- Thats an interesting angle...but I haven't pulled back. I really like her and I let her know so I don't know why she'd feel i'm being distant.

Anyway, live up to your name and stop posting on messageboards about little girl stuff lol!

oo what sign is she?

Posted by MsPisces.
Anyway, live up to your name and stop posting on messageboards about little girl stuff lol!

FYI, this thread is a general discussion. I'm not looking for advice..especially from a Pisces...-____-

Posted by DMV
oo what sign is she?

Aquarius

Posted by ScorpioMackin

Posted by MsPisces.
Anyway, live up to your name and stop posting on messageboards about little girl stuff lol!

FYI, this thread is a general discussion. I'm not looking for advice..especially from a Pisces...-____-

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Okay pimpin!

lol

aww aqua and a scorp... good for you.


i say brush it off your shoulders and if it happens again, THEN take action.

Posted by DMV
aww aqua and a scorp... good for you.


i say brush it off your shoulders and if it happens again, THEN take action.

Thats the plan, just sit back in watch for awhile and make a mental note of this for future reference.

Posted by ellybd
I know for me I used to be crazy jealous over any of my ex's talking to any oftheir exes. And it was always for one of two reasons that always ended up being 100% true. 1) their ex was not over them and my s/o dug the attention for either narcissitic reasons or not over the ex reasons or 2) I was not trusting/secure enough in myself to deal with what seemed like past competition. A few times it was both.

I think any scorp is liable to feel some nervousness at the start of something new. Just file it away under duly noted. But don't get paranoid or any of that till there's more evidence. That's what I have learned to do. Lotsa times scorps tend to make mountains out of molehills in romantic relationships beginning.

Yeah, I totally agree...I'm trying to keep my Scorpio in check. I do tend to make an issue out of small things sometimes. Alot of times, I won't realize it until after the fact. So I try to sit on my issues for a moment..ya know? Really think about them and determine just how bothered I am. If I decided i'm bothered then i bring it up. Helps filter some of my own BS...