How does someone with Scorpio Venus & Mars act when they like someone?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Radar on Saturday, May 11, 2019 and has 33 replies.
Does it differ depending on gender or religious background?
I have a Scorpio Venus and am very private and cautious with my feelings until I feel secure.

As far as initially dating, I go for them full force (Leo Mars) and try my luck. My Venus comes more into play once I’ve develop feelings for them. That’s when I’m jealous, somewhat possessive and very loving towards them.

I’m unsure of how a Scorpio Mars shows interest but I think Mars is the initial action and Venus is when love sets in. At least that’s how it is for me.
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I'm just a Scorpio venus, but that thread was already done before.

Anyway I'm just going to answer the same. Get ready for a looooooooooong ride.
idk if this is good or bad? 😂

do you mean that they'll stalk you for a long time?
Posted by peachy06

I'm just a Scorpio venus, but that thread was already done before.

Anyway I'm just going to answer the same. Get ready for a looooooooooong ride.
What do you think about what I wrote? We have the same placements but you are pretty reserved from the other Scorpio girl I play around with here. I’m starting to see how the rx on your sign is. You’re kind of serious though. Is that your Sag moon?
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Posted by peachy06

I'm just a Scorpio venus, but that thread was already done before.

Anyway I'm just going to answer the same. Get ready for a looooooooooong ride.
idk if this is good or bad? 😂

do you mean that they'll stalk you for a long time?
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She can answer too but I think that has to do with sun sign. I get bored with stalking someone. I can only see so much before I get impatient and just want to meet up.
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Posted by peachy06

I'm just a Scorpio venus, but that thread was already done before.

Anyway I'm just going to answer the same. Get ready for a looooooooooong ride.
idk if this is good or bad? 😂

do you mean that they'll stalk you for a long time?
She can answer too but I think that has to do with sun sign. I get bored with stalking someone. I can only see so much before I get impatient and just want to meet up.
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Interesting. I really wish we had a thread on how religion interacts with astrology though. Like a Sag Mars who's also a virgin until marriage wouldn't be promiscuous like the planet states right?
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Posted by peachy06

I'm just a Scorpio venus, but that thread was already done before.

Anyway I'm just going to answer the same. Get ready for a looooooooooong ride.
idk if this is good or bad? 😂

do you mean that they'll stalk you for a long time?
She can answer too but I think that has to do with sun sign. I get bored with stalking someone. I can only see so much before I get impatient and just want to meet up.
Interesting. I really wish we had a thread on how religion interacts with astrology though. Like a Sag Mars who's also a virgin until marriage wouldn't be promiscuous like the planet states right?
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No placements are like the websites state unless they want to be like that. When any sign is in love, they usually are pretty loyal. I’ve been with a Scorpio who had a Sag Venus (Known for sleeping with anyone and everything) and he wasn’t like that at all. Just a regular guy who loved me and enjoyed a variety or stuff with sex.

You shouldn’t read too much into what someone “can” be like. Astrology is more like a guideline to what a person likes or how they view things. Cheating and hoeing around is a choice and you can probably tell how a person in once you start getting to know them.

With both Sag and Scorpio placements, we are loyal when in love. We just have to get there first.
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Posted by peachy06

I'm just a Scorpio venus, but that thread was already done before.

Anyway I'm just going to answer the same. Get ready for a looooooooooong ride.
idk if this is good or bad? 😂

do you mean that they'll stalk you for a long time?
She can answer too but I think that has to do with sun sign. I get bored with stalking someone. I can only see so much before I get impatient and just want to meet up.
Impatience is probably your Leo Mars 😂😂
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I know it is. I’m forever losing my patience when I’m interested in someone lol. It’s like “oh ok, I see how it is, nevermind then” 😅
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Posted by peachy06

I'm just a Scorpio venus, but that thread was already done before.

Anyway I'm just going to answer the same. Get ready for a looooooooooong ride.
What do you think about what I wrote? We have the same placements but you are pretty reserved from the other Scorpio girl I play around with here. I’m starting to see how the rx on your sign is. You’re kind of serious though. Is that your Sag moon?
How could you possibly know who I am without actually knowing me ? I'm not that serious.
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Oh, I guess I should have asked that instead of writing it as a statement, I was writing my observation of you based on this site. You as a Scorpio seem pretty reserve, so I was wondering if it had to do with your retro Venus. If you aren't then disregard that comment.

Are you gonna answer the other stuff? I was wondering if you agree to it even though we have different suns.
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Get yourself a handgun for self-defense, it's only a matter of time.

Good luck, it was nice knowing you.


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Posted by peachy06

I'm just a Scorpio venus, but that thread was already done before.

Anyway I'm just going to answer the same. Get ready for a looooooooooong ride.
What do you think about what I wrote? We have the same placements but you are pretty reserved from the other Scorpio girl I play around with here. I’m starting to see how the rx on your sign is. You’re kind of serious though. Is that your Sag moon?
How could you possibly know who I am without actually knowing me ? I'm not that serious.
Oh, I guess I should have asked that instead of writing it as a statement, I was writing my observation of you based on this site. You as a Scorpio seem pretty reserve, so I was wondering if it had to do with your retro Venus. If you aren't then disregard that comment.

Are you gonna answer the other stuff? I was wondering if you agree to it even though we have different suns.
Well if you want to know then yes you aren't completely wrong, I'm reserved and can be serious about certain things or topics. However I can go crazy too if I want (sag moon) and if you actually read most of the stuff I write here, you should've noticed that I spend most of my time trolling other users.

As for the other "stuff" you wrote I agree. I didn't know you have a leo mars and I could relate. Venus in Scorpio : Reserved and careful about my feelings but also another dark part here that I don't want to talk about on this forum (maybe it has to do with my Rx)

Leo mars : But forceful when I want someone or something (I would keep pushing until I get it)

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Sorry, I know Scorpios don't like being "figured out" I was just writing what I noticed, I'm sure there is way more to you as a person offline. You don't come on here a lot for me too see how you troll, I usually catch you answering things in passing. You're not a typical "All Day Poster" -Obviously you have a life lol

Yes I agree with what you said and am now aware that you are more important to me in my life, than I am in yours, since you didn't remember we have the same love placements Crying



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Posted by peachy06

I'm just a Scorpio venus, but that thread was already done before.

Anyway I'm just going to answer the same. Get ready for a looooooooooong ride.
What do you think about what I wrote? We have the same placements but you are pretty reserved from the other Scorpio girl I play around with here. I’m starting to see how the rx on your sign is. You’re kind of serious though. Is that your Sag moon?
How could you possibly know who I am without actually knowing me ? I'm not that serious.
Oh, I guess I should have asked that instead of writing it as a statement, I was writing my observation of you based on this site. You as a Scorpio seem pretty reserve, so I was wondering if it had to do with your retro Venus. If you aren't then disregard that comment.

Are you gonna answer the other stuff? I was wondering if you agree to it even though we have different suns.
Well if you want to know then yes you aren't completely wrong, I'm reserved and can be serious about certain things or topics. However I can go crazy too if I want (sag moon) and if you actually read most of the stuff I write here, you should've noticed that I spend most of my time trolling other users.

As for the other "stuff" you wrote I agree. I didn't know you have a leo mars and I could relate. Venus in Scorpio : Reserved and careful about my feelings but also another dark part here that I don't want to talk about on this forum (maybe it has to do with my Rx)

Leo mars : But forceful when I want someone or something (I would keep pushing until I get it)

Sorry, I know Scorpios don't like being "figured out" I was just writing what I noticed, I'm sure there is way more to you as a person offline. You don't come on here a lot for me too see how you troll, I usually catch you answering things in passing. You're not a typical "All Day Poster" -Obviously you have a life lol

Yes I agree with what you said and am now aware that you are more important to me in my life, than I am in yours, since you didn't remember we have the same love placements Crying



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Don't apologize, it's okay. I almost come here everyday (when I'm not busy of course) but it's fine lol.

Loool the last part, I barely remember you actually, I just remember your pp. Except the "old" ones I don't remember about anybody on this website.
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You remember my pp? lol What is that? It can't be what I'm thinking. My mind stays pretty close to the gutter at all times Big Grin

I apologized cause I don't like judging and people taking it offensively, It was more of an observation and I should've asked instead of writing it like a statement or a fact smile So it was my fault, sometimes my curiosity over rides my typing and i don't think clearly.
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Posted by peachy06

I'm just a Scorpio venus, but that thread was already done before.

Anyway I'm just going to answer the same. Get ready for a looooooooooong ride.
What do you think about what I wrote? We have the same placements but you are pretty reserved from the other Scorpio girl I play around with here. I’m starting to see how the rx on your sign is. You’re kind of serious though. Is that your Sag moon?
How could you possibly know who I am without actually knowing me ? I'm not that serious.
Oh, I guess I should have asked that instead of writing it as a statement, I was writing my observation of you based on this site. You as a Scorpio seem pretty reserve, so I was wondering if it had to do with your retro Venus. If you aren't then disregard that comment.

Are you gonna answer the other stuff? I was wondering if you agree to it even though we have different suns.
Well if you want to know then yes you aren't completely wrong, I'm reserved and can be serious about certain things or topics. However I can go crazy too if I want (sag moon) and if you actually read most of the stuff I write here, you should've noticed that I spend most of my time trolling other users.

As for the other "stuff" you wrote I agree. I didn't know you have a leo mars and I could relate. Venus in Scorpio : Reserved and careful about my feelings but also another dark part here that I don't want to talk about on this forum (maybe it has to do with my Rx)

Leo mars : But forceful when I want someone or something (I would keep pushing until I get it)

Sorry, I know Scorpios don't like being "figured out" I was just writing what I noticed, I'm sure there is way more to you as a person offline. You don't come on here a lot for me too see how you troll, I usually catch you answering things in passing. You're not a typical "All Day Poster" -Obviously you have a life lol

Yes I agree with what you said and am now aware that you are more important to me in my life, than I am in yours, since you didn't remember we have the same love placements Crying



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Don't apologize, it's okay. I almost come here everyday (when I'm not busy of course) but it's fine lol.

Loool the last part, I barely remember you actually, I just remember your pp. Except the "old" ones I don't remember about anybody on this website.
You remember my pp? lol What is that? It can't be what I'm thinking. My mind stays pretty close to the gutter at all times Big Grin

I apologized cause I don't like judging and people taking it offensively, It was more of an observation and I should've asked instead of writing it like a statement or a fact smile So it was my fault, sometimes my curiosity over rides my typing and i don't think clearly.
Yes your profile picture, I remember it. smile

Told you it was fine, I personally didn't feel offended. I was kinda surprised, but it's fine, really.

I can tell your a Sag though, you really express yourself like one.
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Oh! lol I see. I didn't know what that was, sometimes I can be a little dense when it comes to acronyms. Takes too much thinking to figure out what it can mean. I'm too literal.

Sometimes it's fun to surprise people. I won't get creepy with you cause you don't reciprocate Big Grin Maybe that's why I took you as the serious type too. You ignore my shenanigans.
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Posted by peachy06

I'm just a Scorpio venus, but that thread was already done before.

Anyway I'm just going to answer the same. Get ready for a looooooooooong ride.
What do you think about what I wrote? We have the same placements but you are pretty reserved from the other Scorpio girl I play around with here. I’m starting to see how the rx on your sign is. You’re kind of serious though. Is that your Sag moon?
How could you possibly know who I am without actually knowing me ? I'm not that serious.
Oh, I guess I should have asked that instead of writing it as a statement, I was writing my observation of you based on this site. You as a Scorpio seem pretty reserve, so I was wondering if it had to do with your retro Venus. If you aren't then disregard that comment.

Are you gonna answer the other stuff? I was wondering if you agree to it even though we have different suns.
Well if you want to know then yes you aren't completely wrong, I'm reserved and can be serious about certain things or topics. However I can go crazy too if I want (sag moon) and if you actually read most of the stuff I write here, you should've noticed that I spend most of my time trolling other users.

As for the other "stuff" you wrote I agree. I didn't know you have a leo mars and I could relate. Venus in Scorpio : Reserved and careful about my feelings but also another dark part here that I don't want to talk about on this forum (maybe it has to do with my Rx)

Leo mars : But forceful when I want someone or something (I would keep pushing until I get it)

Sorry, I know Scorpios don't like being "figured out" I was just writing what I noticed, I'm sure there is way more to you as a person offline. You don't come on here a lot for me too see how you troll, I usually catch you answering things in passing. You're not a typical "All Day Poster" -Obviously you have a life lol

Yes I agree with what you said and am now aware that you are more important to me in my life, than I am in yours, since you didn't remember we have the same love placements Crying



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Don't apologize, it's okay. I almost come here everyday (when I'm not busy of course) but it's fine lol.

Loool the last part, I barely remember you actually, I just remember your pp. Except the "old" ones I don't remember about anybody on this website.
You remember my pp? lol What is that? It can't be what I'm thinking. My mind stays pretty close to the gutter at all times Big Grin

I apologized cause I don't like judging and people taking it offensively, It was more of an observation and I should've asked instead of writing it like a statement or a fact smile So it was my fault, sometimes my curiosity over rides my typing and i don't think clearly.
Yes your profile picture, I remember it. smile

Told you it was fine, I personally didn't feel offended. I was kinda surprised, but it's fine, really.

I can tell your a Sag though, you really express yourself like one.
Oh! lol I see. I didn't know what that was, sometimes I can be a little dense when it comes to acronyms. Takes too much thinking to figure out what it can mean. I'm too literal.

Sometimes it's fun to surprise people. I won't get creepy with you cause you don't reciprocate Big Grin Maybe that's why I took you as the serious type too. You ignore my shenanigans.
I'm sorry but I really don't understand anything you say ? What shenanigans ? Plus, I don't think you're "creepy" ??? I get more a playful vibe from you.
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lol I was talking about me flirting. I randomly flirt with both sexes cause I like doing it. You don't bother with me when I do, so I know my boundaries with you. Most people don't give a crap. Either way it's fine.

Anyways, I've derailed this thread enough. I was mainly wondering if you agreed with what I was saying, while having a retrograde Venus. I'm still trying to get a full understanding of how retrograde Venuses affect a person.

You have answered it though.
Scorpio Venus

Cap Mars

I rarely fall hard, I may play with you for attention (see sun and moon sign)

If I love you, its none of your business.
To skip to overlays for a sec, does a Scorpio Venus landing in a partner's house also behave more intensely than normal in finding that person attractive? I figure that the Scorpio aspect would probably change the nature of anything it touches.
all scorps ive dealt with are like a tunnel vision bullett train towards their target. they are the one zodiac sign i would say who can flirt and hit on people and does more directly than other signs. If theyre unsure they may be cautious and dip their toes in lightly, once they get a green light they're ON.
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I'm just a Scorpio venus, but that thread was already done before.

Anyway I'm just going to answer the same. Get ready for a looooooooooong ride.
Does that mean In dating? Or before meeting? Guy I’m dating is confusing me. But it’s possible it’s a long ride.. he also got really sexual quickly, says he’s comfortable, but just little bits of feelings show and lots of effort talking/texting but not getting together unless he’s in a mood 😉

@sag898 input?
Both before and after. Your confusion will probably never stop haha. Scorpio alone is an unpredictable sign, so I can let you imagine with both of these placements...
Lol he has a lot of Libra energy including Libra Venus & the Scorpio mars. I’m trying to figure out what I’m seeing ( damn cap placements 😉) cuz it’s quite different than I’m used to.
So basically, "charming", no wonder why you fell for him. Libra-Scorp mix is kinda dangerous though, they would flirt with literally everyone.
Lol he’s not nearly as bad as my ex-Cap!

He is actually reserved at first. I put him at ease 😉

ah well time will tell.
"At first" hahaha. 😏

Lol well that’s what he said. Said first meet would be awkward and don’t expect a spark 😂😂 that if I’m lucky I’d get a kiss but only a peck. I’m like yeah, yeah whatever.

Somehow we ended up hanging out with a friend of his, and I think he just observed me lol. Then we hung out alone. By the end of the night, major spark 😂🤔🤷‍♀️ It wasn’t awkward at all, but he was very quiet at his friends. He’s never quiet on phone/text lol
I see he's already playing lol. 👀

Quiet with friends but loud when you're together hehehe.



Hmm now I have to go back & look at Jade’s comment 😂😂 since she’s a Libra lol

I’ve seen him twice since. But this week has been a bit different. Not only am I not used to air signs but the Scorpio placements either 😂 I’m in observe mode lol

To describe him better he's : smooth like a snake. I bet you like that lol
You bet I like that? Jeez that’s so nice of you to say 🙄 ah forget it.
Why ? That was offensive ? Sorry then...
That I like him being smooth like a snake? Sounds like you think I’m being naive.. when you bring up snake.
I didn't mean it that way, sorry if I offended you.
Oh well see I just don’t get it lol. I got upset with him this week & he adjusted listening to me. Now he’s sad cuz some bad stuff has happened. So it’s not exactly smooth sailing if that’s what you meant. Nothing is though. I just hate beginnings.
Sounds like he's a lunatic.
Idk what his deal is. He told me he’s an empath awhile ago. Some people have died he was close to so being sad is reasonable. But so much so you shut down? This happened after I was unhappy with him btw. If he is a lunatic that means I’m two for two with crazy Libras. 😂😂 Dating sucks.

Like I said I’m observing and wondering what his deal is. Wondering if I want to deal with him.
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He'll be too intense and dark for you from what I've observed on here. Just my 2 cents...
Mars in Scorpio here. I get very deeply interested in them, stalk them online as much as possible, but play it cool face to face. I sit back and observe how they behave first, let them show me who they are, before I make a move... I could wait a long time if I really want someone.
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Mars in Scorpio here. I get very deeply interested in them, stalk them online as much as possible, but play it cool face to face. I sit back and observe how they behave first, let them show me who they are, before I make a move... I could wait a long time if I really want someone.


That's one of my problems waiting too long, but if you are anything like me you want to make sure there is compatibility and whether they can handle you at your worst.
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Yes. I'm an Aries Venus too. So I'm constantly fighting against the impulse to go too fast. I'm very passionate and it's been hard to find someone that can match my intensity...
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Mars in Scorpio here. I get very deeply interested in them, stalk them online as much as possible, but play it cool face to face. I sit back and observe how they behave first, let them show me who they are, before I make a move... I could wait a long time if I really want someone.


That's one of my problems waiting too long, but if you are anything like me you want to make sure there is compatibility and whether they can handle you at your worst.
Yes. I'm an Aries Venus too. So I'm constantly fighting against the impulse to go too fast. I'm very passionate and it's been hard to find someone that can match my intensity...


I've missed out on a lot of opportunities simply because I didn't pursue them. At the back of my mind something told me that person wasn't right for me, but another thought was they're not strong enough.

Whether that is in my head or reality is what I'm not sure about.
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I can totally relate. My ex of 8 years was strong enough to handle me but over time I just felt like we lost the quality of our connection due to circumstance. He was a Cap with an Aries moon. He was very into his career and therefore for a while I think we made it because he let me have my own life and he had his. He wasn't very emotionally demonstrative but I always felt his love for me through his actions and responsible nature. We were so independent but solid.

Now I'm single again and comparing everyone to him and it just seems like no one is measuring up. I'm sort of into a Cancer with a Pisces moon but his emotions are so fragile I think I will only end up hurting him in the end. We've already had a huge fight and we've only been talking for three weeks... it would be long distance too, I just don't think it's going to happen...
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Posted by peachy06

I'm just a Scorpio venus, but that thread was already done before.

Anyway I'm just going to answer the same. Get ready for a looooooooooong ride.
Does that mean In dating? Or before meeting? Guy I’m dating is confusing me. But it’s possible it’s a long ride.. he also got really sexual quickly, says he’s comfortable, but just little bits of feelings show and lots of effort talking/texting but not getting together unless he’s in a mood 😉

@sag898 input?
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We stalk you than make you love us😂
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Mars in Scorpio here. I get very deeply interested in them, stalk them online as much as possible, but play it cool face to face. I sit back and observe how they behave first, let them show me who they are, before I make a move... I could wait a long time if I really want someone.


That's one of my problems waiting too long, but if you are anything like me you want to make sure there is compatibility and whether they can handle you at your worst.
Yes. I'm an Aries Venus too. So I'm constantly fighting against the impulse to go too fast. I'm very passionate and it's been hard to find someone that can match my intensity...


I've missed out on a lot of opportunities simply because I didn't pursue them. At the back of my mind something told me that person wasn't right for me, but another thought was they're not strong enough.

Whether that is in my head or reality is what I'm not sure about.
I can totally relate. My ex of 8 years was strong enough to handle me but over time I just felt like we lost the quality of our connection due to circumstance. He was a Cap with an Aries moon. He was very into his career and therefore for a while I think we made it because he let me have my own life and he had his. He wasn't very emotionally demonstrative but I always felt his love for me through his actions and responsible nature. We were so independent but solid.

Now I'm single again and comparing everyone to him and it just seems like no one is measuring up. I'm sort of into a Cancer with a Pisces moon but his emotions are so fragile I think I will only end up hurting him in the end. We've already had a huge fight and we've only been talking for three weeks... it would be long distance too, I just don't think it's going to happen...


I've not knowingly been out with a Pisces moon, but I know two well. You find the men can feel emotions on a psychic level to the point where it is like telepathy but they won't express it or tell you what they know.

I find they can be masochistic and cry a lot. Then you have this faux martyrdom where "they are trying so hard but nobody appreciates me". And people accuse Arians of acting childishly!

I think it's the one moon I would be reluctant to start a relationship with. Believe it or not I don't think it works with my scorp moon.

With Aries Venus do you usually attract masculine men or is it the other way round and you attract more feminine men?

When I was younger I used to attract Tom boys. Now I seem to attract outsiders who are unfortunately often a bit broken.

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I used to attract broken men, my father was broken so I learned how to attarct that

It doesn't happen any more because i fixed the broken pieces in myself.....if you don't it can go on forever

Have you looked at Chiron and aspects in your chart....and the moon too, Alex?
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Does it differ depending on gender or religious background?
I think scorpio venus and scorpio mars act differently (if its not combined)

scorpio venus rans away, private

scorpio mars rans towards
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Posted by peachy06

I'm just a Scorpio venus, but that thread was already done before.

Anyway I'm just going to answer the same. Get ready for a looooooooooong ride.
Does that mean In dating? Or before meeting? Guy I’m dating is confusing me. But it’s possible it’s a long ride.. he also got really sexual quickly, says he’s comfortable, but just little bits of feelings show and lots of effort talking/texting but not getting together unless he’s in a mood 😉

@sag898 input?
We stalk you than make you love us😂
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Pretty much! Once we set our sights on someone the web gets spun Big Grin
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Mars in Scorpio here. I get very deeply interested in them, stalk them online as much as possible, but play it cool face to face. I sit back and observe how they behave first, let them show me who they are, before I make a move... I could wait a long time if I really want someone.


That's one of my problems waiting too long, but if you are anything like me you want to make sure there is compatibility and whether they can handle you at your worst.
Yes. I'm an Aries Venus too. So I'm constantly fighting against the impulse to go too fast. I'm very passionate and it's been hard to find someone that can match my intensity...


I've missed out on a lot of opportunities simply because I didn't pursue them. At the back of my mind something told me that person wasn't right for me, but another thought was they're not strong enough.

Whether that is in my head or reality is what I'm not sure about.
I can totally relate. My ex of 8 years was strong enough to handle me but over time I just felt like we lost the quality of our connection due to circumstance. He was a Cap with an Aries moon. He was very into his career and therefore for a while I think we made it because he let me have my own life and he had his. He wasn't very emotionally demonstrative but I always felt his love for me through his actions and responsible nature. We were so independent but solid.

Now I'm single again and comparing everyone to him and it just seems like no one is measuring up. I'm sort of into a Cancer with a Pisces moon but his emotions are so fragile I think I will only end up hurting him in the end. We've already had a huge fight and we've only been talking for three weeks... it would be long distance too, I just don't think it's going to happen...


I've not knowingly been out with a Pisces moon, but I know two well. You find the men can feel emotions on a psychic level to the point where it is like telepathy but they won't express it or tell you what they know.

I find they can be masochistic and cry a lot. Then you have this faux martyrdom where "they are trying so hard but nobody appreciates me". And people accuse Arians of acting childishly!

I think it's the one moon I would be reluctant to start a relationship with. Believe it or not I don't think it works with my scorp moon.

With Aries Venus do you usually attract masculine men or is it the other way round and you attract more feminine men?

When I was younger I used to attract Tom boys. Now I seem to attract outsiders who are unfortunately often a bit broken.

I used to attract broken men, my father was broken so I learned how to attarct that

It doesn't happen any more because i fixed the broken pieces in myself.....if you don't it can go on forever

Have you looked at Chiron and aspects in your chart....and the moon too, Alex?


From what I can tell Chiron seems to be in Gemini in my 9th house. Gemini is also my MC.
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Did I post your chart somewhere Alex? If you want me to take a look, let me know. If not remind me of your birth data and I can check for you.....
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I have a Scorpio Venus and am very private and cautious with my feelings until I feel secure.

As far as initially dating, I go for them full force (Leo Mars) and try my luck. My Venus comes more into play once I’ve develop feelings for them. That’s when I’m jealous, somewhat possessive and very loving towards them.

I’m unsure of how a Scorpio Mars shows interest but I think Mars is the initial action and Venus is when love sets in. At least that’s how it is for me.


You forgot to mention the handcuffs attached to your radiator... Laughing

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I never get your notifications!!! I hate leaving people hanging. Sorry. 😬
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Did I post your chart somewhere Alex? If you want me to take a look, let me know. If not remind me of your birth data and I can check for you.....


The thread I originally posted it on was deleted. Here's a new one with Chiron and Lilith.

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I’m not sure what I said before but you’ve Moon Pluto and also a challenging aspect between moon and Chiron.All this is indicative of mother stuff, I’ve heard it called the devouring or suffocating mother, so that’s where your wound will be. As it aspects the 3rd it could show communication issues,as in not being in contact maybe or difficulty in communicating.

This could affect rships with women, as it not being enough or pushing them away etc. Moon Pluto has a hunger to it that isn’t often satisfied until healed. Look out for facets of your mums nature in the women you attract

Hope that makes sense.

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Mars in Scorpio here. I get very deeply interested in them, stalk them online as much as possible, but play it cool face to face. I sit back and observe how they behave first, let them show me who they are, before I make a move... I could wait a long time if I really want someone.


That's one of my problems waiting too long, but if you are anything like me you want to make sure there is compatibility and whether they can handle you at your worst.
Yes. I'm an Aries Venus too. So I'm constantly fighting against the impulse to go too fast. I'm very passionate and it's been hard to find someone that can match my intensity...


I've missed out on a lot of opportunities simply because I didn't pursue them. At the back of my mind something told me that person wasn't right for me, but another thought was they're not strong enough.

Whether that is in my head or reality is what I'm not sure about.
I can totally relate. My ex of 8 years was strong enough to handle me but over time I just felt like we lost the quality of our connection due to circumstance. He was a Cap with an Aries moon. He was very into his career and therefore for a while I think we made it because he let me have my own life and he had his. He wasn't very emotionally demonstrative but I always felt his love for me through his actions and responsible nature. We were so independent but solid.

Now I'm single again and comparing everyone to him and it just seems like no one is measuring up. I'm sort of into a Cancer with a Pisces moon but his emotions are so fragile I think I will only end up hurting him in the end. We've already had a huge fight and we've only been talking for three weeks... it would be long distance too, I just don't think it's going to happen...


I've not knowingly been out with a Pisces moon, but I know two well. You find the men can feel emotions on a psychic level to the point where it is like telepathy but they won't express it or tell you what they know.

I find they can be masochistic and cry a lot. Then you have this faux martyrdom where "they are trying so hard but nobody appreciates me". And people accuse Arians of acting childishly!

I think it's the one moon I would be reluctant to start a relationship with. Believe it or not I don't think it works with my scorp moon.

With Aries Venus do you usually attract masculine men or is it the other way round and you attract more feminine men?

When I was younger I used to attract Tom boys. Now I seem to attract outsiders who are unfortunately often a bit broken.

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Yeah, when we had our fight, he literally went on and on for days complaining about how he was feeling and how I had hurt him. I mean, we aren't even a couple yet and he's acting this way. I thought to myself, "what a crybaby. Get over it." I need to be with someone more masculine.

I actually seem to attract men who look masculine but are more "progressive" on the inside if that makes sense. I am attracted to "bad boys" like crazy and always go for those that I can't have. ATM I'm wrapped up with a Sag who's in an open relationship and we're long distance. But our synastry/composite compatibility is off the chain. I'm not sure if it's because I'm an Aries/Taurus Cusp and he's a Scorpio/Sag cusp but damn... We have so much fun together and it feels so deep and addicting..
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Did I post your chart somewhere Alex? If you want me to take a look, let me know. If not remind me of your birth data and I can check for you.....


The thread I originally posted it on was deleted. Here's a new one with Chiron and Lilith.

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I’m not sure what I said before but you’ve Moon Pluto and also a challenging aspect between moon and Chiron.All this is indicative of mother stuff, I’ve heard it called the devouring or suffocating mother, so that’s where your wound will be. As it aspects the 3rd it could show communication issues,as in not being in contact maybe or difficulty in communicating.

This could affect rships with women, as it not being enough or pushing them away etc. Moon Pluto has a hunger to it that isn’t often satisfied until healed. Look out for facets of your mums nature in the women you attract

Hope that makes sense.



I did read your thread on Chirons. So I'm guessing in females it is related to their relationship with their father?

Without going into too much detail my mother was overprotective when I was younger. I'm single at the moment, but I will look out for it in the future. I think the worry for me is becoming too dependant on someone and that would tie in with Pisces Lilith as well.
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With Chiron it depends on the aspect, for example, a person with sun Chiron or Saturn Chiron may have issues with the father...on the premise that sun and Saturn in a chart can represent the father and moon is Mum. Chiron standing alone is the wounded healer.

Sometimes when we fear becoming dependent on someone we unconsciously push them away so they don't get too close.

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Mars in Scorpio here. I get very deeply interested in them, stalk them online as much as possible, but play it cool face to face. I sit back and observe how they behave first, let them show me who they are, before I make a move... I could wait a long time if I really want someone.


That's one of my problems waiting too long, but if you are anything like me you want to make sure there is compatibility and whether they can handle you at your worst.
Yes. I'm an Aries Venus too. So I'm constantly fighting against the impulse to go too fast. I'm very passionate and it's been hard to find someone that can match my intensity...


I've missed out on a lot of opportunities simply because I didn't pursue them. At the back of my mind something told me that person wasn't right for me, but another thought was they're not strong enough.

Whether that is in my head or reality is what I'm not sure about.
I can totally relate. My ex of 8 years was strong enough to handle me but over time I just felt like we lost the quality of our connection due to circumstance. He was a Cap with an Aries moon. He was very into his career and therefore for a while I think we made it because he let me have my own life and he had his. He wasn't very emotionally demonstrative but I always felt his love for me through his actions and responsible nature. We were so independent but solid.

Now I'm single again and comparing everyone to him and it just seems like no one is measuring up. I'm sort of into a Cancer with a Pisces moon but his emotions are so fragile I think I will only end up hurting him in the end. We've already had a huge fight and we've only been talking for three weeks... it would be long distance too, I just don't think it's going to happen...


I've not knowingly been out with a Pisces moon, but I know two well. You find the men can feel emotions on a psychic level to the point where it is like telepathy but they won't express it or tell you what they know.

I find they can be masochistic and cry a lot. Then you have this faux martyrdom where "they are trying so hard but nobody appreciates me". And people accuse Arians of acting childishly!

I think it's the one moon I would be reluctant to start a relationship with. Believe it or not I don't think it works with my scorp moon.

With Aries Venus do you usually attract masculine men or is it the other way round and you attract more feminine men?

When I was younger I used to attract Tom boys. Now I seem to attract outsiders who are unfortunately often a bit broken.

Yeah, when we had our fight, he literally went on and on for days complaining about how he was feeling and how I had hurt him. I mean, we aren't even a couple yet and he's acting this way. I thought to myself, "what a crybaby. Get over it." I need to be with someone more masculine.

I actually seem to attract men who look masculine but are more "progressive" on the inside if that makes sense. I am attracted to "bad boys" like crazy and always go for those that I can't have. ATM I'm wrapped up with a Sag who's in an open relationship and we're long distance. But our synastry/composite compatibility is off the chain. I'm not sure if it's because I'm an Aries/Taurus Cusp and he's a Scorpio/Sag cusp but damn... We have so much fun together and it feels so deep and addicting..


A friend of mine is Libra sun Pisces moon and he bottles up his emotions, but I can feel them. I can see why it's different for a cancer sun. Cancer suns in general take things to heart.

I would have been Aries\Taurus cusp "the cusp of power" if I was born a day or two later. With fire signs for me it's 50\50 in terms of sexual chemistry, friendship chemistry and having a good time it's always 100% as we just understand the need to be top dog and prove ourselves.

TBH I've never attracted barbie girls which would maybe be the feminine equivalent. I understand what you mean I think the bad boy who has a softer side or is open minded is many female's ideal.

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I've been with an Aries in the past, it didn't end well and was a bumpy ride, haha. I attract Leos quite often. And I have many Leo friends, male and female. This is my first go with a Sag, I think it only works because he's also a Venus in Scorpio. We can't get enough of eachother... sigh...
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Does it differ depending on gender or religious background?
I think scorpio venus and scorpio mars act differently (if its not combined)

scorpio venus rans away, private

scorpio mars rans towards
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So when combined is the love nature generally confused? 😅
religious backround..


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