Posted by WhorpioWish it were that easy
“DTF??”
Posted by tizianiNoted.
Don't text, it is a waste of time. My honest opinion for what little it is worth.
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeThanks, I see from her snap that she meets her friends for lunch a lot so I'm sure I may be able to spring a conversation from that.
Do you know any of her likes and dislikes?
What kind of city do you live in—like are there parks nearby? The climate?
Just try to get any ole conversation good and ask her to coffee and if the coffee date goes well, get lunch or dinner or ice cream
Or ask her if she wants to walk at a park—this works if you or her have a dog
And then get Ice cream
But just try to start a convo with something relevant like a song she has mentioned or something else you guys have talked about or maybe about a location or activity that she’s doing in one of her Instagram photos
But start with a low risk date that if you click, you can build upon it to spend the day together
Do either of you play Pokémon go? You can do that as a low risk ‘date’ just to get to know eachother a bit then go for ice cream or dinner or whatever
Posted by peachy06I would personally prefer to meet with her however at this point we barely know each other. Since work is hectic and I have no connections to her outside, I was hoping to use messaging as a way to create a baseline.
Can't you just tell her face to face instead of texting ? We like up-front people.
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeThat's a good idea! Thanks very much for it. I will try to strike a conversation and see if I can get a meet quickPosted by OwnardOf coursePosted by UnusualVaginalDischargeThanks, I see from her snap that she meets her friends for lunch a lot so I'm sure I may be able to spring a conversation from that.
Do you know any of her likes and dislikes?
What kind of city do you live in—like are there parks nearby? The climate?
Just try to get any ole conversation good and ask her to coffee and if the coffee date goes well, get lunch or dinner or ice cream
Or ask her if she wants to walk at a park—this works if you or her have a dog
And then get Ice cream
But just try to start a convo with something relevant like a song she has mentioned or something else you guys have talked about or maybe about a location or activity that she’s doing in one of her Instagram photos
But start with a low risk date that if you click, you can build upon it to spend the day together
Do either of you play Pokémon go? You can do that as a low risk ‘date’ just to get to know eachother a bit then go for ice cream or dinner or whatever
I like the idea of a low risk coffee date, the thing is, I don't like any type of coffee or tea. I could always say pancakes?
Do a brunch
Or walk in the park
Do you like tea?
There’s always ice cream or frozen yogurt
A convo about lunch with her friends can lead you to ask if she’s into brunch or what her favorite foods are, she might really dig crêpes
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Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeHonestly, only ever got off work at the same time as her once since I've been working there. Sadly J couldn't chat since I needed to shower before going to the cinema with friends.
Yeah you could probably call her to talk to her if you’re not able to at work
Or maybe talk to her face to face after work if you get off at the same time