How should I proceed with this Scorpio man? Help!
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by CancerQB on Monday, October 28, 2013 and has 15 replies.
Very long story but to sum it up.... Met in August, I am a Cancer. Knew he would be moving abroad at the beginning of Sept. First night....told me everything and I mean everything. Troubled childhood, family, showed pictures things he'd made. We clearly had a connection, stayed up all night just talking. he persued me for the next week. Had an amazing last few days together. our connection was unreal. id never been more comfortable with a man. he even cried in front of me, he'd clearly told his friends about me, showed me thungs he'd made as child, more secrets were told etc. Got that possessive, jealous scorp thing over me. His friends were saying things like its love etc. He started saying he wanted me to come visit when he went abroad and as cancerian I was careful, as I could feel myself falling FAST! Our last night together he started talking about some sort of relationship with me and told me he loved me 3 times. I tried to ignore but not just to save myself from hurt but i was thinking of him too. Afterall he was going off to start a new life and I did not want to get in the way of that. Lovely messages next day saying he really did mean it, that i was to keep in touch and come and visit.
Different countries now... Few phone calls, whatsapp and fb always asking when I was going to see him and saying I should move there. I did say I would come see him in Nov and he was delighted. Past few weeks it became apparent that things weren't going as well as he'd hoped, job etc. and he may have to come back middle of November. I was fine with that. had a couple of weeks without much contact but to be honest id been so busy and i figured he was trying to sort things out. But the messages have become less and less over last 2 weeks and I messaged him via fb 6 days ago asking about work etc...No reply???? I know he hasn't much money and more than likely is using a pay as you go phone but WTF???? What do I do? Message him again? Ive heard Scorps do this when they have alot on their mind, is that true? Was he lying with the love stuff? I heard they don't say unless they mean it, especially as he was moving away??? He even told me that about things. Could he be embarassed that he asked me over and its all gone wrong over there? Ive also heard they dont like to be pursued...true or false?
Oops sorry that is long......but I'm going mad here
Different countries now... Few phone calls, whatsapp and fb always asking when I was going to see him and saying I should move there. I did say I would come see him in Nov and he was delighted. Past few weeks it became apparent that things weren't going as well as he'd hoped, job etc. and he may have to come back middle of November. I was fine with that. had a couple of weeks without much contact but to be honest id been so busy and i figured he was trying to sort things out. But the messages have become less and less over last 2 weeks and I messaged him via fb 6 days ago asking about work etc...No reply???? I know he hasn't much money and more than likely is using a pay as you go phone but WTF???? What do I do? Message him again? Ive heard Scorps do this when they have alot on their mind, is that true? Was he lying with the love stuff? I heard they don't say unless they mean it, especially as he was moving away??? He even told me that about things. Could he be embarassed that he asked me over and its all gone wrong over there? Ive also heard they dont like to be pursued...true or false?
Oops sorry that is long......but I'm going mad here
OO cancer lady, Relax...Youre freaking out from the sudden silence....Just relax and keep busy. Maybe hes unable to reach out...
In due time he will contact you.
In due time he will contact you.
Ok ok so I'm over reacting to the Scorpio way? I'm a first timer. Previous include an abusive libran so I do feel the need to protect myself somewhat. Is this really their way? Should I really message a breezy 1?
Ah but you're missing my point here.
Thank you Irresistible Scorp. He was surprised himself at how comfortable he felt with me. In response to previous message, it's hardly dating when he's in another country! I'm just concerned on how I should take his silence after all that. Has he moved on and is full of crap or is what I read you guys say about them true?
Thank you Irresistible Scorp. He was surprised himself at how comfortable he felt with me. In response to previous message, it's hardly dating when he's in another country! I'm just concerned on how I should take his silence after all that. Has he moved on and is full of crap or is what I read you guys say about them true?
Haha @irresistablescorp that is soooo scorp! My scorp still suprises me with stuff bout himself! Love it
Hmmmm i think he really is busy or cant get back at you orrr is thinking bout should he go back (is there someone 2 go back too) or staying there. And you said yourself: he kinda opened up to you completely, trust me, they dont just do that. But you kinda kept more carefull. He knows this. Do you want to see him again, i mean: reallyyyyyyy like "i cant go on without him" orrr more like "yeah ok i would wanna see him" ?
@everevolvingepithet haha! Yessssss it issss. -_- dont know he does it but he does. Seen every inch and yet...still havent seen it all haha
@rabbit yesssss me too O_O thatsss like fasttt. Mine did too. As if too say: "here, this is my imperfect self, now i dont have to put in months of my trust and love in a person and get hurt. If you run now then i know you dont really care" maybeee something like that i guess??!
@rabbit yesssss me too O_O thatsss like fasttt. Mine did too. As if too say: "here, this is my imperfect self, now i dont have to put in months of my trust and love in a person and get hurt. If you run now then i know you dont really care" maybeee something like that i guess??!
I do really want to see him I just don't understand what's happened here. As I say, first time with a Scorpio guy
My best girlfriend is 1 but they se slightly different. I know this sounds silly but he even has my photo up with my daughter and 2 friends whom he doesn't knoa as 1 of his cover pics since I left??? I also heard they don't do things like that. Confused
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My best girlfriend is 1 but they se slightly different. I know this sounds silly but he even has my photo up with my daughter and 2 friends whom he doesn't knoa as 1 of his cover pics since I left??? I also heard they don't do things like that. Confused
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He left because of things that were stressing him out too much. Arranged before we met
He said while still here and after on phone that I should move there to be with him??? Clearly things didn't quite go to plan but if he doesn't communicate, how do I know?
He said while still here and after on phone that I should move there to be with him??? Clearly things didn't quite go to plan but if he doesn't communicate, how do I know?
Ha ha mystique. Yeah but head wreck too!!!
Well nothing nasty has happened between us. So people in the know
..shall Imessage again, wait or move on? Believe me this guy is Scorpio.
..shall Imessage again, wait or move on? Believe me this guy is Scorpio.
What ya need to know?
Whatever you do: dont get angry with him untill you really know why he is absent. Scorpios do tend to take alone time 
he'll be back and when he responses: try to show him how much you wanna see him
I think he loves you big time. But isnt sure if you wanna go for it 100 procent. Just dont get angry once he pops up again but do let him know the truth. Also the things you dont understand. If you explain to him calmly he'll understand meantime. Keep yourself busy! good luck
he'll be back and when he responses: try to show him how much you wanna see himI think he loves you big time. But isnt sure if you wanna go for it 100 procent. Just dont get angry once he pops up again but do let him know the truth. Also the things you dont understand. If you explain to him calmly he'll understand
meantime. Keep yourself busy! good luckLeave Your Feedback
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