Posted by DazedScorp
^^^You need to read that one AGAIN.
You've rejected him a million times. He's tried, and you've acted like you don't care.
He eyeballed you, studied you, and when he finally got up the courage... you shot him down.
Most importantly, you listened to the folks who AREN'T Scorp men, and ignored him and tried to act unaffected.... You you should have listened to LIB and QuietStorm. They may not be scorp men, but they were pretty spot on.
He's not coming after you anymore. He may still like you, and be interested, but you've bruised his ego.
If you want to get him back...
Try utilizing your Aries Ascendant and ask him out.
Posted by DazedScorp
When I met the Cancer woman at work last year, I studied her for a good 3 months before I said a word to her. It took me that long to work up the courage to ask her out.
If she would have turned me down, I would have avoided her.
That doesn't mean I wasn't interested... It just means my ego was butt hurt.
Posted by ChildOftheMoonPosted by DazedScorp
When I met the Cancer woman at work last year, I studied her for a good 3 months before I said a word to her. It took me that long to work up the courage to ask her out.
If she would have turned me down, I would have avoided her.
That doesn't mean I wasn't interested... It just means my ego was butt hurt.
But he didn't ask me out. He told me about his employee having a party (whom I've never even spoke to) and that I should go. He didn't say "let's go to a party" and he didn't give me the guy's address, he told the guy to give it to me but he didn't. And I had already told him that I wasn't gonna be celebrating New Year's Eve 'cause I had to work the next day. Why couldn't he just ask for my phone number or ask me out to coffee or something.
And I was kind of leery before that because I had been showing him a lot of interest and attention and I saw his attitude turn "cocky" and he distanced himself from me for a couple of days. This spooked me.click to expand
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by ChildOftheMoon
Why couldn't he just ask for my phone number or ask me out to coffee or something.
And I was kind of leery before that because I had been showing him a lot of interest and attention and I saw his attitude turn "cocky" and he distanced himself from me for a couple of days. This spooked me.
The bolded part was his mistake. Insecure? Who knows... He needs to work on that.
And you didn't give him a lot of interest or attention.
Remember? You had another crush at work. The scorp didn't matter...
Both of you are at fault here.
Yes, he feels like you shot him down.
Yes, you feel he should take a more active approach.
The point is... If you are still interested in him, you should ask him out, because he's not going to do it.click to expand
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by tauruscancerdelight
I am openly challenging you here and now, but you are too cowardly to actually take my offer.
If that's what you feel you need to do, create a thread, and I'll join in and accept your challenge. But there is no need to derail this lady's thread.
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Posted by DazedScorp
@OP...
The best way to ask him out, is to make him think that he was in control and did the asking. Actually, that's the basic rule every women should know when it comes to dating a Scorpio man.
Keep the control in your hands... But make it think that he's the one who has it.
I call it "Make believe Power", and every Scorp man needs it.
Posted by tauruscancerdelight
Child of the moon, be careful. I know a Scorpio who shot his gf in anger rage and currently serving 15 yrs for felony. I know this is dramatic example, but sometimes you just cannot be civil with scorpio guys, as they dont think like rest of us. They can also be vicious human beings, if slighted.
Posted by DazedScorp
Based on what?
I have 26 years experience dealing with a Scorp male. That's what I base my knowledge on....homie.
Posted by DazedScorp
Based on what?
I have 26 years experience dealing with a Scorp male. That's what I base my knowledge on....homie.
Posted by DazedScorp
The last thing anyone should do, is take advice from a scorned woman who's had a failed relationship with Scorp men.
Posted by DazedScorp
Further more, I also find it shallow, that you would use your one experience with that one Scorpio man... To give negative feedback on ALL Scorp men.
You're tellling this woman to stay away from ALL Scorp men.
He could be great for her. Live a happy life, kids, old age love.
What right do you have to keep her from that? What right do you have to keep him from that? And all because you've been scorned by one Scorp?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
How scorned though? percentage-wise?
Posted by antonarnia
Scorned? Yes. But what does a failed relationship have to do with my advice giving? It's pretty shallow of you to demean my knowledge and experience.
I'll post my Scorpio relationship thread at a later date.
Btw you and my ex have the same Venus and Pluto planetary aspects.
Posted by ChildOftheMoonPosted by DazedScorp
^^^You need to read that one AGAIN.
You've rejected him a million times. He's tried, and you've acted like you don't care.
He eyeballed you, studied you, and when he finally got up the courage... you shot him down.
Most importantly, you listened to the folks who AREN'T Scorp men, and ignored him and tried to act unaffected.... You you should have listened to LIB and QuietStorm. They may not be scorp men, but they were pretty spot on.
He's not coming after you anymore. He may still like you, and be interested, but you've bruised his ego.
If you want to get him back...
Try utilizing your Aries Ascendant and ask him out.click to expand
He intimidates the hell out of me. ??I came across him unexpectedly last Monday and thinking that he was going to ignore me again I looked down to the floor, I thought I saw him nod at me but when I looked up he looked really angry and appeared to be stretching his neck from side to side (maybe to make it seem that he didn't nod at me?) ??After that he would turn around every time he spotted me. ??I don't know he just seems to have a really short temper. ??I guess I wasn't able to be myself 'cause I felt intimidated and nervous. ??I would be content with just being civil with him even if he doesn't like me in a romantic sense.
aby steps. Form an intellectual bond before you jump off a cliff. Show him how great you are in subtle, but impressionable ways. Again, I'm not saying to avoid him completely, but don't throw yourself at him full force. Yes, I've only been with one Scorpio long term. [But I actually happen to personally have a lot of Scorpio males as friends. And even family. My cousin and my step brother.] Anyways, my ex and I have gone through a lot of changes. Love, hate, growth. I've been through an eclectic amount of situations with him. We know we love each other dearly. But upsettingly as it is, ??him and I's relationship simply cannot function in the real world.??
If she wants to strike his fancy, she needs to prove herself. He will then form a perception towards whether or not his twisted view of her will stay the same or change into a liking.??
In that mind of his, he's going to ultimately be the one to decipher his feelings. She can't persuade him to be interested in her by doing something she's not comfortable with, he's going to see right through it. It's fake.
Sincerely,??
Girl who was scorned by a Scorpio
PS. I'd like to make it known that I don't despise Scorpio males. ??I actually love you guys. Some of my closest friends.??
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What are you, a back up singer? I think I've seen the word scorn enough for one day. As alluring as that word is, maybe if you'd stop undermining my intellect by just focusing on scorning it up, you could have a more liberal view.. Failing, is almost the same as achieving. You gain knowledge and wisdom from both. And I wouldn't consider my relationship to be a fail. As much as I was and still am hurt by it, I appreciate the times I spent with him. I definitely went through a hateful stage. And catch myself every now and then having those thoughts. I stop myself though, and because I know how much we care for each other. The best moments of my life were spent with him, it blurs out the negative, and that's what I remember. With that being said, my advice to another about a male Scorpio, is not to pursuaded them to negativity.
Posted by LetltBPosted by antonarnia
Scorned? Yes. But what does a failed relationship have to do with my advice giving? It's pre
Posted by DazedScorp
You know everything about Me, based on a 3 year experience with one person... Other than me?
Okay.
In regards to a Scorp male, there are three options.
1. He's never coming back to you.
2. He's coming back to you right away, and will beg.
3. He wants to come back, but you have to make the move.
There is no waiting game. He's not going to wait and then come back.
If he's away... He's either done, or waiting for you to come get him.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by ChildOftheMoon
We work together but different shifts/days so we only see each other maybe 2 or 3 times a week. He started ignoring me/stopped talking to me a month ago. I tried to talk to him twice but he seemed angry/annoyed and I don't know what I could have done to piss him off so I've been keeping my distance. Maybe he changed his mind about me or maybe he met someone else, my question is: once the interest is lost, is it possible to get it back and if so how?
This is a very good thing. Now you have the opportunity to run like the wind before being trapped into the mental games of a Scorpion sociopath.
Congratulations. You're Free. Run girl. Run.click to expand
Posted by tauruscancerdelight
Child of the moon, be careful. I know a Scorpio who shot his gf in anger rage and currently serving 15 yrs for felony. I know this is dramatic example, but sometimes you just cannot be civil with scorpio guys, as they dont think like rest of us. They can also be vicious human beings, if slighted.
Posted by ChildOftheMoon
he said "you don't say hi anymore"
Posted by LunarMaiden
ChildMoon, it's obvious that you are very shy. And there is nothing wrong with that.
I can be pretty shy myself, but I tend to do the opposite sometimes and just speak up.
Although this may be intriguing to him he could take this as disinterest.
I don't think he knows what is going on with you. You won't talk to him.
If you are really interested in this guy, go for it! Go for what you want!
I recommend that you open up a bit. Smile at him, stare back and say hello.
Try not to wonder what's going on in his life or head for that matter.
It creates too much tension and too many assumptions.
I sometimes feel that the male Scorpios I deal with are players because they are so comfortable with there sexuality.
Some are very confident, this can be intimidating. Only if you get to know them will you know if they are.
Perhaps pursue a friendship first, determine if he is boyfriend worthy.
Best of luck.
Posted by DazedScorp
^^^You need to read that one AGAIN.
You've rejected him a million times. He's tried, and you've acted like you don't care.
He eyeballed you, studied you, and when he finally got up the courage... you shot him down.
Most importantly, you listened to the folks who AREN'T Scorp men, and ignored him and tried to act unaffected.... You you should have listened to LIB and QuietStorm. They may not be scorp men, but they were pretty spot on.
He's not coming after you anymore. He may still like you, and be interested, but you've bruised his ego.
If you want to get him back...
Try utilizing your Aries Ascendant and ask him out.
Posted by Spectre
Show ur sexy arse...
Make it real good...
Those moves...
Drool .....!!
Posted by DazedScorp
FFS... Go up to him and say HI!
Posted by gumshoe3
^^^ I hope it's clear that I wrote the above with affection, even if it's frustrated affection.
Looking at your avatar, I couldn't help but think: that's the reddest, angriest looking crab I've ever seen. In other words, that's an Aries-tinted crab, if ever I saw one. I think it was Dazed who said to call that Aries ascendent into action. Step to it, woman!
You know his car. You know he's watching you. If you feel too nervous to approach him, I understand. But there are ways to work around your present shyness and still make contact with him. Write him a note, slip it under that wiper, and then wait.
😉
Posted by ChildOftheMoonPosted by Spectre
Show ur sexy arse...
Make it real good...
Those moves...
Drool .....!!
LOL it's one of my best Assets!click to expand
Posted by gumshoe3
Spectre, I have to tell you, even though I think you're a jackass, I really do love your new avatar.
Posted by Spectre
She claims 2 hv a hot ass...
I'm sure her man will come around...
Posted by Spectre
Weakness of a Scorpio man...
Sucks..
We can't help it...
Posted by ChildOftheMoonPosted by Spectre
Weakness of a Scorpio man...
Sucks..
We can't help it...
What, the ass? LOL It's my best feature, guys always stare at it except for him (at least not when I'm looking) As a matter of fact I've never ever seen him checking out my body, he always looks at my face. But somehow I know he likes it.click to expand
Posted by CluelessCancer
ChildoftheMoon I hope you are young, when you are a young Cancer, the scorpio will be your soulmate, he will be everything you desire, but he also is a gluttony for punishment and he will punish you.
He's the ying to your yang. Every cancer female should have an opportunity to ride or die with a Scorpio man.
Just know you will never last. Eventually it will run out of steam. He is not going to be the man you will be marrying.
Scorpios do well with Libras...they need a woman who they can step on and who will chill them out. Cancer women will read all their tactics and give it back to them 1000 fold. They can't handle us.
We can break them emotionally. They know this.
We also have a streak of cruelty. Atleast I do and I enjoy that aspect of my personality when it comes to Scorps, cause they deserve everything they get.
Posted by LunarMaiden
Let's calm down and take a deep breath.
Did you speak to him, or were you waiting for him to speak to you first?
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