How to Leave a Scorpio

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taurusgoddess
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So things are not so smooth, I try & my man gets frustrated & freaks out. He's become a rebellious dependant.

So, I said to him, "I love you, and I want us to work...maybe I should move out since living together has not made things easy."

HE FREAKED OUT!!!

I honestly want it to work, but it's not possible living together & him freaking makes me wanna run!
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cappysweetie
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Let me tell you how I left my ex-scorpio 😉

Granted, this is not the best move but it works. Start going out with someone else or ask one of your good guy friends to act like your boyfriend. I started going out with this cancer guy in order to get away from the scorpio.

I did it out of desperation because my ex-scorpio would freak out on me too. Trust me, the way he would act scared me to death!
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SweetestFatale
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I decided to finally do it and stick to it and cut him off and laugh at his efforts to get me back whether they were noble or not. I just told him to shove it, he said talking to him like that was just going to help him forget me, a month later he asks me to his music page to lised to a song he's composed for me...I laugh to myself and tell him thet the song was really pretty too and it touched my heart, but the lyrics were just all the promises he made and broke over and over. Just say Bye and mean it, well if you dont mean it at first act like you really really do and it will stick. And umm having a backup doesn't hurt either..so yeah get someone or something to take your mind and energy off of him.
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CapAngel
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"My scorp seems to turn into an ugly person when under stress. what i want changed is the way he deals with life, and me when times are tough." -- have you suggested counseling or stress management classes for him? Does he work out regularly? Maybe he should do something relaxing (without you) before heading home after work (if its work thats stressing him out) so that he can release negative energy & emotions. Not everyone is as calm as a Taurus, if this is part of his personality, either love him entirely, help him or leave him.

I can see why he's "freaking out", he feels you are trying to leave him, and it HURTS him. He might think that if were deeply in love with him, you'd love him including all his faults. He thinks you're giving up on him & your relationship. He is thinking if you move out, your relationship won't move forward, it'll regress and eventually fail. He probably believes there's other ways to work things out instead of you moving out. This is just from what I believe his point-of-view is.

If you really don't want to live with him anymore or plan to break up with him, move out everything you own when he is at work. Once you moved out and into your new place, call & meet up with him at a public place (where he can't freak out) and discuss why you moved (how you think it'll help the relationship) or break up with him.

Don't tell him where you moved unless you know he won't try stalking & harassing you. After being harrassed & stalked by Scorpio mooners, I learned how to "disappear" from their lives quite easily.