How to Relax a Scorpion?

OK, bad me, little taurus spoiled brat who needs her security has freaked the try-to-be-hero Mr. Man scorpio out.

Things are out of my power, and I keep hounding my hun about place, and things we need to cover & blah blah, I even texted him "I have no job, no place to live and why don't u answer your phone?!! Give me something to feel secure about!"

Really, he was busy working, and really I got a new job lined up now, & he's looking at 3 places today, but fffffffffffff how do I relax and how to I keep him from losing it?

What a nice way to end the romance, eh? ahhhhhhhhhhhhh, things will be ok in 2 weeks, I HATE inbetween!

make a checklist of things to do to chill.

😄

Alchohol.

TG, you sound a lot like me; almost like you're having an anxiety attack because things are out of place and you know how Taurys hate to not have a plan or things lined out.

Things will be fine when you get there. Try not to add anymore stress on him; he's stressed out too and just trust both of your feelings that things will work out in the end.

Want me to send you some valium?

"Bone him."

+Alchohol=a match made in heaven.

I'm sure it's not the boning part that's the problem....it's what she is doing to calm over while waiting to move there.

But, alcohol is always an option either way!

how do I relax and how to I keep him from losing it?

you just have to trust that your man will take care of things....if he knows you have faith in him, that'll help keep him from losing it

and don't worry, he'll get it all done - it's just men do things one at a time, whereas women are used to juggling several things at once. men look at the broader picture, whereas women tend to fixate on the details.

now for you to relax - i know it can be hard to give up control coz am guilty of that myself. agree w/ houstonpeach - if it makes you feel better, you can formulate a 'Plan B' checklist so that if things aren't sorted out when you get there, you can get everything organized in no time at all 🙂

(he probably doesn't need to know about Plan B tho, no need for bruised male ego 🙂 and you're probably not going to end up needing Plan B anyway)

oh, and make a list of fun things to do, or little things to treat yourself to, every day for the next 2 weeks!!! hmmm let's see, to start you off with some ideas....

....give yourself a manicure, have a candlelit bath, go for a swim, try a new yoga class, have a hot fudge sundae, get a 15-min massage, go eye shopping for furniture or knick-knacks to go into your new love nest, go to the art gallery, etc etc...

huh, i should to do a list too (taurus guy coming back Sep 1st)

meditate. really, it works wonders. do transcendental meditation, yoga, chanting, whatever does it for you. you may hate it at first, but once you see how calm and centered you can get, you'll love it.

valium & alcohol lol! k, u guys have my address? 😛

Thanks for the advise scorp5pt0, how long u been apart? OMG, give up control? TO a scorpio?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

I bet u saw this coming kennyg! I haven't started packing yet, wanted to wait till last week - I have more time then & I hate living around boxes. & I always have a journal on me, I LOVE writing & I can't wait to look back and read the pages. I'm sure I'll laugh at myself, think I'm crazy or remember what happened to that black hole of my life! lol

RELAX....RELAX YOU SAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tell me when you find out...relaxation doesn't fall into my life vocab..I am a stress head

TG - he's only been away since beginning of Aug

this month feels so loooooong 🙂

Ya mine left mid June, but I'm counting 8 days now!!! 😛 We were joking about getting an hourly rate hotel on the drive across the country. hehe, hmmmmmmmmmm I suddenly feel really relaxed.

The next few days will be busy with packing and friends that wanna quickly get me drunk and have memorable times with me b4 I leave. Man, I love this!

LOL @ I suddenly feel really relaxed

8 days....in a drunken haze....it'll be over before you know it 🙂

OOOOH i guess it'll be 7 days (by the time you read this)
yay!

omg, my aqua roomate got me so drunk last nite, haaaaaaaaaaaaangover, dry dry wine is bad when u gotta work the next day. ughhhhhhhhhhh