How to Win Back A Scorpio...Advice Needed

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by pisc74 on Sunday, February 12, 2006 and has 28 replies.
I'm a Pisces female recently involved with a Scorpio male. Our relationship of 3 months is long-distance (the "L" word already said) so recently I took a few weeks off work to come see him. Sparks flew and everything was wonderful. He was so loving, caring and affectionate and so very happy to see me. But what I found once I came to see him is that he was having serious financial and family issues (involving his parents) and it weighed heavily on his mind. My attitude was "I'm here for you if you want to talk but I'm also here for a brief period so let's try to have fun!" And we did have a wonderful time but after a week, he became more and more detached and he started drinking a little more each day. He became close-mouthed about his problems and didn't want to talk about them anymore. I started to think there was more going on then what he was telling me but he insisted that there was nothing more to say and that his issues were killing his pride. I encouraged him to go home and he did but he kept coming right back to me...and back to his detached attitude. I was confused and frustrated and he was frustrated with me for not being understanding. Then he told me he thought it was best if I left a few days earlier than planned because he needed to deal with his issues. At that time I didn't take that very well and I walked out on him without telling him I was going to. He caught up with me and asked me to stay to talk. I refused and told him to "F@# $ Off!" He said fine and we both stormed off. A few hours later I felt bad and missed him so I called him from my hotel. He was having lunch with his parents and said that he couldn't talk. I told him I was sorry and that I love him. He said "Keep in touch" and then hung up. His voice sounded cold. It has been over a week since that conversation. I have not had a way for him to reach me since then because I have been travelling so I do not know how he feels now. I can call him but I'm afraid to. Is this relationship a lost cause or can I/should I try to win him back? How do you win back a Scorpio?
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I agree with GL,just call him.We can be buttheads when stuffs happening,basically go into ourselves to poke and prod everything to have it mostly figrued out before asking or saying anything about it if ever needed.Heh,guess ou could say we're left speechless until thought about enough to form the words for it kind of thing,have to sort out all the feelings first to make any type of coherant assessment for some things.
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Patience my dear. Excercise patience it worth gold. And don't forget to call him.
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"I think you've just experienced what the words F##K OFF means. Feel the sting? I wouldn't call, I'd write a card and say what you have to say in that. More effort, maybe redemption. Who knows?"
I'm sure if she calls him with normal tone again, that will mean that when she told him those words she was very frusturated. This will work as your card. Two steps in one.
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I thank you for your advice. I was SO angry at him when it all happened and questioned what I was even doing wasting my time with him but after over a week of thinking about him, I'm forgetting how he even made me that mad in the first place and I miss him SO much. Are Scorpios more forgiving as time goes or will he hate me now?
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Your frusturation is understandable. A person in right mind wouldn't mind about this too much. However, if he will hold grudges for this, then I would start questioning his worth as a person. I hope he will not.
Altough, an explaination might be required. If he asks you why you cursed him like that, you will need to explain your frusturation.
I dont think this cursing would become a problem between you two, because as far as I see, this man is actually very intelligent one because he do not want place some weight of his family problems over you.
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OMG I can't believe this but I like what haffo said, I really do smile
Once or even more times I've made someone mad.. A scorp also.. I first told him that I'm sorry of what I said but I was frustrated or mad at him or something. I always did that by sending him a message or something, so never called him and disturbed him in anyway. Then I gave him time to think and later he was the one who contacted me. Sometimes it takes time but worth waiting if you really have a good connection between you two..
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Hmmmm Pisc74, did that f--k OFF came from something deeper than him telling you to go home earlier than planned b/c of his challenges? It could have confused him and he will let you stew for awhile. If I were you, I would locate exactly what made me go off like that, b/c it's depth doesn't seem justified in this case? Then when you do contact him, give him your explanation and apology, so he can understand why you went ballistic. This will help. Then I'd wait for him [give him time] to contact me if he wants to. Be strong, keep your dignity and show him respect. Unless he is totally through with you, you will hear from him again.
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Thank you sweet&sour.
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" It has been over a week since that conversation. I have not had a way for him to reach me since then because I have been travelling so I do not know how he feels now. I can call him but I'm afraid to. Is this relationship a lost cause or can I/should I try to win him back? How do you win back a Scorpio?"
Sounds like something I would do.
This whole story sounds just like me and my ex pisces and technically, he never won me back.
Hey, next time, do not say things you do not mean.
I think he might be a little confused as to where your feelings for him stand you know? So I think you should do the card/letter thing and let him know how you feel. Will it work? I have no clue. But if my pisces would have did something like that, it probably would have worked a bit.
With my experience, it takes a lot to get me to get back there.
Good luck.
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"Are Scorpios more forgiving as time goes or will he hate me now? "

Depends on the situation,tell/write/whatever him all the mushy,rejection stuff you probably felt at the time being as you wanted to be with him,etc.and see what happens.Just keep in mind things along these lines are handled that way from now on so you can avoid spats later.I know pisces in particular love talking about feelings and problems as a healing method but it can make me close off more if people try to pry more than what im willing to say,privacy invasion type stuff happens and does get into some thinking they're selfesh and inconsiderate to me.It usually has to be alot worse to get me to hold a grudge and telling me to fuck off when your pissed isn't one of them(at the least,after some steam is let go of anyways) but im not him(I don't even have a penis),stab my dad,cheat,steal,lie,etc.,then you'd have problems in that department.Keep us posted and good lucksmile
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Where did the "f@# $ off" come from? Good question. I was annoyed at him from the start because he didn't tell me before I came to visit that he was dealing with these problems. He said he didn't want to tell me because he still wanted me to come see him. Although everything was great in the beginning, his problems got the best of him to the point where he was almost completely ignoring me but still wanted me around. I tried to be understanding but after awhile it came down to the fact that I took time off work and travelled to come see him and I didn't expect to get caught up in his drama. If we were living together, fine, but I only had limited time with him and didn't know when I'd be able to see him next. I didn't want to spend that time watching him watch tv and ignore me. Plus his drinking freaked me out. He didn't get wasted but it was every day and his intake increased a little each day. My intuition was telling me that there was something more going on so I kept questioning him and after awhile, he didn't even want to talk about it anymore. I didn't feel he was being honest and didn't like the way he was acting in the end so I just had enough and that was where my reaction came from. In retrospect, I wish I had stayed and talked to him but at that time I felt I was going to hear more b.s. from him anyway. I tried to call him last night but his sister answered and said that he was not home. I couldn't get more than that because his family does not speak good English. But atleast he knows I called. He does not have a number to call me at and thinks that I am in another country right now. I don't know if I should try again or just give up.
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Update...I called his house once yesterday. His sister answered, told me he wasn't home and then asked my name. Today I called his house, his sister answered, told me he wasn't home and then promptly hung up the phone. I guess I should assume that he's at the point of no return? Could I have made him that mad?! He frustrated me, kept things from me and was in a complete funk...I made no secret of how I felt before I left but I was nice about it. He was also aware that I wasn't happy and knew what he was doing to contribute. He did apologize once but didn't change his behavior much. I was mad at him for a while before I decided (2 days ago) that maybe I was a bit harsh and that maybe I should be apologizing but I don't know now. How did we go from "I love you. Please marry me" to this?!
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He called you to come and visit him while hasn't notified you about BS you gonna see there. And then say: "I wanted to see you". This is not a good behaviour. Such behaviour needs very good reason to be digested well in a person's mind. If he calls you there and knows that you gonna see something nasty, then this person must have a good reason for doing so, especially after treating you like "I don't wanna you to see this all crap". Contradiction? Yes. Explaination required.
He started to drinking. This is bad sign. A person who started to hurt himself (yes getting alcohol in this situation is equals to hurting himself) surely has very good reason for it. You see, when a person is in bad situation, first they usually start hurting other people and when it doesn't work they start hurting themselves. But sometimes, they just start hurting themselves right away. The difference between those two is how much that person feels hurt. If a person is really in a very bad situation he will start hurting himself right away and pass others. Your intuition is right here, there is something "big" behind all what you can see. This requires an explaination.
Ignoring you might be for not hurting you. Yet, in this case the reason must be related with you. He didn't want to talk with you about why he is ignoring you, which strenghtens the possibility of reason being with you.
You have said that he is not honest with you. Possible. But it may also be because he is an idiot. You see, people are not perfect, they can have mistakes. This is understandable case, but willing to correct mistakes is what really counts which is not appliable in your case. Sorry. I don't see that he is trying to fix his mistakes. He appears just uses you for his emotional needs. And if you like to be used intentionally, then there is no problem.
"In retrospect, I wish I had stayed and talked to him but at that time I felt I was going to hear more b.s. from him anyway. "
Yeah this is where you have exploided finally. Understandable. Yet, I think this part must be continued and finished once the situation is appropriate. And there is a little mistake of you here (actually this is a mistake because of this guy, with someone else with greater understanding it wouldn't be a mistake). If you already knew this guy well enough (which I suppose you did since you were planning on marriage) you should have not allowed yourself to explode because you would knew that he cant take it. But as I said before, this is a mistake becase of him. It is not a mistake if we are generally speaking.
His sister tried to avoid you when you called him the second time. This is another sign of problem being with you. I can assume that their family might not want your marriage with him. Very possible. Watch it. If this is a case, then you should take his family member comments as a nonsence and talk with him directly. And in your situation, it will be very benefical for you if you ignore his family members comments right now and talk to him directly. After all what will you lose?
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His reason for not telling me about his problems before I came...he was ashamed of his problems but he still wanted to see me and didn't want me not to come. The marriage thing...he asked me before I came but I wouldn't give him an answer just yet. When I got there he still felt the same but didn't feel like he could take the next step until those problems were solved. Understandable. I did not meet his family yet but they know I exist. Do they know of his marriage intentions? I doubt it. They are not happy with his business/financial situation so he did not want to tell them about that. I understood but was annoyed that I came there expecting otherwise. At the time, I felt as if I was being misled but he never said he didn't want to marry me still. He was aware that he was being detached and said it was because he was in pain over all this. He was receptive to talking and being comforted at first but then became detached and withdrawn and distracted. He did apologize for acting this way but still couldn't help himself. My only way to reach him is to call his home and deal with his family. The way I would prefer to deal with this is to see him in person but that is easier said than done. If I knew there were a chance I would do it but I don't know if I should bother. When all is good, he is a wonderful person but he's done somethings that make me question whether he's worth my time.
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I see. From your last post, it appears like he is working on his solving his problmes. Yes its still strange why he allowed you to see something that he does not want to place over your shoulders in first place. Maybe this is an idiocy, but I would forgive but not forget. Maybe he just made an emotional judgement despite the reality. Who knows? I think there is no answer for this behaviour. He says that he wanted to see you. See you in the price of compromising his intention? Hmm.
At least this experience with this guy might give you a new perspective in dealing with people. You might start focusing on such "little" things and finding their meaning out before you make another step. I tell you this because this is exactly what I do. I was letting this small things to pass away without giving enough weigh on them, but not anymore. I do confront with them all the time. Sometimes people find this intimidating. But I definetly know that people who refuse to cooperate in that, simply does not fit to my shoes. I also find this as disrespectful behaviour if a person does not cooperate. In this case a question poups up, "Does this person worth my time?" which is the actual problem you are facing with right now.
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"- What wanting to see you, has to do with things that's around you ? Wanting to see you is a feeling (From the heart)and those BS or Crap as you call them, that comes (from life), What kind of wife can you be if you can not support him when things doesn't go as you would like it to go. Is true love conditional ? Should he only get in touch with you when everything is beautiful around him ? in that case what would be the difference between you and any other girl out there. The explanation required is simple, we call it "life's ups and downs"."
What wanting to see you has to do with things that's around you? Do you know irritation? Thats it. What I was adressing as "crap" wasn't feelings of this man. By saying crap I was adressing his family problems. I'm not a wife material person. I'm not a female either. You should better look at profiles first and then put your text here next time. True love is not conditional, but when a person is placed in situation where he/she will face with something irritating, then I think it is quite fair to have choice upon this. After all, this woman is having relationship with this man, not his family and she should have a choice wheither see this or not. You call it life's ups and downs. I think you mix two things here. Life's ups and downs is something that you have no control over. Here, for this girl it is not ups and downs. It is forced and better say "deceived" situation where she faces with your so called "ups and downs". It's a matter of choice here and I think this guy simply missed the point. I don't say that situation is wrong, no, what I try to say is that some people don't know how to handle them well enough. I also do understand that his problems is important for her. After all what will make her different from a girl that is walking on the street? Yes nothing would be if she doesnt interested in them. But there is one thing about that; if she can help him in his problems then she would but if she can't then she better stay away from him while he solves them. This is done just for sake of relationship because when they together debating over something that has no solution then they simply destroy their relationship. And if she stays away from him that doesn't mean that she wont see him when he wants, but making her see him while not notifying about crap she gonna see there, is the actual problem what we have here.
"- Since when starting to drink is a bad sign ? of course drinking too much maybe unhealthy, so is eating too much, sleeping too much, sex too much, working too much so on and so on ... too much of anything is not good, but then again, what that has to do with him wanting to be with her."
It is obvious that this guy started drinking because of his problems. (As she said he started drinking when his problems arrived and increased the amount every day). What I tried to say was this drinking habit is a sign of something bigger than he allows you to see.
"- You're assuming "wrong", if she knew him, the way you suppose she did, she would at least know about these problems and wouldn't be that surprise about him being the way he is (Nobody gets to where they are overnight). My opinion is they don't know each other at all."
I am talking about what she should have known. If she choices her marriage partner over her wrong knowledge about him then this is her bad choice. And I also gave her tip about how to solve it. And I also said "If".
"In a relationship, the most important is "Destination" where both of you are going, once that is set and your both willing to work for the relationship sake, than together and I repeat together, you will go through "ups" and "downs" that is just life, he will not always be the way you want him to be, you will not always be the way he wants you to be, that's life and the only way to make it is to support each other (as long as he doesn't direspect you and/or abuse), that goes
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I know I was wrong for leaving him like that but I remember clearly that he started to push me away and just when I had enough, he would display some sort of affection to me. This cycle continued for a couple of days until it just broke me. I didn't know what he wanted anymore. Also I knew about the situation before I came but I didn't know just how bad it was. I was supposed to meet his family when I came but once I was there he kept procrastinating and then admitted that he didn't feel it was the right time because of his situation. I just felt like I was being misled and I didn't like that. But then I think about how loving and kind he was in the beginning of my stay and how much fun we had and how even in the end when he was pushing me away, he skipped his parent's anniversary to be with me. It's just killing me that I might have killed things between us. I have the opportunity to go see him but tracking him down will be hard. I don't feel like I can call his house and I don't know where to track him down outside of it. This is weighing heavily on me and I don't know what to do. Even if I let it go, I will always feel bad for walking out on him in his time of need and I didn't mean to show him that I was disloyal because I really do love him.
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I don't know what to say else for your current situation. It appears like it came to state where you should say to yourself "Does the shoe fits?". I know, you know the answer better than I am.
But I want to point out the greater idea. I highly advise you to follow your instincts and interrogate (in good meaning heh, though that depends on your agressivenes lol) people on your suspicions. Let people think whatever they want, because this is who you are and they who they are. No one is following each other, everyone is following themselves. If they find it intimidating or waste of time, I tell you, leave them. You can be % 100 sure that those people are not right people. And when you will do that, you will find that how it so easy to find out the truth and deal with things. This is what is Pisces wavelenght is (or at least yours and mine beause my thougth process is very similair to yours). Sometimes you might think that the way you do is wrong, but it is not. You will know that those answers are the exact answers that you need to find your direction and acting otherwise will simply cause you to betray to yourself. Choice is yours: Either you stay on your way or betray to yourself and follow the crowd.
Good luck.
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hi pisc74,

i'm new on these message boards, and i have actually signed in right this instant because i read your thread. it really moved me, and it made me want to respond. i'm a pisces too, see - and from everything you've said, and if you're a little like me, whatever happens from now on with your scorpio guy, you'll probably feel much better if you know that you have done everything in your power to make things right, or at least let him know how it is you feel about him. otherwise it's gonna eat at you 24/7 (ahem, once again, that's if you're like me, and you could very well not be like me at all for all i know Tongue)
from what i read, this is mostly a case of awkward communication between you and your scorpio, and he's probably torturing himself up over it in some corner (add to that his family trauma) just as you are. however since he's a scorpio, he'll probably die a thousand times over before he even admits this to himself, nevermind to you.
even if he wanted to, he can't reach you, apparently.
so, one of you needs to reach out to the other one here, and since it's not going to be him, it can only be you. i'd recommend steering clear of his family for now. for all you know, his sister didn't even relay your messages properly if at all. so is there any way you can contact him directly without having to encounter them?
it sounded like you two really did have feelings for each other, which is why i'd find it sad if you just sort of let it die off like that, without having done your uttermost. in any case, it's best not to have any regrets, i guess.

anyway, i don't know if i made ANY sense at all just now, but that's what's so great about being a pisces in the first place - we're not supposed to make sense!
in short, i hope everything works out great for you, one way or another!!!
i wish everyone could be happy!
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Well it's been 2 weeks since I last saw him. I haven't given up completely but I haven't tried to contact him since that last phone call. We used to contact each other by email too but not very often so he could've reached me that way. He does not have a computer at home but he does have access to one so the fact that he hasn't tried to email me AT ALL tells me something.
Someone mentioned that his family might be standing in the way. I'm starting to think that they are playing a bigger part in this than I initially thought. He LOVES his family and even though he loved me too, at that point he had to choose between me and his family and me walking out on him like that made the choice so much easier for him. He is from a culture that has deep respect for parental and family ties and I think I may have been too impatient when it came to meeting his family. Of course I didn't realize that at the time. I was thinking he was ashamed of me and didn't want to introduce me to them. He kept saying that was not the case, that it just wasn't the right time. But he is a bit at fault for telling me before I came that everything was ok and that he wanted me to meet them and become part of his family.
There was definitely some awkward communication between us and cultural miscommunication as well. I never expected this because when I first met him and when we kept in touch, everything was so easy and wonderful.
Smileysmile, I share the same thinking with you. This is torturing me 24/7. I don't even know if we are necessarily right for each other anymore but I feel an overpowering urge to go see him and set things right, even just to tell him that I am sorry and that i hope he is ok. Even if it meant that nothing further were to happen between us. I can't believe how much this bothers me. You're right...Pisces don't make any sense. I've always known this about myself. It freaks me out!
What else doesn't make sense is that Scorpios and Pisces are supposed to be a perfect match...so why have I NEVER EVER had a successful relationship with one? This Scorpio would be my third. Scorpio number 2 and I never even made it to first base. Scorpio number 1 was very loyal...to his ex girlfriend...a little TOO loyal for my comfort.
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I think with water signs timing can be crucial to the relationships,for instance,even your own story is a very common one among water sign pairings,ones ready and wants to be fast and takes it personal if the other isn't ready,while the other needs a little extra time for whatever past,present or future issues,emotions have to be on the up for it to even start decently as well as taking thier time.I've been with a pisces for 8 years but yeah,we also agreed on taking things slower and started 100% honest and open which can be a problem for all of the water signs to do.Maybe you could write a letter or something that you know will actually get to him,if no response then,guess its not happening.
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hey Tiatmat, I had never thought of that, but what you're saying about timing being crucial with water signs makes so much sense to me! I suppose it goes for all relationships between any signs, to some extent, but yeah, particularly between water signs Confused
I guess if you're already one complex being with way complex feelings, then when there are two of you trying to interact it kind of comes with a double "handle with care" warning or something ^.^
pisc74, it sounds like maybe you could write your scorpio guy a mail?
I wouldn't read too much into his actions or lack of it at this point - and I'm saying this because I know I have this tendency to think that it's over/he wants me to disappear from his world/he has already forgotten me (all positive thoughts Big Grin) whenever we have the littlest fight. You know, sometimes pisces imagination goes into negative overdrive or something. Then I feel kind of paralysed and am too afraid to do anything. And when I finally get around to doing something, Scorpio Guy tells me he's sorry too and he's glad I called first, and basically it comes out that we've just wasted an entire week being miserable apart when we could have been happy together because...I don't know why! Because we're water signs I guess.
Obviously,every situation is unique, so I don't know what could be going on in your guy's head. But hey, neither do you right? I mean, when you say :
"the fact that he hasn't tried to email me AT ALL tells me something."
I'm sort of wondering what it means. What does it tell you? Sure it could mean he never wants to talk to you again, but it could be a lot of other things as well. I don't want to give you any false hope or whatever. But I think it's the uncertainty that's so hard to bear - I'm pretty sure you can handle it if you're told clearly you're not wanted anymore. Pisces is way more resilient than most people would believe. But right now you're uncertain, which is teeth-clenching*.
In your previous post I thought you were explaining very clearly what you had been feeling, like being afraid he didn't want to introduce you to his family because he might be ashamed of you, and all that, and that you're sorry and hope he's okay. Maybe you can send him an e-mail to let him know all of this.
I'm thinking, even if he doesn't respond, you'll feel better for letting all of it off your chest.
Anyway, this post is way too long, sorry Sad
I just wanted to give you some support ^.^ from a fellow piscean.
Oh, also, I saw that a lot of people were really shocked at your telling him to "F... off" I respect everyone's opinion, but I personally felt like they were being a little hard on you. I think the language one uses has a lot to do with how they were brought up and all, and I know I'm not above swearing myself Tongue I guess it doesn't have the same degree of disrespectfulness depending on how and how frequently it was used in your background, maybe? So yeah, I understand how other people can receive such langugae with shock! But to me your saying that also meant that you cared deeply enough about him that you got THAT upset. Otherwise maybe he wouldn't have elicited such a reaction from you.
Hey, didn't I say this post was too long a while back already *sheepish*
Hope all goes well!
*yeah, I have no idea what I'm saying either. I'm no Dr. Phil. This poor girl is better off not listening to a word I say Confused
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lol,i think it was dead on smiley.the only mistakes are when you don't do anything that you think needs to be done,in this case,her need to tell him how she feels even if it doesn't work out,she can be confident in the fact that she did do something about it if it doesn't work out then.
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That "f@# $ off" response...LOL. It's amazing the things you forget after you spend a week being angry. I started to forget why I even reacted like that and even now it's hard to remember exactly why but if I can make things a little clearer...
While we were physically apart things were lovely. We spoke about everything...our lives, our families, our problems, work, love...and there was an intense connection between us. Sex wasn't really even discussed, our conversations were never about that. The most said between us in that aspect was "I can't wait to be in your presence". He told me he loved me so much and wanted to marry me. He kept asking although he knew I wouldn't answer his just yet. He couldn't wait to introduce me to his family.
I get there and I find out that he's completely broke and that his business failed very recently. I still loved him anyway and wanted to do what I could to help. He never asked me for money. He just told me how he felt like a failure, he let his family down and he was ashamed that he didn't have money to take me out or do anything special or to live up to his promises. I still loved him anyway. We still had a wonderful time travelling around for almost a week. I took care of things since I had enough money saved for this but we scaled down our grand plans so I could afford to. He was caring, tender and full of love and I was happy to give in return. He was so worried that I wasn't having a good time but I assured him that I was. He kept insisting that he would pay me back for everything when he had the money but I told him not to worry about it then. He insisted anyway. He told me he loved me so many times that I almost got sick of hearing it.
5 Days into my 2 weeks with him is when he changed. He spent the whole day watching tv and acting withdrawn. His nightly shot of whiskey tripled. I asked him what was wrong. He said his parents were upset. They wanted him to come home and get a job. Also their anniversary was happening in a few days and he was needed for the party (I knew this before I came and thought I'd be invited but I wasn't). He wanted to go home briefly to take care of things. I understood but something didn't feel right to me. I didn't know what and still don't.
He ended up leaving and then coming right back, saying that he didn't think it was fair to leave when I came all the way to see him and that he missed me. I told him it was ok but he wanted to stay. The next day he did the same thing and I said ok, it's time for you to go home. I will stay around and see you when you are ready. We went back to his hometown because his parent's anniversary was the next day. Once again, he left and came right back. I was happy that he wanted to stay but annoyed that he slipped back into his funk and when I tried to talk to him about things, he would tell me I was being "dull". He told me he finally told his family about me but I quickly found out that wasn't true. I started to pack and told him I was leaving and that I didn't want to cause anymore problems for him. He told me he wanted me to stay and kept unpacking my things as I packed them. He said if I wanted to leave then atleast wait until the next day but he still wanted to take me somewhere romantic. I stayed.
The next morning he said he wasn't going to go and that I should go have some fun on my own. He looked straight ahead when he said it and said it with no emotion in his voice. I felt a dagger go through my heart. I packed my things and he didn't try to stop me this time. He looked straight at the tv the entire time and said not a word. I went to the phone to make a call and he grabbed me and held onto me and said nothing. I told him I wasn't mad at him. I lied. I felt like he was dismissing me. Even angrier because he knew that it could be awhile before we saw each other again.
He went to use the bathroom while I finished pa
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>>Two weeks later, I am still struggling to understand this whole thing. This man more than once told me that he would ALWAYS LOVE ME no matter what happened between us and that he couldn't believe he was so attached to me. I remember all the things said between us, all the loving things we did for each other. I got sick during the earlier part of my stay and he was SO worried about me. I can't believe that this same man would ask me for $ 5 when I was leaving him and not try harder to make me stay.
>>None of this makes any sense to me...

Hey, you pissed him off. :\
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BeautifulScorpion, it's obvious that I pissed him off. That I already know but is there some point where he (or any Scorpio) might start thinking about what they did to elicit such a reaction? I don't know about you but when someone I love is coming to see me and I know that I am not able to see them often, I will try to make the most of it and try to treasure every moment that I have with them. I would NEVER EVER EVER want them to leave me before it's time for them to, regardless of what is going on. He should've been straight with me about what was going on BEFORE I came. I would've come anyway but with different expectations. Also, should I not be pissed off that he lied to me and told me he told his family about me? I think I have a right to get pissed off too if someone lies to me.
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>>I will try to make the most of it and try to treasure every moment that I have with them. I would NEVER EVER EVER want them to leave me before it's time for them to, regardless of what is going on. He should've been straight with me about what was going on BEFORE I came.
Well I know that when I am pissed or wanting to teach someone a lesson, none of that mushy gushy crap does not even cross me.
>>I would've come anyway but with different expectations. Also, should I not be pissed off that he lied to me and told me he told his family about me? I think I have a right to get pissed off too if someone lies to me.
Yes, he was wrong I guess.
Well then if you feel you "have a right to get pissed off too" then do it ...
If that's what you feel you should do.
Sometimes you can't expect anything from people :\
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