How would you approach a shy/depressed Scorpio?

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Gcgc
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There is a Scorpio woman I can't really stop thinkin about who showed interested over 4 days when I was working with some people on one of her places she owns. In the past a couple years ago she showed interest but was more open and not as shy and didn't act depressed. I am a Aries but I rarely chase like I did when I was younger trying one night stands or I tend to bait and wait for them to chase then pounce.

I also think I made her feel like I rejected her a few times because She got secretly upset and walked away when I didn't give her the attention she was hinting at while I was working or talking to the other guys.

I never feel some type of way over a few times just seeing somebody and not accually doing anything.

How would you try and approach this person? Should I just leave her alone?

I do know this person where not really complete strangers.
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Chase her if you like her and leave her alone if you're not that into her.

If you do like her, you'll have to be upfront and initiate because she won't! A Scorpio is shy/hesistant about initiation so they let you know their interest in subtle ways and sometimes are prone to playing games to test your level of interest etc. Don't try to read into her actions (she doesn't want to lead that's why she acts the way she does), it'll confuse you and by all means, don't play games back with her!
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degenerate_ingenue
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you're an aries. all of my closest friends are aries and i like their assertion and the way they come off as right to the point, blunt but they get the job done. all you have to do is ask her to grab dinner or something, and it'll most likely set the wheels in motion.

however, i would be cautious about the sadness and depression and really question if you want to travel on that rollercoaster. my aries bff once was talking to a guy who was always depressed about something, and she suffers from some depression as well. she'd say something to him about her day, and he was the type to say "yeah well mine was worse" type. i'm glad nothing ever came of them. they're still friends though, but if i couldn't imagine what would've happened if she did take that leap. i feared for her happiness. just bear in mind that you deserve to be happy and anyone who tries to "outdo" you in the sadness department isn't one you want to deal with long-term in a deep relationship.

granted, your message isn't quite clear if she's always depressed or if she's just depressed because you didn't ask her out. at the beginning you mention she showed interest with no depression. so like you said, maybe she is taking the rejection hard if she perceives it that way. i'd say i'm the same way about rejection. i take it to heart even if someone didn't directly reject me; however, i'd never make the first move to find out. i'd just suffer quietly and move forward after feeling rejected. then i can be platonic again without a problem.