Howdy! Saggie girl needs advice on Scorp boyfriend
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by kilikina07 on Saturday, July 2, 2011 and has 3 replies.
if u love him, stick with him...rome wasnt built in a day
This sounds kinda similar to my relationship, I have been dating a sagg for about a 1 1/2 now and we have taken two breaks within this time. This relationship can be very trying and you need to find a happy medium to make things run smoothly it's a lot of give and take in this relationship and it has to come from both people if you two really love each other it should work you just have to learn how to compromise and moving really last doesn't help because it makes the reltionship crash and burn so just take your time and hopefully everything will work out fine........
Last thing COMMUNICATION...... VERY IMPORTANT
Last thing COMMUNICATION...... VERY IMPORTANT
You send mixed signals to him .. you move within walking distance from him, and then tell him you don't "fit" with him.
You say you treat him like a King ... then are in despair because he can't step up to the Kingness you've bestowed upon him, and he even tells you that he isn't what you are looking for.
What are you looking for? Do you know?
Here's the thing ... if you have an expectation of what you think your man is suppose to be and then attempt to fit a guy into this mold .. then you have failed before you've ever started because he can only be the person that he is. And it sounds to me like this is the case. It sounds like you are treating him as if he is suppose to feel like you are his queen ...
... and you've taken no consideration that he never asked to be your king. He wants to know why you two can't just have fun and see where life takes you without forcing any issues.
Why are you forcing issues?
If this man was married for 27 years, and he is only in his mid forties .. then he's been completely tied down his whole adult life ... and a person needs to breathe, needs to be let live for a while ... and it appears as though you say you know this in theory, but, then attempt to put restraints on him in terms of commiting to you.
He's never going to be the man you want him to be, not ever ... however, it's possible that you get the man he wants to be .. the question is - is that good enough for you?
You say you treat him like a King ... then are in despair because he can't step up to the Kingness you've bestowed upon him, and he even tells you that he isn't what you are looking for.
What are you looking for? Do you know?
Here's the thing ... if you have an expectation of what you think your man is suppose to be and then attempt to fit a guy into this mold .. then you have failed before you've ever started because he can only be the person that he is. And it sounds to me like this is the case. It sounds like you are treating him as if he is suppose to feel like you are his queen ...
... and you've taken no consideration that he never asked to be your king. He wants to know why you two can't just have fun and see where life takes you without forcing any issues.
Why are you forcing issues?
If this man was married for 27 years, and he is only in his mid forties .. then he's been completely tied down his whole adult life ... and a person needs to breathe, needs to be let live for a while ... and it appears as though you say you know this in theory, but, then attempt to put restraints on him in terms of commiting to you.
He's never going to be the man you want him to be, not ever ... however, it's possible that you get the man he wants to be .. the question is - is that good enough for you?
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