
shishno
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Posted by shishno
Forgot to add that there is this other guy that pretty much follows her around. she knows this guy likes her. she invited this fool to also hang out with me her and her friend.. I took over that night 😉 I can tell that he was jealous. It was my idea to hang out that weekend and it was GOING to be my night! screw him he wasnt invited. 😛
I think your right about her liking more the one person. But us cancers dont play that BS.




Posted by shishno
we went out a couple times with some friends. we get along great! I wanted to date. she wanted to be friends. I told her I wasn't gay. blabla she's making up excuses when I did ask her out again. I then told her to quit wasting my time and I defriended her on my facebook.
There comes a point when a man needs to be a man and notice the signs of rejection and be the first to do the rejecting. she messaged me back.. I didn't reply...
I was starting to like her but I didn't want to be stuck in the friends zone.
I think she likes me too because she has been giving me the eye flirting attention for over a year and just last month started hanging out and giving her a try. She keeps saying im hot and cute and all the good things a cancer man LOVES to hear but she just wants to be friends nothing more. I don't understan! in my head im like.. FUK That!
I think I hurt her feelings... moving on. I'll miss her.. 😢


Posted by scorpio_chic
FYI: A mans ego and his looks have absolutely nothing to do with your strength.
Just because he looked like Mr Winky doesn't mean he was a pushover, and just because you have a big ego doesn't mean you're the strong type. I don't know you, so I am not saying that you're one way or another... But scorpios are so misunderstood. We DESPISE the weak, pushover types. And looks do not always matter to us.. Imagine that. For as much shit people talk about scorpios, we're not as shallow as most.


Posted by scorpio_chic
Yes leadership and power is very attractive to us. Numerous times I've been attracted to my bosses, even if they were older. Of course I rarely acted on it, (maybe once or twice lol) but the attraction was there and it wasn't about their looks. It was about the confidence & strength behind doing what they do.. leading. We like to be lead, contrary to popular belief, we do not wanna be able to control a man. That is such a turn-off. Nor do we want someone to control us, besides in the sheets.. LOL But that's a whole other thread. 🙂
Also personality & sense of humor come first & foremost for me. My ex was an overweight guy, his face wasn't very attractive either, but he was a great leader at our job. When he spoke to the big wigs, he never seemed to doubt himself or get 'nervous' like all the other supervisors did when the big wigs came in. AND he made me & everyone else in the office laugh. He would pick on me, not in an insulting way but in a cute way. He wasn't trying to be over-the-top 'suave'.. he was just being himself.
He pursued me for 6 long months and my attraction grew for him, slowly but surely. Eventually it turned into a physical attraction too, then eventually it turned to love.
But the son of a bitch was living double lives... but that too, is a whole other thread. LMAO 🙂





Posted by scorpio_chicPosted by shishno
Mr. Cabby... you may have something there about them liking the weaker dudes.... cause this chicks ex look like mr. Winky from south park. my ego cannot be contained in normal sized facilities. kinda odd for a cancer right? but non the less I am a cancer. I hide my emotions well but when I show it, it explodes.
For as much shit people talk about scorpios, we're not as shallow as most.click to expand
like hell

Posted by scorpio_chicPosted by shishno
Mr. Cabby... you may have something there about them liking the weaker dudes.... cause this chicks ex look like mr. Winky from south park. my ego cannot be contained in normal sized facilities. kinda odd for a cancer right? but non the less I am a cancer. I hide my emotions well but when I show it, it explodes.
Tho let me just put this out there... With each rejection only makes us stronger. eventually you will know the signs of early rejection to save yourself the time and be the one to reject first >:]
FYI: A mans ego and his looks have absolutely nothing to do with your strength.
Just because he looked like Mr Winky doesn't mean he was a pushover, and just because you have a big ego doesn't mean you're the strong type. I don't know you, so I am not saying that you're one way or another... But scorpios are so misunderstood. We DESPISE the weak, pushover types. And looks do not always matter to us.. Imagine that. For as much shit people talk about scorpios, we're not as shallow as most.click to expand
Posted by scorpio_chic
It's so amusing to see someone so arrogant and who finds himself so 'knowledgeable' about scorpios. Really you seem more like a lost puppy trying to find your way. Stop trying to figure out the scorpio female, you are too far gone. Even if you had a good scorpio woman in your life you wouldn't know what to do with her and it'd be a waste of your time as well as hers.

Posted by scorpio_chic
It's so amusing to see someone so arrogant and who finds himself so 'knowledgeable' about scorpios. Really you seem more like a lost puppy trying to find your way. Stop trying to figure out the scorpio female, you are too far gone. Even if you had a good scorpio woman in your life you wouldn't know what to do with her and it'd be a waste of your time as well as hers.

Posted by cancerguy
So, there you have her, the Scorpio woman. I can't think of a worse match for Cancer, a complete waste of time, as you said. I definitely think it's best that these two never stray beyond the boundaries of friendship.

Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
Mr. Crabby and the other Cancer guy, if you consider Scorpio women so average, immature, and boring, then why do you even bothered—??
How contradicting?
Posted by cancerguyPosted by aquilascorpiusfemina
Mr. Crabby and the other Cancer guy, if you consider Scorpio women so average, immature, and boring, then why do you even bothered—??
How contradicting?
I don't bother. In fact, I only jumped in the thread because I saw it on the front page.click to expand
Posted by SunScorpioPosted by cancerguyPosted by aquilascorpiusfemina
Mr. Crabby and the other Cancer guy, if you consider Scorpio women so average, immature, and boring, then why do you even bothered—??
How contradicting?
I don't bother. In fact, I only jumped in the thread because I saw it on the front page.
Which begs the question: Why bother jumping in?click to expand
Posted by eden 3
5 cancer male friends inc. my best would disagree that crabs & scorps get along

Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
Mr. Crabby and the other Cancer guy, if you consider Scorpio women so average, immature, and boring, then why do you even bothered—??
How contradicting?
Posted by shishno
we went out a couple times with some friends. we get along great! I wanted to date. she wanted to be friends. I told her I wasn't gay. blabla she's making up excuses when I did ask her out again. I then told her to quit wasting my time and I defriended her on my facebook.
There comes a point when a man needs to be a man and notice the signs of rejection and be the first to do the rejecting. she messaged me back.. I didn't reply...
I was starting to like her but I didn't want to be stuck in the friends zone.
I think she likes me too because she has been giving me the eye flirting attention for over a year and just last month started hanging out and giving her a try. She keeps saying im hot and cute and all the good things a cancer man LOVES to hear but she just wants to be friends nothing more. I don't understan! in my head im like.. FUK That!
I think I hurt her feelings... moving on. I'll miss her.. 😢
Posted by scorpio740
hello guys/gals.. I'm new here.. =)
since the title is "Cancer rejecting Scorpio", I hope someone can enlighten me what's the best thing to do.. (sorry for the sudden change of topic in the thread)
here's my story..
the cancer man and I dated for 6 months.. i made a huge mistake and broke his heart.. i told him I'll wait for his forgiveness.. (this was sept 2009).. things were shaky for the next couple of months.. "push and pull game" as some of the people in here would call it.. he would contact me only to disappear for the next 2-3 weeks.... then call me again to say he missed me..
One day, he again contacted me.. a little different.. more sweet.. more caring.. he even told me he wanted me back in his life! i was so happy.. i told him I wanted him back as well... he agreed to work on our relationship.. (i was the happiest person alive)
One week has passed since that conversation. i still haven't heard from him..i texted him.. saying i missed him.. no reply.. so, i let him be.. i didn't call to ask where or why.....
now, my dilemma is this.. i don't know if it's worth the wait..I do love him.. but I'm getting tired..some friends told me a person who cares and love me won't do what he's doing to me..but reading the threads from this website made me realize that it's probably a "cancer personality" to be this way.. what do you think is the best thing to do? his birthday is next month (end of june).. i don't know if should even bother greeting or giving him a present..
any advice fellow Scorpios? cancer friends? please do help..

Posted by scorpio740
hello guys/gals.. I'm new here.. =)
since the title is "Cancer rejecting Scorpio", I hope someone can enlighten me what's the best thing to do.. (sorry for the sudden change of topic in the thread)
here's my story..
the cancer man and I dated for 6 months.. i made a huge mistake and broke his heart.. i told him I'll wait for his forgiveness.. (this was sept 2009).. things were shaky for the next couple of months.. "push and pull game" as some of the people in here would call it.. he would contact me only to disappear for the next 2-3 weeks.... then call me again to say he missed me..
One day, he again contacted me.. a little different.. more sweet.. more caring.. he even told me he wanted me back in his life! i was so happy.. i told him I wanted him back as well... he agreed to work on our relationship.. (i was the happiest person alive)
One week has passed since that conversation. i still haven't heard from him..i texted him.. saying i missed him.. no reply.. so, i let him be.. i didn't call to ask where or why.....
now, my dilemma is this.. i don't know if it's worth the wait..I do love him.. but I'm getting tired..some friends told me a person who cares and love me won't do what he's doing to me..but reading the threads from this website made me realize that it's probably a "cancer personality" to be this way.. what do you think is the best thing to do? his birthday is next month (end of june).. i don't know if should even bother greeting or giving him a present..
any advice fellow Scorpios? cancer friends? please do help..



Posted by MegStings
Shisho I remember you started a thread about this girl a long time ago (if it was the same chick) and I remember reading it and coming to the conclusion I have the same problem with a Cancer dude. Well, I did have that problem. Got to let them go eventually.

Posted by * Tasha *
it will mean a lot to him!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by scorpio740
the only reason I said I want to ignore his birthday is because I feel like he's playing with my heart to get even.
I feel that way because he said he wanted me back in his life, yet right after that conversation, I never heard from him again. I do want to wait for him.. but the situation he's putting me into makes me feel dubious about his " trust test" whether it's truly a "test" or just an act of revenge.
cancers are vengeful indeed.. 😢
Posted by MegStings
Everything happens for a reason, right? 🙂
Posted by MegStings
Better to find a reason to make sense of that than to dwell.



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There comes a point when a man needs to be a man and notice the signs of rejection and be the first to do the rejecting. she messaged me back.. I didn't reply...
I was starting to like her but I didn't want to be stuck in the friends zone.
I think she likes me too because she has been giving me the eye flirting attention for over a year and just last month started hanging out and giving her a try. She keeps saying im hot and cute and all the good things a cancer man LOVES to hear but she just wants to be friends nothing more. I don't understan! in my head im like.. FUK That!
I think I hurt her feelings... moving on. I'll miss her.. 😢