I don’t get it

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I think I might have the weirdest friendship or crush or whatever it is ...can’t describe it.

I get random texts from him at night....poems...about absolutely nothing (trash cans or corks) Sometimes I think he’s drunk (he has admitted that in the past) and other times I feel like he’s trying to articulate something but it comes out rather strange...

Then today it’s a song. He sang me a song and sent it to me.

The song has a meaning but I had to translate it since its in his native language....nothing romantic (in case you are wondering).

I am baffled and I don’t know how to move forward.
Is he the Scorpio?
Posted by MareInfame

Are you not comfortable enough to tell him that you feel baffled by his behavior?
I’ve asked him about what he writes and he brushes it off like it was just a story or just some random song he found.

Posted by MyStarsShine

Is he the Scorpio?
Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.

Posted by HearttofTopazz

Do you like him?
So much

Ilikehimalot
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by MyStarsShine

Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.
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What do you want him to open up about?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by MyStarsShine

Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.


What do you want him to open up about?
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The meaning and intentions behind all these texts and songs or him singing a song...

I’ve tried asking him questions about the poems or stories and the song but he brushes it off.

I won’t force anyone if they don’t want to talk

Posted by MissKrabs

He likes you and wants you to make a move.
I’m this close to tell him I like him but the I start analyzing everything , I freak out and hide under a rock.

I try to wait for the right time but I can’t seem to find the right time.
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Posted by HearttofTopazz

Do you like him?


So much

Ilikehimalot

I’d wait it out a bit. In the meantime return the favor with some poems or songs. Mirror him nicely, instead of being direct about it. Maybe that will help him open up.
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Good idea

I am just not creative like him but will try my best. 🙂

Thank you.

I’ll think hard to see what I can do for him.
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.


What do you want him to open up about?


The meaning and intentions behind all these texts and songs or him singing a song...

I’ve tried asking him questions about the poems or stories and the song but he brushes it off.

I won’t force anyone if they don’t want to talk
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Maybe he feels his art doesn’t need explanation?
Posted by MareInfame
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by MareInfame

Are you not comfortable enough to tell him that you feel baffled by his behavior?


I’ve asked him about what he writes and he brushes it off like it was just a story or just some random song he found.


Lol... yeah, your question was not confronting the root of your wonderment, though.

I was about to ask if you liked him... but you already answered that.

I think he is showing you he is interested in you but doesn’t want to tell you. He wants to see how you react to it, and go from there.

You two will be brewing slowly... until one makes a stronger move.

If you don’t want to be so clear about how you feel, maybe you can just focus on being very complimentary about his work and just encourage him to continue what he does or encourage him to turn it up a notch.
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I’m waiting for the right moment to tell him I like him.

I just can’t seem to find the perfect moment.

He’s very smart and creative. I admire his way of thinking.

Thank you for your suggestion.

🙂

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Posted by MareInfame

Are you not comfortable enough to tell him that you feel baffled by his behavior?


I’ve asked him about what he writes and he brushes it off like it was just a story or just some random song he found.


Lol... yeah, your question was not confronting the root of your wonderment, though.

I was about to ask if you liked him... but you already answered that.

I think he is showing you he is interested in you but doesn’t want to tell you. He wants to see how you react to it, and go from there.

You two will be brewing slowly... until one makes a stronger move.

If you don’t want to be so clear about how you feel, maybe you can just focus on being very complimentary about his work and just encourage him to continue what he does or encourage him to turn it up a notch.
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I’m waiting for the right moment to tell him I like him.

I just can’t seem to find the perfect moment.

He’s very smart and creative. I admire his way of thinking.

Thank you for your suggestion.

🙂

Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Chessmess
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.


What do you want him to open up about?


The meaning and intentions behind all these texts and songs or him singing a song...

I’ve tried asking him questions about the poems or stories and the song but he brushes it off.

I won’t force anyone if they don’t want to talk


Maybe he feels his art doesn’t need explanation?
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Agree with you on that...just wanted to know about his actions mostly.

He’s a good writer and very smart guy.

Posted by MareInfame
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by MissKrabs

He likes you and wants you to make a move.


I’m this close to tell him I like him but the I start analyzing everything , I freak out and hide under a rock.

I try to wait for the right time but I can’t seem to find the right time.


If we didn’t have this coronavirus distancing issue, I’d advise you to just show him how you feel on a physical level.

Just body language and light touches can say so much without having to say the words. You also quickly see if he is responsive or not.

This is much harder to do from a distance, unfortunately 😒.
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I’ve hugged him in the past and he once gave me a kiss on the cheek.

And then I froze.

the problem here is me. I recognize it. I’ve been hurt in the past and I’m afraid to get hurt again so I hide my feelings from him and I know he gets frustrated so he backs away but then he comes back with light touches...

I haven’t seen him since February so it makes it more difficult to reveal my feelings when it’s not face to face...:

Or trying to read between the lines (texts, poems and songs).

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.


What do you want him to open up about?


The meaning and intentions behind all these texts and songs or him singing a song...

I’ve tried asking him questions about the poems or stories and the song but he brushes it off.

I won’t force anyone if they don’t want to talk


Maybe he feels his art doesn’t need explanation?


Agree with you on that...just wanted to know about his actions mostly.

He’s a good writer and very smart guy.
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What was the song about?
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.


What do you want him to open up about?


The meaning and intentions behind all these texts and songs or him singing a song...

I’ve tried asking him questions about the poems or stories and the song but he brushes it off.

I won’t force anyone if they don’t want to talk


Maybe he feels his art doesn’t need explanation?


Agree with you on that...just wanted to know about his actions mostly.

He’s a good writer and very smart guy.


What was the song about?
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What I got from the translation is about flying high in the sky, above the trees...”let’s fly in the sky” spring is coming, birds are singing, the heart is missing(perhaps is skipping heart beats?) beats (?) and everything is to disappear ...Just the heavens and the air

And Only happiness is there ....

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.


What do you want him to open up about?


The meaning and intentions behind all these texts and songs or him singing a song...

I’ve tried asking him questions about the poems or stories and the song but he brushes it off.

I won’t force anyone if they don’t want to talk


Maybe he feels his art doesn’t need explanation?


Agree with you on that...just wanted to know about his actions mostly.

He’s a good writer and very smart guy.


What was the song about?


What I got from the translation is about flying high in the sky, above the trees...”let’s fly in the sky” spring is coming, birds are singing, the heart is missing(perhaps is skipping heart beats?) beats (?) and everything is to disappear ...Just the heavens and the air

And Only happiness is there ....
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Magic mushrooms? 😀
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Posted by Chessmess
Posted by MyStarsShine

Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.


What do you want him to open up about?


The meaning and intentions behind all these texts and songs or him singing a song...

I’ve tried asking him questions about the poems or stories and the song but he brushes it off.

I won’t force anyone if they don’t want to talk


Maybe he feels his art doesn’t need explanation?


Agree with you on that...just wanted to know about his actions mostly.

He’s a good writer and very smart guy.


What was the song about?


What I got from the translation is about flying high in the sky, above the trees...”let’s fly in the sky” spring is coming, birds are singing, the heart is missing(perhaps is skipping heart beats?) beats (?) and everything is to disappear ...Just the heavens and the air

And Only happiness is there ....


Magic mushrooms? 😀
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😂🤣🤣

That was funny.

I doubt he does shrooms.
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.


What do you want him to open up about?


The meaning and intentions behind all these texts and songs or him singing a song...

I’ve tried asking him questions about the poems or stories and the song but he brushes it off.

I won’t force anyone if they don’t want to talk


Maybe he feels his art doesn’t need explanation?


Agree with you on that...just wanted to know about his actions mostly.

He’s a good writer and very smart guy.


What was the song about?


What I got from the translation is about flying high in the sky, above the trees...”let’s fly in the sky” spring is coming, birds are singing, the heart is missing(perhaps is skipping heart beats?) beats (?) and everything is to disappear ...Just the heavens and the air

And Only happiness is there ....


Magic mushrooms? 😀


😂🤣🤣

That was funny.

I doubt he does shrooms.
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Haha 😀

Is he a bit of a space cadet?
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Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.


What do you want him to open up about?


The meaning and intentions behind all these texts and songs or him singing a song...

I’ve tried asking him questions about the poems or stories and the song but he brushes it off.

I won’t force anyone if they don’t want to talk


Maybe he feels his art doesn’t need explanation?


Agree with you on that...just wanted to know about his actions mostly.

He’s a good writer and very smart guy.


What was the song about?


What I got from the translation is about flying high in the sky, above the trees...”let’s fly in the sky” spring is coming, birds are singing, the heart is missing(perhaps is skipping heart beats?) beats (?) and everything is to disappear ...Just the heavens and the air

And Only happiness is there ....


Magic mushrooms? 😀


😂🤣🤣

That was funny.

I doubt he does shrooms.


Haha 😀

Is he a bit of a space cadet?
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😆

Not really. Not at all. He’s so serious , very mature, composed....he intimidates me sometimes .

When he’s drunk (he has sent me drunk texts) he’s sarcastic / dry.

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Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.


What do you want him to open up about?


The meaning and intentions behind all these texts and songs or him singing a song...

I’ve tried asking him questions about the poems or stories and the song but he brushes it off.

I won’t force anyone if they don’t want to talk


Maybe he feels his art doesn’t need explanation?


Agree with you on that...just wanted to know about his actions mostly.

He’s a good writer and very smart guy.


What was the song about?


What I got from the translation is about flying high in the sky, above the trees...”let’s fly in the sky” spring is coming, birds are singing, the heart is missing(perhaps is skipping heart beats?) beats (?) and everything is to disappear ...Just the heavens and the air

And Only happiness is there ....


Magic mushrooms? 😀


😂🤣🤣

That was funny.

I doubt he does shrooms.


Haha 😀

Is he a bit of a space cadet?


😆

Not really. Not at all. He’s so serious , very mature, composed....he intimidates me sometimes .

When he’s drunk (he has sent me drunk texts) he’s sarcastic / dry.
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He sounds a bit quirky too? Do you have his chart?
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Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.


What do you want him to open up about?


The meaning and intentions behind all these texts and songs or him singing a song...

I’ve tried asking him questions about the poems or stories and the song but he brushes it off.

I won’t force anyone if they don’t want to talk


Maybe he feels his art doesn’t need explanation?


Agree with you on that...just wanted to know about his actions mostly.

He’s a good writer and very smart guy.


What was the song about?


What I got from the translation is about flying high in the sky, above the trees...”let’s fly in the sky” spring is coming, birds are singing, the heart is missing(perhaps is skipping heart beats?) beats (?) and everything is to disappear ...Just the heavens and the air

And Only happiness is there ....


Magic mushrooms? 😀


😂🤣🤣

That was funny.

I doubt he does shrooms.


Haha 😀

Is he a bit of a space cadet?


😆

Not really. Not at all. He’s so serious , very mature, composed....he intimidates me sometimes .

When he’s drunk (he has sent me drunk texts) he’s sarcastic / dry.


He sounds a bit quirky too? Do you have his chart?
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Probably is his moon in Gemini? He teases me though. He teases me a lot.

Don’t have his time of birth, though.


Zodiac : Tropical

Sun Scorpio 3°03'

Moon Gemini 26°30'

Mercury Scorpio 24°22'

Venus Virgo 24°35'

Mars Libra 16°29'

Jupiter Capricorn 4°00'

Saturn Gemini 20°05' R

Uranus Libra 19°36'

Neptune Sagittarius 3°50'

Pluto Libra 3°04'

Lilith Scorpio 27°20'

N Node Capricorn 20°04'

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Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.


What do you want him to open up about?


The meaning and intentions behind all these texts and songs or him singing a song...

I’ve tried asking him questions about the poems or stories and the song but he brushes it off.

I won’t force anyone if they don’t want to talk


Maybe he feels his art doesn’t need explanation?


Agree with you on that...just wanted to know about his actions mostly.

He’s a good writer and very smart guy.


What was the song about?


What I got from the translation is about flying high in the sky, above the trees...”let’s fly in the sky” spring is coming, birds are singing, the heart is missing(perhaps is skipping heart beats?) beats (?) and everything is to disappear ...Just the heavens and the air

And Only happiness is there ....


Magic mushrooms? 😀


😂🤣🤣

That was funny.

I doubt he does shrooms.


Haha 😀

Is he a bit of a space cadet?


😆

Not really. Not at all. He’s so serious , very mature, composed....he intimidates me sometimes .

When he’s drunk (he has sent me drunk texts) he’s sarcastic / dry.


Ooh... he sounds sexy 👌🏼

Guuuuuurlll.... stop blocking, let him get you!
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Yes, you are right...I always thought I had game but when I’m around him, I am a complete dork. 🤓😩

He is sexy 🔥
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Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.


What do you want him to open up about?


The meaning and intentions behind all these texts and songs or him singing a song...

I’ve tried asking him questions about the poems or stories and the song but he brushes it off.

I won’t force anyone if they don’t want to talk


Maybe he feels his art doesn’t need explanation?


Agree with you on that...just wanted to know about his actions mostly.

He’s a good writer and very smart guy.


What was the song about?


What I got from the translation is about flying high in the sky, above the trees...”let’s fly in the sky” spring is coming, birds are singing, the heart is missing(perhaps is skipping heart beats?) beats (?) and everything is to disappear ...Just the heavens and the air

And Only happiness is there ....


Magic mushrooms? 😀


😂🤣🤣

That was funny.

I doubt he does shrooms.


Haha 😀

Is he a bit of a space cadet?


😆

Not really. Not at all. He’s so serious , very mature, composed....he intimidates me sometimes .

When he’s drunk (he has sent me drunk texts) he’s sarcastic / dry.


He sounds a bit quirky too? Do you have his chart?


Probably is his moon in Gemini? He teases me though. He teases me a lot.

Don’t have his time of birth, though.


Zodiac : Tropical

Sun Scorpio 3°03'

Moon Gemini 26°30'

Mercury Scorpio 24°22'

Venus Virgo 24°35'

Mars Libra 16°29'

Jupiter Capricorn 4°00'

Saturn Gemini 20°05' R

Uranus Libra 19°36'

Neptune Sagittarius 3°50'

Pluto Libra 3°04'

Lilith Scorpio 27°20'

N Node Capricorn 20°04'
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Gemini placements - quick witted and Scorp Merc nice dark humour haha .. I have that 😈
I’d be inclined to send him a rap or poem asking him out for coffee .... would you do that? Are you poetic?

Is he single?
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I’d be inclined to send him a rap or poem asking him out for coffee .... would you do that? Are you poetic?


I would but I am too romantic. I might scare him off.

I’ll try to come up with something clever 🙂

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Is he single?


Oh , I hope so.

Checking out his FB, he seems to have a lot of lady friends.


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Posted by MissKrabs

He likes you and wants you to make a move.


I’m this close to tell him I like him but the I start analyzing everything , I freak out and hide under a rock.

I try to wait for the right time but I can’t seem to find the right time.


If we didn’t have this coronavirus distancing issue, I’d advise you to just show him how you feel on a physical level.

Just body language and light touches can say so much without having to say the words. You also quickly see if he is responsive or not.

This is much harder to do from a distance, unfortunately 😒.


I’ve hugged him in the past and he once gave me a kiss on the cheek.

And then I froze.

the problem here is me. I recognize it. I’ve been hurt in the past and I’m afraid to get hurt again so I hide my feelings from him and I know he gets frustrated so he backs away but then he comes back with light touches...

I haven’t seen him since February so it makes it more difficult to reveal my feelings when it’s not face to face...:

Or trying to read between the lines (texts, poems and songs).


What is your sun sign?

Yeah... you will have to work on your fear and past hurts (that seem to be unrelated to him) because since you’ve now reveled that you are conflicted, I’m sure he has sensed/ picked up on that too. This is probably why he is not more clear with you. He doesn’t want to scare you off.

So, work on yourself... and that will improve your situation with him.
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Aries

I am aware this combination (Scorpio / Aries)

might not work. This has been going on for 3 years , btw.

will try to move forward and be more confident about the situation.

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Is he the Scorpio?


Yes , he is

Every time I ask him about his texts / stories and now the song, he acts nonchalant about it. So I just say “thank you” for the text or song. Seems to me he doesn’t want to open up.


What do you want him to open up about?


The meaning and intentions behind all these texts and songs or him singing a song...

I’ve tried asking him questions about the poems or stories and the song but he brushes it off.

I won’t force anyone if they don’t want to talk


Maybe he feels his art doesn’t need explanation?


Agree with you on that...just wanted to know about his actions mostly.

He’s a good writer and very smart guy.


What was the song about?


What I got from the translation is about flying high in the sky, above the trees...”let’s fly in the sky” spring is coming, birds are singing, the heart is missing(perhaps is skipping heart beats?) beats (?) and everything is to disappear ...Just the heavens and the air

And Only happiness is there ....


Magic mushrooms? 😀


😂🤣🤣

That was funny.

I doubt he does shrooms.


Haha 😀

Is he a bit of a space cadet?


😆

Not really. Not at all. He’s so serious , very mature, composed....he intimidates me sometimes .

When he’s drunk (he has sent me drunk texts) he’s sarcastic / dry.


He sounds a bit quirky too? Do you have his chart?


Probably is his moon in Gemini? He teases me though. He teases me a lot.

Don’t have his time of birth, though.


Zodiac : Tropical

Sun Scorpio 3°03'

Moon Gemini 26°30'

Mercury Scorpio 24°22'

Venus Virgo 24°35'

Mars Libra 16°29'

Jupiter Capricorn 4°00'

Saturn Gemini 20°05' R

Uranus Libra 19°36'

Neptune Sagittarius 3°50'

Pluto Libra 3°04'

Lilith Scorpio 27°20'

N Node Capricorn 20°04'


Looks like his moon could have changed that day if you cast it for midday
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Yes, to cancer , I believe.
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He likes you and wants you to make a move.


I’m this close to tell him I like him but the I start analyzing everything , I freak out and hide under a rock.

I try to wait for the right time but I can’t seem to find the right time.


If we didn’t have this coronavirus distancing issue, I’d advise you to just show him how you feel on a physical level.

Just body language and light touches can say so much without having to say the words. You also quickly see if he is responsive or not.

This is much harder to do from a distance, unfortunately 😒.


I’ve hugged him in the past and he once gave me a kiss on the cheek.

And then I froze.

the problem here is me. I recognize it. I’ve been hurt in the past and I’m afraid to get hurt again so I hide my feelings from him and I know he gets frustrated so he backs away but then he comes back with light touches...

I haven’t seen him since February so it makes it more difficult to reveal my feelings when it’s not face to face...:

Or trying to read between the lines (texts, poems and songs).


What is your sun sign?

Yeah... you will have to work on your fear and past hurts (that seem to be unrelated to him) because since you’ve now reveled that you are conflicted, I’m sure he has sensed/ picked up on that too. This is probably why he is not more clear with you. He doesn’t want to scare you off.

So, work on yourself... and that will improve your situation with him.


AriesI am aware this combination (Scorpio / Aries)

might not work.
This has been going on for 3 years , btw.

will try to move forward and be more confident about the situation.


Please let me introduce you to @Sailor_Mars - your future self...
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😂

Yes, I’ve read her comments here and there.

Probably another reason why this has been going on for 3 years and I haven’t made a move.
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I’d be inclined to send him a rap or poem asking him out for coffee .... would you do that? Are you poetic?


I would but I am too romantic. I might scare him off.

I’ll try to come up with something clever 🙂


WTF

Is he a man or a small, skittish cloven-hoofed animal?
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😂🤣😂
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Is he single?

Oh , I hope so.

Checking out his FB, he seems to have a lot of lady friends.
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If he is, you should do me a favor and set us up Big Grin
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Is he single?

Oh , I hope so.

Checking out his FB, he seems to have a lot of lady friends.

If he is, you should do me a favor and set us up Big Grin
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😆

Scorpio and Scorpio - I cant compete with that!

🔥 🔥 🔥
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My Scorpio is the love of my Universe. The connection was out of this world. I wish you the best 💖
It is intense (the connection). He melts my panties whenever he’s near 😆
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Do you like him?


So much

Ilikehimalot

I’d wait it out a bit. In the meantime return the favor with some poems or songs. Mirror him nicely, instead of being direct about it. Maybe that will help him open up.


Good idea

I am just not creative like him but will try my best. 🙂

Thank you.

I’ll think hard to see what I can do for him.


We will write it for you if you need too, we got ya back.
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Thank you 🙏 Very thoughtful of you.





Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?
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Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?
Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂
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Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?


Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂
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So what have you got to lose if you make the first move? Like ask him to go for a walk while having an ice cream or a coffee or something.

If you put yourself out there, then he knows, even if he's not ready now, the ball is in his court.

If he declines, then you can say: "Well at least we can still be friends. That works for me."
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?


Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂


So what have you got to lose if you make the first move? Like ask him to go for a walk while having an ice cream or a coffee or something.

If you put yourself out there, then he knows, even if he's not ready now, the ball is in his court.

If he declines, then you can say: "Well at least we can still be friends. That works for me."
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True

Problem is that is coronavirus season.

😬😷

Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?


Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂


So what have you got to lose if you make the first move? Like ask him to go for a walk while having an ice cream or a coffee or something.

If you put yourself out there, then he knows, even if he's not ready now, the ball is in his court.

If he declines, then you can say: "Well at least we can still be friends. That works for me."


True

Problem is that is coronavirus season.

😬😷
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You can walk and talk while keeping a safe distance.

Invite him for an online date, while you each have drinks. I did this before Covid with a single mom I met online where it was difficult to see each other because she had limited time and we lived a couple of hours apart. She really appreciated the gesture. She was a Scorpio and in another timeline things would have worked out.
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?


Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂


So what have you got to lose if you make the first move? Like ask him to go for a walk while having an ice cream or a coffee or something.

If you put yourself out there, then he knows, even if he's not ready now, the ball is in his court.

If he declines, then you can say: "Well at least we can still be friends. That works for me."


True

Problem is that is coronavirus season.

😬😷


You can walk and talk while keeping a safe distance.

Invite him for an online date, while you each have drinks. I did this before Covid with a single mom I met online where it was difficult to see each other because she had limited time and we lived a couple of hours apart. She really appreciated the gesture. She was a Scorpio and in another timeline things would have worked out.
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Yeah, I’ve tried that. In fact, he came up with the idea to hang out online. I waited ...He never showed up - 3 times .

Third time i asked him what was up and he apologized many times.

I left it at that. Now he sends me poems and he serenades me.

I still like him but I guess this is one of the reasons that stops me from moving forward.
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Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?


Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂


So what have you got to lose if you make the first move? Like ask him to go for a walk while having an ice cream or a coffee or something.

If you put yourself out there, then he knows, even if he's not ready now, the ball is in his court.

If he declines, then you can say: "Well at least we can still be friends. That works for me."


True

Problem is that is coronavirus season.

😬😷


You can walk and talk while keeping a safe distance.

Invite him for an online date, while you each have drinks. I did this before Covid with a single mom I met online where it was difficult to see each other because she had limited time and we lived a couple of hours apart. She really appreciated the gesture. She was a Scorpio and in another timeline things would have worked out.


Yeah, I’ve tried that. In fact, he came up with the idea to hang out online. I waited ...He never showed up - 3 times .

Third time i asked him what was up and he apologized many times.

I left it at that. Now he sends me poems and he serenades me.

I still like him but I guess this is one of the reasons that stops me from moving forward.
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What would you have done if he stood you up at a restaurant? Without a good excuse, he's out.

If you give him a break with the online dates, then that's 3 strikes...he's out! Repeat that. He left you waiting 3 times. For all you know he could have been talking to other women>

Find a guy who's going to value your time. Seriously. He hasn't earned anything and here you are thinking about him.
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Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?


Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂


So what have you got to lose if you make the first move? Like ask him to go for a walk while having an ice cream or a coffee or something.

If you put yourself out there, then he knows, even if he's not ready now, the ball is in his court.

If he declines, then you can say: "Well at least we can still be friends. That works for me."


True

Problem is that is coronavirus season.

😬😷


You can walk and talk while keeping a safe distance.

Invite him for an online date, while you each have drinks. I did this before Covid with a single mom I met online where it was difficult to see each other because she had limited time and we lived a couple of hours apart. She really appreciated the gesture. She was a Scorpio and in another timeline things would have worked out.


Yeah, I’ve tried that. In fact, he came up with the idea to hang out online. I waited ...He never showed up - 3 times .

Third time i asked him what was up and he apologized many times.

I left it at that. Now he sends me poems and he serenades me.

I still like him but I guess this is one of the reasons that stops me from moving forward.


What would you have done if he stood you up at a restaurant? Without a good excuse, he's out.

If you give him a break with the online dates, then that's 3 strikes...he's out! Repeat that. He left you waiting 3 times. For all you know he could have been talking to other women>

Find a guy who's going to value your time. Seriously. He hasn't earned anything and here you are thinking about him.
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I won’t argue with you on that. I agree with you 100% and won’t make excuses for anyone.

There’s more to this story and I wish I had the time an energy to write about it - from the beginning (3 years).

Maybe one day.
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Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?


Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂


So what have you got to lose if you make the first move? Like ask him to go for a walk while having an ice cream or a coffee or something.

If you put yourself out there, then he knows, even if he's not ready now, the ball is in his court.

If he declines, then you can say: "Well at least we can still be friends. That works for me."


True

Problem is that is coronavirus season.

😬😷


You can walk and talk while keeping a safe distance.

Invite him for an online date, while you each have drinks. I did this before Covid with a single mom I met online where it was difficult to see each other because she had limited time and we lived a couple of hours apart. She really appreciated the gesture. She was a Scorpio and in another timeline things would have worked out.


Yeah, I’ve tried that. In fact, he came up with the idea to hang out online. I waited ...He never showed up - 3 times .

Third time i asked him what was up and he apologized many times.

I left it at that. Now he sends me poems and he serenades me.

I still like him but I guess this is one of the reasons that stops me from moving forward.


What would you have done if he stood you up at a restaurant? Without a good excuse, he's out.

If you give him a break with the online dates, then that's 3 strikes...he's out! Repeat that. He left you waiting 3 times. For all you know he could have been talking to other women>

Find a guy who's going to value your time. Seriously. He hasn't earned anything and here you are thinking about him.


I won’t argue with you on that. I agree with you 100% and won’t make excuses for anyone.

There’s more to this story and I wish I had the time an energy to write about it - from the beginning (3 years).

Maybe one day.
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well...you can make your own decisions.

but, regardless of what someone is going through, he/she needs to respect you at all times...doesn't sound like he's ready for a relationship...I know it's corona time, but...if you're waiting for someone who's not ready, then you're not spending time on yourself and/or finding someone who is ready.
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Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?


Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂


Naahhhhh that's boring, Scorpios don't want that shit we want you to need all of us or none of us.
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I have a Pisces telling me to move on

And I have a Scorpio telling me I should give him 100%

🤯

(My brain just exploded)

😩😭

Seems like he's enjoying the fantasy, but is not stepping up for the reality, as in going on a date (online) with you.

Just saying, actions speak louder than words.

Astrology aside...

...he needs to earn your heart, not flatter it.
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Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?


Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂


So what have you got to lose if you make the first move? Like ask him to go for a walk while having an ice cream or a coffee or something.

If you put yourself out there, then he knows, even if he's not ready now, the ball is in his court.

If he declines, then you can say: "Well at least we can still be friends. That works for me."


True

Problem is that is coronavirus season.

😬😷


You can walk and talk while keeping a safe distance.

Invite him for an online date, while you each have drinks. I did this before Covid with a single mom I met online where it was difficult to see each other because she had limited time and we lived a couple of hours apart. She really appreciated the gesture. She was a Scorpio and in another timeline things would have worked out.


Yeah, I’ve tried that. In fact, he came up with the idea to hang out online. I waited ...He never showed up - 3 times .

Third time i asked him what was up and he apologized many times.

I left it at that. Now he sends me poems and he serenades me.

I still like him but I guess this is one of the reasons that stops me from moving forward.


What would you have done if he stood you up at a restaurant? Without a good excuse, he's out.

If you give him a break with the online dates, then that's 3 strikes...he's out! Repeat that. He left you waiting 3 times. For all you know he could have been talking to other women>

Find a guy who's going to value your time. Seriously. He hasn't earned anything and here you are thinking about him.


I won’t argue with you on that. I agree with you 100% and won’t make excuses for anyone.

There’s more to this story and I wish I had the time an energy to write about it - from the beginning (3 years).

Maybe one day.


well...you can make your own decisions.

but, regardless of what someone is going through, he/she needs to respect you at all times...doesn't sound like he's ready for a relationship...I know it's corona time, but...if you're waiting for someone who's not ready, then you're not spending time on yourself and/or finding someone who is ready.
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I appreciate your comment 🙂and it’s something i have thought about for 3 years...

I can also assure you, if I was infatuated with a Scorpio woman, I would need people's help on her to keep me thinking straight. lol
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Posted by Chessmess
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Posted by Chessmess
Posted by Piscis_Hominis

Could you imagine being friends with him if he only liked you as a friend?


Yes, in fact, first few months we started to get to know each other we were just friends . We had great conversations and that was that.

But gradually it escalated into flirting and subtle messages .

if he ever tells me he wants to be JUST friends I will respect that or if he meets someone else, I will respect that too (then it was not meant to be).

🙂


So what have you got to lose if you make the first move? Like ask him to go for a walk while having an ice cream or a coffee or something.

If you put yourself out there, then he knows, even if he's not ready now, the ball is in his court.

If he declines, then you can say: "Well at least we can still be friends. That works for me."


True

Problem is that is coronavirus season.

😬😷


You can walk and talk while keeping a safe distance.

Invite him for an online date, while you each have drinks. I did this before Covid with a single mom I met online where it was difficult to see each other because she had limited time and we lived a couple of hours apart. She really appreciated the gesture. She was a Scorpio and in another timeline things would have worked out.


Yeah, I’ve tried that. In fact, he came up with the idea to hang out online. I waited ...He never showed up - 3 times .

Third time i asked him what was up and he apologized many times.

I left it at that. Now he sends me poems and he serenades me.

I still like him but I guess this is one of the reasons that stops me from moving forward.


What would you have done if he stood you up at a restaurant? Without a good excuse, he's out.

If you give him a break with the online dates, then that's 3 strikes...he's out! Repeat that. He left you waiting 3 times. For all you know he could have been talking to other women>

Find a guy who's going to value your time. Seriously. He hasn't earned anything and here you are thinking about him.


I won’t argue with you on that. I agree with you 100% and won’t make excuses for anyone.

There’s more to this story and I wish I had the time an energy to write about it - from the beginning (3 years).

Maybe one day.


well...you can make your own decisions.

but, regardless of what someone is going through, he/she needs to respect you at all times...doesn't sound like he's ready for a relationship...I know it's corona time, but...if you're waiting for someone who's not ready, then you're not spending time on yourself and/or finding someone who is ready.


I appreciate your comment 🙂and it’s something i have thought about for 3 years...
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3 years is long time.
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