I dont want to see my Scorpio friend

So I got a call for interview and my interview was schedule for next day. When I learned that the company that I will be going to is the same where my scorpion friend works. He is actually ignoring ne these days but still I text him thatI will be comming for interview the next day at his company. Well he was not surprise at all and all he replied was"ok cool"

Whats wrong with him. I suggested same job interview to one of our common friend and I told her that even he works there. Later she came up with news saying she had a word with our scorpion friend and he told her that 'the company is not really good for female candidate its not worth giving interview because they get rejected at the end of the day.'

I was like wtf..! Why he didnt told me same thing.. And told her all those... What is the problem he is having with me... What sort of grudge.

Hi Itssumu91,

Before I begin, I want to preface this by saying that your opinions matter, and that you are worthy of respect. Please do not take offense to my bluntness, as I am not trying to sting you. That said, what did you expect when you come into the Scorpio den for advice 😛

Until now, I have not read any of your posts here. Why? Over the past few days, it feels like you've post ALOT in this forum, almost in a "live coverage newsfeed" kind of way. But glancing over your posts, you seem to ask for advice on the same ongoing issue in several threads.

I'm sorry that you're in a pickle, but quite frankly, it neither benefits from our constant insight, nor does it seem like it will ever be resolved to your satisfaction. We cannot make this Scorpio man love you.

Regardless, I will play devil's advocate. Why is your Scorpio friend acting the way he does? Why might he hold a grudge on you? If how you act online is indicative of how you act offline, I presume that he is exhausted with your sensitivity and the extreme interest that you show him. This is not a slight on you, it's just who you are.

You are a Cancer. You like him to the extreme because there is no in-between for you in anything. But you are obsessing over your interactions with him. Why does he say this, why does he do that... It's not healthy for you, and it's not healthy for your friendship with him.

In the beginning, you were attracted by his thoughtfulness and kindness, but perhaps you mistook those signs of friendly affection for romantic feelings. If so... is it really fair for you to be upset with him if he isn't interested in you, but you keep pursuing him anyway? We Scorpio get bad rap for being vengeful demons, but we can also be guardian angels. Perhaps he was just trying to be your guardian angel for a time, as a friend, not as a lover.

If you like him, if he's giving you mixed signals... stop beating around the bush and just tell him. See where it goes. If you're honestly "done" like you've said that you are, then stop obsessing.

Good luck.

Posted by Venomouse
Hi Itssumu91,

Before I begin, I want to preface this by saying that your opinions matter, and that you are worthy of respect. Please do not take offense to my bluntness, as I am not trying to sting you. That said, what did you expect when you come into the Scorpio den for advice

Until now, I have not read any of your posts here. Why? Over the past few days, it feels like you've post ALOT in this forum, almost in a "live coverage newsfeed" kind of way. But glancing over your posts, you seem to ask for advice on the same ongoing issue in several threads.

I'm sorry that you're in a pickle, but quite frankly, it neither benefits from our constant insight, nor does it seem like it will ever be resolved to your satisfaction. We cannot make this Scorpio man love you.

Regardless, I will play devil's advocate. Why is your Scorpio friend acting the way he does? Why might he hold a grudge on you? If how you act online is indicative of how you act offline, I presume that he is exhausted with your sensitivity and the extreme interest that you show him. This is not a slight on you, it's just who you are.

You are a Cancer. You like him to the extreme because there is no in-between for you in anything. But you are obsessing over your interactions with him. Why does he say this, why does he do that... It's not healthy for you, and it's not healthy for your friendship with him.

In the beginning, you were attracted by his thoughtfulness and kindness, but perhaps you mistook those signs of friendly affection for romantic feelings. If so... is it really fair for you to be upset with him if he isn't interested in you, but you keep pursuing him anyway? We Scorpio get bad rap for being vengeful demons, but we can also be guardian angels. Perhaps he was just trying to be your guardian angel for a time, as a friend, not as a lover.

If you like him, if he's giving you mixed signals... stop beating around the bush and just tell him. See where it goes. If you're honestly "done" like you've said that you are, then stop obsessing.

Good luck.

Wow, I must say this is one of the best responses I have seen. Maybe because I can take this advice too. Very nicely explained, thank you 🙂