So I wanted to share this news with you fellow Scorpios. I have never felt so excited in my life about something I’m about to do.
I’ve been “secretly” in love with a Scorpio man for 7 YEARS!!!!!!! I was in a relationship when we met so nothing could happen between us but based on his actions and the way he treated me, I think he was secretly in love with me too. My intuition tells me so.
I ended my relationship because it didn’t go well and I’ve been single for a while. The least thing I want is to be old someday or be with another guy and think “what would’ve happened if….”
I already made up my mind that I will let him know I’m into him. I could never reciprocate or show interest but now I can and I feel so relieved. It’s hard to have this feelings inside me for so long. I won’t directly tell him I like him and I’m in love with him. I know Scorpios like to take control and chase. I will basically give him the green light to pursue me IF he’s interested. I’ll tell him I really enjoy his company, when he talks to me and that I appreciate him so much.
What do you think? Will he get the message?
Is there something else I could tell him but without sounding like he doesn’t have to win me over?
No matter the outcome, I just feel happy I won’t have regrets in the future because I really like him. He’s not just any guy and if he rejects me then I’ll move on but happy that I tried.
I’m a Cancer.
Any advice or words of encouragement?
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“Hey I like you, call me “
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Well the good thing is you're a Cancer and they like those girls. Most Scorpio men I've known will let you know if they want you even if you're with someone else so...... I don't know if they like to be chased.
That’s what scares me. I’m scared that if I’m too forward he won’t like it since they like to chase. Maybe I can just let him know I enjoy spending time with him and be more subtle.
Should I like his social media photos? At least he’ll be curious
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I think initially they like to be chased, but you two have known each other for a long time, so chasing may not be necessary once he knows you have interest in being with him.
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"I’ll tell him I really enjoy his company, when he talks to me and that I appreciate him so much."
In what quality did you enjoy his company? Are you working together?
We’ve know each other for a while and he initiated the chasing. He just talked to me a lot. I didn’t put that much attention in the beginning but then I fell for him 😍
We didn’t work together. We met through mutual friends