meiolania
@meiolania
7 Years
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Here is the story:
I have a workmate, we are both guys ( I'm bi tho ), as a Sagi I was just care free and not minding him that much, even though I can sense his intensity thru his gaze and body language. In our workplace people easily identify me as bi since I am modest in my ways and doesn't have that masculine features. So, I started to observe him casually, he would at times walk to me and do small talks, make some funny remarks and usually stay where I'm at. There where some changes in our workplace that we were transferred to a different unit where I had been exposed to previously. I kept my distance from him since then to protect him from bullies of that unit. I know he was wondering why, but I did not care to explain since he sees me being critical and negative when I make comments about people. He was doing fine as far as I can tell. When times that we have the same shift or would see each other in the workplace he would always make some remarks and do small talks, he would still usually stay near where I'm at while he's working. Eventually, I learned that he already has a girlfriend (from the time we first met he said he didn't have one yet), so this made me decide to distance further from him. He kept his usual ways to me, and I kept my distance. It came to a point where he called me ask some questions and just stared at my eyes with his deep questioning look. I really felt bad about distancing from him but I do not know what he is trying to do or say to me. There are times that he would act like a boyfriend, then times that he would play it cool and straight especially when we are with other guy workmates.
So, what I did is I read about scorpio zodiac and found out that they get angry badly. I decided to piss him off by ignoring him more when he's around and not reciprocating his prompts when he acts sweetly towards me. I succeeded because he now doesn't talk to me, he doesn't even look at me. I leave it that way because it was either he's leading me on knowing I'm bi, or he is just confused with his girlfriend.
If ever he was leading me on, it is a great insult to me and very selfish for him to do. I still want to be friends with him when he gets his act straight and not confuse me with his inconsistent treatment. Though I am wondering if by what I did will he still care to be a friend?
Thank you.