I pray this is not how it ends......
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Truvirgo72 on Thursday, October 19, 2006 and has 4 replies.
I pray this is not how this ends......I was dating a Aries for three years on and off. for those who know the story I posted before on this situation. The situation has been pretty stagnant..just to brief you....I'm pregnant about 6 months....we went our seperate ways before this happen and started dating again and I ended up pregnant this time.....We had a argument and fell apart again...we were doing fine and was happy about the baby and all......then I became distant due to I thought he was trying to go back to his other baby's mother....which was the reason we broke up the first time.....I love this man and wish things could work out.....we started up again hot and heavy and either I said or did something or he got distant......I admit to saying some hurtful things that he has reminded me of when I called him the other day..... I called him after three months of no communication...not even to talk about my pregnancy. Of course he was cold and said why was I calling after three months and he reminded me of the things I said and the way I acted.....Now I am afraid I have lost him for good or he has went back to her due to me pushing him away from being scared and confused......I love him even though they say Aries and virgo's aren't compatible and want us to raise our child together. He is a good father because I've seen how he is to his other daughter but he acts as if he's mad at me and don't want to be bothered by me and don't want to be apart of the child's life at this point.....He did say he would do what he can to help....I told him I knew he was intentionally being cold and after that he calm down some ......I also opened up to him let him know how afraid I was to do this alone and why I acted the way I did....... he said he was scared also of having another child too, but never spoke on us and what he felt we should do.....my heart is broken because this is not how it started and I dont understand why its ending this way....are Aries really so cold hearted that they will walk away without a thought?.....before I never worried because I knew he would always be back but this time I dont' know...I asked how he felt about me or us and he wouldnt even give me straight answer he just said you cool....
Truvirgo, i don't know your whole story ... but what you've said here ...well, sounds like you could really use a big hug.
even though it may not seem like it now, things will get better. i know it must be scary to go through this alone...but once your child is born i truly believe that you will feel and see things differently. your priorites will change...your baby needs you and everything else won't seem as important. it'll all just fall into place the way it's meant to happen. whether that means the aries is part of the picture or not, only time will tell.
good luck to you...
even though it may not seem like it now, things will get better. i know it must be scary to go through this alone...but once your child is born i truly believe that you will feel and see things differently. your priorites will change...your baby needs you and everything else won't seem as important. it'll all just fall into place the way it's meant to happen. whether that means the aries is part of the picture or not, only time will tell.
good luck to you...
thanks scorp5pt0.....I here what you saying and hope that will soon become my reality.......but he called and was acting different...
I want to help......Mr. Aries calls three days after ourlast conversation....When he proclaims he would do what he can to help and I said I want your best and he states sometimes your best isn't good enough for some people.....I don't know he seem unsure at first.....I told him in the first conversation before I'm sacred and don't want to raise my child alone and that it should be a healthy loving enviroment a child should be subject to.....so, does the phone call means he agree and want to play his part.......I'm still said because there has been no real conversation about us making it work....So I have been kinding having this facade that I don't want a relationship with him....just him to do his part as the father.... but deep down inside I do want us to be together.....our conversation was great....he made me laugh the whole time...as if he knew thats what I needed....and we talked for hours......I asked serious questions about the baby.....his response would be their you go with the questioning me again....then he would respond with humour...but as the same time answer my question....I love him to death but I'm so afraid to let him see it in me thinking he will crush me.......
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I want to help......Mr. Aries calls three days after ourlast conversation....When he proclaims he would do what he can to help and I said I want your best and he states sometimes your best isn't good enough for some people.....I don't know he seem unsure at first.....I told him in the first conversation before I'm sacred and don't want to raise my child alone and that it should be a healthy loving enviroment a child should be subject to.....so, does the phone call means he agree and want to play his part.......I'm still said because there has been no real conversation about us making it work....So I have been kinding having this facade that I don't want a relationship with him....just him to do his part as the father.... but deep down inside I do want us to be together.....our conversation was great....he made me laugh the whole time...as if he knew thats what I needed....and we talked for hours......I asked serious questions about the baby.....his response would be their you go with the questioning me again....then he would respond with humour...but as the same time answer my question....I love him to death but I'm so afraid to let him see it in me thinking he will crush me.......
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Oops...its always best to proof read lol.....sorry for typos....in a hurry got to go and give praise on sunday morning.....
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