I told him to leave

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by 037 on Thursday, February 16, 2017 and has 26 replies.
But I didn't mean it. I'm just pregnant and emotional.

Now, I'm missing him, but I don't know how to tell him to come home.

I thought y'all had superpowers or whatnot.

Why can't he see I feel cold and desperate without him?

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Don't beat yourself up. We all have lashed out and said things that we didn't mean. Give him time to cool down. If you don't hear from him soon just call and apologize.

Sometimes a simple and sincere "I'm sorry " is enough
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Posted by Dreamyboy
Are you a virgo? You a virgo huh?
I've never been mistaken for a Virgo before. I usually get Pisces.
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Posted by rekt
Jynja?
Yeah
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Posted by rekt
Jynja?
Dazed?
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Sorry to break it to you, OP, but spreading their seed around & dodging their responsibilities is what Scorpio men do best.

You should've been on the pill at least.
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Posted by yupvirgoo
Posted by Dreamyboy
Are you a virgo? You a virgo huh?
*rolls eyes
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Yeah lol.
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Posted by rekt
Posted by 037
Posted by rekt
Jynja?
Yeah
I'm scorched. Glad to see you around though I know it's not for a good reason.

You may have to swallow your pride on this one and apologize and see if he'll come back.

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Scorched! *tackle hugs*

I've sent him a message. I see he's got it but no reply or anything. I was just over emotional. sigh
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Posted by rekt
Posted by 037
Posted by rekt
Posted by 037
Posted by rekt
Jynja?
Yeah
I'm scorched. Glad to see you around though I know it's not for a good reason.

You may have to swallow your pride on this one and apologize and see if he'll come back.

Scorched! *tackle hugs*

I've sent him a message. I see he's got it but no reply or anything. I was just over emotional. sigh


*hugs*

It happens to the best of us. It's just important to try to rectify it in the best way you can. I've said and done some shady shit to people I love and pushed them away. Scorpio mars problems.

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Yeah. MiS must be 101 shades of fucked up. Bigger sigh

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Posted by P6X58DE
Hope things settle down for the good of all parties, the child especially.
Thanks :-)
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Posted by GetMisted
Posted by 037
But I didn't mean it. I'm just pregnant and emotional.

Now, I'm missing him, but I don't know how to tell him to come home.

I thought y'all had superpowers or whatnot.

Why can't he see I feel cold and desperate without him?

Call him. Tell him you love him, you're sorry, and that you need him. You two have been at this a while now smile

He'll understand.

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This smile

And add that crazy pregnancy hormones made you a bit loopy and got the better of you

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Posted by Seraphlight
The priority here is your pregnancy. He should realize that.

Tell him this...I am pregnant ...I NEED you. I love you. This baby needs you.

I think it will be fine ..try not to worry.

Congrats by the way.
Smh. She doesn't NEED him. Anyone who takes advice from you is retarded
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Posted by Dreamyboy
Are you a virgo? You a virgo huh?
She's leo sun/cancer moon.
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Posted by juliette
Posted by Ram416
Posted by Dreamyboy
Are you a virgo? You a virgo huh?
She's leo sun/cancer moon.


how do you know that? i can't keep up with new usernames.

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Jynja posted quite often when I first joined dxp. Then she deleted - and came back as 037, which isn't exactly a new username for her. She just hasn't been posting for awhile.
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Posted by Seraphlight
He should never have left a pregnant woman anyway.
Would you stick around if a very angry pregnant woman told you to leave?
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by 037
But I didn't mean it. I'm just pregnant and emotional.

Now, I'm missing him, but I don't know how to tell him to come home.

I thought y'all had superpowers or whatnot.

Why can't he see I feel cold and desperate without him?

Call him. Tell him you love him, you're sorry, and that you need him. You two have been at this a while now smile

He'll understand.

This smile

And add that crazy pregnancy hormones made you a bit loopy and got the better of you

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This!

The point I'm at now, I can't even seem to find a good position to sleep in, and he was fussing and fussing.
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Posted by juliette
Posted by 037
But I didn't mean it. I'm just pregnant and emotional.

Now, I'm missing him, but I don't know how to tell him to come home.

I thought y'all had superpowers or whatnot.

Why can't he see I feel cold and desperate without him?



hey jynja it's aurora. glad you are back with the scorpio! and congrats for the second baby!

just call him. tell him you are sorry, that you are pregnant and emotional, i'm sure he left cause he didn't want to stress you more. be well.

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*Big hugs* Aurora. Its been a while. smile

And thanks.
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Posted by Distilled
Posted by Ram416
Posted by Seraphlight
He should never have left a pregnant woman anyway.
Would you stick around if a very angry pregnant woman told you to leave?
Isn't this the 2nd baby/child they will have?

Some patterns would and are already possibly established here... Hopefully not having babies to keep anyone around (from both sides).



Also, there is a thing called sleeping on the couch if it gets to that point for a reason. Or taking a long-ass walk. Not every woman is a raging bull when pregnant, or on her monthly.

Op- all the best in your pregnancy. ?

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The thing I've learned about Scorpio man is that you can't manipulate them like that. They will do what they want whether you're popping babies like popcorn not.

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Posted by 037
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by 037
But I didn't mean it. I'm just pregnant and emotional.

Now, I'm missing him, but I don't know how to tell him to come home.

I thought y'all had superpowers or whatnot.

Why can't he see I feel cold and desperate without him?

Call him. Tell him you love him, you're sorry, and that you need him. You two have been at this a while now smile

He'll understand.

This smile

And add that crazy pregnancy hormones made you a bit loopy and got the better of you

This!

The point I'm at now, I can't even seem to find a good position to sleep in, and he was fussing and fussing.
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Exactly! How far gone are you? Tell him some women murder their husbands when pregnant Tongue

The problem is, if the guy is a little bit on the *sensitive* side and easily offended, he probably will be driven to distraction. There are very strong men out there that are more understanding....smile
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Posted by 037
But I didn't mean it. I'm just pregnant and emotional.

Now, I'm missing him, but I don't know how to tell him to come home.

I thought y'all had superpowers or whatnot.

Why can't he see I feel cold and desperate without him?



Just tell him exactly what you wrote here. Acknowledge you need to communicate better, but also tell him what you need from him to help you through this process.

Good luck Lady Lion.
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Posted by juliette
Posted by 037
Posted by juliette
Posted by 037
But I didn't mean it. I'm just pregnant and emotional.

Now, I'm missing him, but I don't know how to tell him to come home.

I thought y'all had superpowers or whatnot.

Why can't he see I feel cold and desperate without him?



hey jynja it's aurora. glad you are back with the scorpio! and congrats for the second baby!

just call him. tell him you are sorry, that you are pregnant and emotional, i'm sure he left cause he didn't want to stress you more. be well.

*Big hugs* Aurora. Its been a while. smile

And thanks.


yes, i was wondering what is happening to you since you don't post here anymore, and i'm really happy that you worked it out. i mean not right now, but if you already surpassed much more serious obstacles, have some faith. scoprios are loyal, you know that. and due to hormonal thing, if you aren't doing it already pass the sugar, caffeine, do some light exercise, like yoga for pregnant women, it will help.

how is the little virgo? smile is he in his first puberty? lol. my leo is everything i dreamed about. i adore her. leo sun, aries moon. kisses.

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I took some big big leaps in my career that took chunks of my time, and then we decided we were going to do the one thing we both dreamed about most - we moved across continents and settled in beautiful Lund. Yeah, I'm physically closer to you now. smile

Virgo is wonderful! He's so active and very very intelligent. And he's getting more and more handsome like his dad!

I'm happy to hear you and your darling angel are doing well. She must adore you too. You're a wonderful lady.
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Posted by P6X58DE
Sound Cancerian to me.
if you tell a man to leave is cancerian?

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Posted by GetMisted
Posted by 037
But I didn't mean it. I'm just pregnant and emotional.

Now, I'm missing him, but I don't know how to tell him to come home.

I thought y'all had superpowers or whatnot.

Why can't he see I feel cold and desperate without him?

Call him. Tell him you love him, you're sorry, and that you need him. You two have been at this a while now smile

He'll understand.

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It's about the first post in dxpnet for years that talks about Scorpio like a real people.

It says Scorpios are not just something from the space. And it's so refreshing!

So listen to the advice. And good luck.
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Posted by narayana
Posted by P6X58DE
Sound Cancerian to me.
Yeah, the good old classic where you tell them to leave, expect to see them hurt, get your affirmation and take them back with a 'hey, it was an accident'

This must be illegal
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It's been, happening and will continue as world turns!

I just don't get why such big deal?

Sorry, love you, please come back...

Big deal!!!
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k ima give you the answer sheet 037, he loves you and probably extremely alot in fact.

you probably mean the world to him, but we're ain't gonna tell you that k. It makes us look weak alright? Deal with it, we were born that way.

but yes, he's probably thinking of you right now, every moment every minute (but we're not gonna let you know about it either). Thinking how to seduce you to the maximum effect, of which, if i might add..., that we are... extremely freaking good at. And also having millions of thoughts that probably go somewhere along these lines of:

thinking of your well being- are you getting enough food? Is the baby ok? Do you feel alright? Are you feeling tired now? Have you had your dinner? Is the food ok? Are you ok at work? Do you feel cold at night? Do you need an extra blanket? Are you getting enough rest? etc.

Give him some time, my gut feeling says, he loves you, and my gut is 100% right thus far.
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Whatever you do, don't send him any more crazy messages. Maintain the perception of safe levels of crazy. If the dragon queen is sitting comfortably enjoying a tub of ice cream and whatever craziness she craves, it's safer than coming home to "MY SOUL IS HANGING ONTO MY BODY BY A FISH HOOK AND A TWISTY TIE".

If he's never been kicked out before, he's going to be licking his wounds and probably more than a fair bit wary.
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