I'm having a hard time regarding a Scorpio woman

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by didntknowwhattoname on Saturday, January 13, 2018 and has 12 replies.
Hi all.

I'm new around here and just registered my account to ask a complicated question lol. I'm having a hard time understanding a girl, don't really know what to do. It will probably be much to read but I hope you can come up with good information and be serious about this topic because I will make my own choice but I like to read other peoples opinions and thoughts.

So I'll try to make a long story short or like point out some facts that I think is important,

We started to get to know eachother this summer through a friend. I suspect that this friend of mine were talking some shit behind my back in order to get closer to her or some shit, dunno. Apparently he was "helping" me which he clearly did not, however...

This girl has a very strong character and I have never met someone like her, she kinda made me feel like unsecure which I never feel because I am most of the time dominate and I'm confident, we had a couple of arguments which turned out a little bad, but we also had special moments dude she once cried infront of me which I think she would never do that easy ?? (I know some scorpios make themself like a offer, they act like the blacksheep Ive heard but still to that limit)?

We also had nice walks together within the sunset, ate some good food together and she kinda felt it like a date even tho she joked it away... this girl was also very careful with not letting her be seen with different guys and thougt much about her reputation.. she sometimes threw that bro word to me which kinda hurt me, but she did it to everyone now the question is was that some kind of test or what?

We did things that normal freinds dont really do I belivie, we had our romantic situations where we b sitting together hugging eachother close to the water and stuff...

At the end of all, we stopped to talk and kinda removed eachother everywhere, now it has passed a couple of months and I sent her a rose and a bear lol just out of no where when I was bored and I think she doesnt know that it is me, not sure... but I have been thinking about picking up the phone calling her and see if there is any chance ?? im fuckin confused atm and have been back and forwth 50 times for a while now

I wrote this in a bad way but please try to get some discussion out of it and I will try to add more within the time.
If you feel insecure around her, you are off the list. Not much more to say.

And what tf was that with the rose and a teddy?

JFC, she is not a pisces...
Yea you are right man what should I say.... feels like I should maybe just totally try to forget her permanently.. I am actually not that kind of person who gives up but it feels like ive made too many bad moves^^
Posted by didntknowwhattoname
we had a couple of arguments which turned out a little bad...



About?

Posted by didntknowwhattoname


At the end of all, we stopped to talk and kinda removed eachother everywhere....
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Why?

As a Scorp, we tend to make it clear if we like someone, even if we do it subtly so I think the only guys who have been confused about my feelings are the ones I had no feelings for. On the upside, we respond to guys who come on confident and play hard for us, so don't send her cute bears (guys always do this to me and I hate it) just call her up and say she's on your mind. Intrigue her.
Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by didntknowwhattoname
we had a couple of arguments which turned out a little bad...



About?

Posted by didntknowwhattoname


At the end of all, we stopped to talk and kinda removed eachother everywhere....


Why?

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We stopped talk at the end because we started to argue and I got pissed off because she sneaked on my insta and was like asking why I follow this girl, that girl and so on and she was like if you don't really know them why are you following eachother and not only that, more stuff, also she saved some stuff on snapchat and I asked her kindly to not save it and dunno, we started firing at eachother, actually for some small stuff but we got both strong perosnalities so no one really wanna give up

Posted by MondayMorning
As a Scorp, we tend to make it clear if we like someone, even if we do it subtly so I think the only guys who have been confused about my feelings are the ones I had no feelings for. On the upside, we respond to guys who come on confident and play hard for us, so don't send her cute bears (guys always do this to me and I hate it) just call her up and say she's on your mind. Intrigue her.
How would you interpret when a girl starts to search through my insta and see who I follow, which girl and so on? I usually act hard to girls but I don't know where I have her and the problem is that I very early started to feel something for her and when you know when feelings come in between you start to act a little bit different. It feels like no one would admit that early that you like someone except for me lol or even feel so early like I do but that's just a week crush or so it goes off pretty fast. but I really like this girl beacuse she is original and have a strong character and I like that thats why I have been wondering to pick up the phone and call her, now the question is should I call her and pretend like nothing, ask her about life and so on, should I be sorry or act tought and go for some kind of discussion?
Posted by didntknowwhattoname
Posted by MondayMorning
As a Scorp, we tend to make it clear if we like someone, even if we do it subtly so I think the only guys who have been confused about my feelings are the ones I had no feelings for. On the upside, we respond to guys who come on confident and play hard for us, so don't send her cute bears (guys always do this to me and I hate it) just call her up and say she's on your mind. Intrigue her.
How would you interpret when a girl starts to search through my insta and see who I follow, which girl and so on? I usually act hard to girls but I don't know where I have her and the problem is that I very early started to feel something for her and when you know when feelings come in between you start to act a little bit different. It feels like no one would admit that early that you like someone except for me lol or even feel so early like I do but that's just a week crush or so it goes off pretty fast. but I really like this girl beacuse she is original and have a strong character and I like that thats why I have been wondering to pick up the phone and call her, now the question is should I call her and pretend like nothing, ask her about life and so on, should I be sorry or act tought and go for some kind of discussion?
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Well I don't really do stuff like that for anybody, but if she is interested in you then maybe she is investigating. Call her up and be confident, Scorpio's love this.

She is interested, she like asked me where is your parents from etc because the place she comes frm they are stricht that it should be some related country thing blabla u know.. but anyway,

you got any random tips to know about scorpios or any trick to use? I'll call her and be confident about that we should startover and suggest a meetup?
Can I have general tip about how you scorpio think, what you guys like and so on?
We are all different I guess, no need to attack me like that with these words. Seriously, if you want give a random person a simple piece of advice or just swipe to the next thread, no matter if you want it weird or not I just don't feel good therefor it maybe explains my behaviour.
Sometimes it feels like I should not rely too much on this horoscope stuff but for example a friend of mine have been with two scorpio girls and both of them it took very much time for him to get her and after some time when they were almost "together" THEN... They admitted and gave him all their heart but it feels like scorpio girls kinda test you, they want you to fight and stay there for them but somehow they also maybe dont understand that it drives the other person away, because they kinda act cold and doesnt wanna show their feelings in the first place or am I wrong?

However, I will pick up the phone at the end of the week and simply ask her how she is doing, insist that we should go out at the weekend, but im just wondering how will she react because the last time we spoke we had a beef lol