In a horrible position with Scorpio girlfriend

this might be a tad bit long so i'll try and keep it short and sweet:

I'm really good friends with my boyfriends best friend's wife. Or i think i am now, which is my problem.

here's a tad bit of info from the past.

my man's best friend and his wife, have an interesting relationship to say the least. She is Scorpio, he is Libra. I have a hard time being around him because he is just horrible to her. He cheats on her, with his circle of baby momma's on the regular, he beats her, mentally abuses her and so on. i have witnessed it first hand.

She confide's in me, and i normally don't tell my man about it, because it's between me and her. I try to give her the best advicce i can, but if i say the wrong thing and it gets back to him, and he tells my man - i'll have problems.

So, a couple weekends ago, she tells me she thinks he is cheating on her - with my mans sister! I was like, are you kidding me? They are brother an sister type friends, raised with each other and for years they were all they had (my man his 3 sisters, his other brother and a couple of siblings from my mans best friend) I said, no there's no way. she said she didn't beleive it, she heard some voicemails on his phone (she cracked the pin number). She said he goes over there and buys some "trees" and who knows how long he's there cuz my girlfriend is at work.

This situation would cause HUGE problems if it were true. My man wouldn't allow his friend to date his sister because he knows how it would be and lets just say, wouldn't be cool.

So, her and her husband get into this knock down drag out brawl.

I get a text from her telling me she thought we were friends and how could i tell my man what she told me? and that i guess me and her aren't friends.

Now i have a big problem, i didn't tell anything. and now she is making it where i HAVE to tell him.

So i text her and tell her look i didn't say anything. i really think she was digging to see if i had or not. I guess he changed his voicemail pin and such and i was the only person she told that she had access to it.

So i text her back saying no i didn't say anythin gand that i couldn't because it would cause HUGE problems and i wasn't starting anything like that.

we went back an forth with a couple texts. Then out of the blue a few hours later, she sends a text saying she thought i said something guess i was wrong, my bad.

So i'm like, no i don't buy it. There's no way she just all of the sudden believes me.

So now i don't know what to do. my man and his best friend know something is going on and my man is pressuring me to fix it. But i don't know how to fix it and personally, i'm pissed she thinks i told him.

Scorp females, please help me! how do i handle this with her. We do alot together and i actually adore her and i'm worried this bastards indiscretions are coming back on me! He's the one she should be mad at not me!

I'm a gemini and i don't have time for this bullshit. I dont want to treat her as such, i need some help!

Ya, i just scratched the surface of what she is living with this man. The craziest is, she married him last year. So she knew what he was like. Her instincts are right, but i couldn't tell her that due to my man and her man and where i have to maintain my loyalties.

I guess i'm looking for help from you scorp females on how i should proceed with her. I don't think she beleives me when i told her i didn't say anything. It was so lacking sincerity. Is our friendship over you think? Does she forgive even though i didn't do anything?

We do so much as a foursome, it's a shame this ish happening. 😢

Girl you have no idea. I know so much that i can't say. Sometimes i feel like i'm only a superficial friend to her. But i like her, i don't like many females so i am always feeling guilty that i can't say or tell her more. Like WTF is wrong with you? Why are you still there, what benefit is he bringing to the table? What good is comng out of this? How is your son supposed to know how to treat a woman if he is growing up watching how horrible he is to her? But i can't say anything like that, cuz if her dumb ass goes to him and say "blah blah said blah blah" and he goes to myman.. i have some explaining to do. and i don't have drama and i'm not bringing that into what i have.

I feel hopeless. I can't have fake relationships. either i feel she belives me and we can absolutely move on. or as sad as it sounds, she's going to be in the category of that's my man's best friends "bitch". No attachment to her. I don't want that. But thats were it's going if i don't get some kind of clarity and mutual understanding i guess 😢

Posted by seavixen
run,run,run away! Bad situation right there. It's down to her or your man...and neither one is likely to like you picking one over the other. I agree with emeraldgem, if you stay friends with her- she needs boundaries. Let her know that things involving your man, is NOT going to be kept from him so if she needs something to be held in confidence, than don't tell you...you'd rather not know. Tell her how bad this situation involving her man your mans sister puts you in a bad spot and will effect your relationship negatively, that you can't expect your man to be honest and comfortable telling you things if you are not the same way back...that's a "one way" type of relationship. She should understand that if she were to put herself in your shoes. And if she is a scorpio woman...she will appreciate your honesty and straightforwardness. Scorpio women that have true friends, friends that they can trust, know how special and rare they are..so just be honest and tell her.

seavixen, Thank You! that's really what i was looking for, how she 'might' be thinking and what's the best way to approach her. well, i'm going to have that conversation with her. UGH I HATE CONFRONTATIONS! HATE IT!