Is it Just Me?

Or all the Scorpios here beautiful, I'm speaking of the Scorpio women that post their pictures of course lol. Absolutely gorgeous. Almost makes me sad they say that two Scorpio's aren't compatible. LOL 😛

I couldn't have another "me" in a relationship. That just scares me to think about it.

Posted by Gingerscorp
I couldn't have another "me" in a relationship. That just scares me to think about it.

mmm ... with all that scorp in your chart, it would be crazy. I thought I had a lot in my chart until I saw yours. Scorp/Scorp can work but I just think that in a Scorp couple there is no recovery or inner repair system. It's great when together but once it breaks and derails, there's nothing in the couple to get it back together, on track. In other word, it will go from great to horrible.

Posted by Gingerscorp
I couldn't have another "me" in a relationship. That just scares me to think about it.

My dear Ging, tsk and a double tsk 😉. You forget about moon, mercury and rising signs. It all depends on the person's chart. AND the way they were raised, plus emotional maturity.

As accurate as astrology can be, I think people on here let it define others too much. No matter how good somebody's chart is, an a--hole is still an a--hole. Me, I'm just an A--hole From El Paso 🙂

I dont have any problems dating a female scorp. They may have problems dating ME however. I tend to be very non-serious about things most of the time. I take work and paying bills seriously. But everything else is up for grabs in terms of jokes. In my experience unless they had a butt load of fire or air in the chart, the scorp girls who were interested in me tended to be tightasses.

I'm not the jealous type, so none of that possive bs from my end. I've never had a girl show jealousy with me before. I may just like it, maybe cause I have low self-esteem or its just my Leo rising 😉


My main issue with scorp chicks that unless there's some cancer, pisces, or leo in the moon, is the ice queen factor. I tend to be a very affectionate person. And scorp chicks tend to be "ew...yucky" I dont mind not being affectionate in public as long as there some in private.

And the other issue for me (unless there's some cancer, pisces, etc in the chart,) is constantly worrying if the scorp chick thinks you're a wuss. Always wondering if you're being masculint enough for them. So basically you can never have a weak moment.

Come to think of it, maybe I do have problems being in a relationship with a scorp chick 😉

Posted by River Deep Mountain High

Posted by Gingerscorp
I couldn't have another "me" in a relationship. That just scares me to think about it.

That made me chuckle, I know what you mean, although I was with another Scorp man in my early 20s....let's just say it was very....intense! I think it can work, I was just in a different space at the time and wasn't ready to settle down.

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Maybe it could. My mom who is a Scorp is dating a Scorp right now. It's working but I think there is alot of hidden conflict there. I'm so not getting involved. LOL

Posted by Rays Heart

Posted by Gingerscorp
I couldn't have another "me" in a relationship. That just scares me to think about it.

mmm ... with all that scorp in your chart, it would be crazy. I thought I had a lot in my chart until I saw yours. Scorp/Scorp can work but I just think that in a Scorp couple there is no recovery or inner repair system. It's great when together but once it breaks and derails, there's nothing in the couple to get it back together, on track. In other word, it will go from great to horrible.

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I agree. That's what I meant by having someone like me ... the fights. Ugh. I couldn't imagine fighting with a person like me when it comes to relationships. It would be horribly brutal. Depending on what the fight was about and what kinda of mood I'm in I just don't quit. That would be no fun at all to have another person who isn't willing to give either. Usually I'm the one who decides when the fight is over and we move on. Soo if I had someone like me who thought they were going to decide it would be a vicious cycle.

Posted by FlyingBurritos80

Posted by Gingerscorp
I couldn't have another "me" in a relationship. That just scares me to think about it.

My main issue with scorp chicks that unless there's some cancer, pisces, or leo in the moon, is the ice queen factor. I tend to be a very affectionate person. And scorp chicks tend to be "ew...yucky" I dont mind not being affectionate in public as long as there some in private.

And the other issue for me (unless there's some cancer, pisces, etc in the chart,) is constantly worrying if the scorp chick thinks you're a wuss. Always wondering if you're being masculint enough for them. So basically you can never have a weak moment.

Come to think of it, maybe I do have problems being in a relationship with a scorp chick 😉

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That is me 😢 I'm not an affectionate person at all. Even in my relationship, with someone I love, I don't like the cuddling and being overly touchy. I take that to a different level too. He struggles with it and I try to not pull away but I just don't like being touched. I'm like a cat. I come to YOU when I want affection and when I've had enough... off I go. 😉 I'm a weird female like that. lol
Also when it comes to Scorp males I feel like they are challanging me. Who is gonna be boss? It feels thrown in my face too. When pushed in my face I'll rise to the occasion and fight you for the drivers seat. I agree it depends on other placements but someone with a lot of Scorp is going to be somewhat in your face, my way or the highway. I know because that is me. LOL That just won't work out.It's a recipe for disaster. I need someone strong but they have to let me have my independence at the same time. It's tricky. 😉

You dont have to say considering its none of my business Gingscorp. But did something psychologically traumatic happen to you at a younger age to cause the whole anti-affection thing?

The reason I'm asking is I had a female friend who was extrememly leery of any close physical contact at all with anyone including her perents.

Actually when I was hanging with her at the parents house noticed she just shook her moms hand instead of giving her a hug. I asked why. And And she finally opened up and said she was brutally beaten and nearly raped by a female roommate at 20 yrs old in college.

The female roommate was in athletics and taking performance enhancing drugs. Combine that with the fact she's gay and then falling in love with her roommate and you can determine where it went from there.

Anyway, she managed to get away by hitting her over the head with a bottle. The girl got arrested and convicted. But ever since then my friend's had major issues with physical intimacy including sex.

But getting back to your point. I dont have any problem not hugging, kissing or holding hands in public with a girl. BUT there has to be physical affection at home. Im not talking every minute or every second. Just a good amount.

Even though it grossed me out when I was younger, my parents were very openly affectionate. I guess having water and fire signs for their sun and moon didnt hurt.

"Also when it comes to Scorp males I feel like they are challanging me. Who is gonna be boss? It feels thrown in my face too. When pushed in my face I'll rise to the occasion and fight you for the drivers seat."

I know I am an exception to lots of other scorps, but especially so in this case. Im not one of those control freaks. I'm very mellow and easy going. I want a relationship of equals. But at the same time, I'm not a doormat. If I feel like you're being immature or just a bitch without good rationalization, then that sh-t's gonna get called out.

So basically stay the hell away from anyone that other than sun has a moon in scorp 😉

FB no worries 🙂 I've always been like this. Since I was little (walking) my mother said I didn't like being picked up, was very much standoffish, and hated being cuddled. We were never a touchy feely family anyway. Hugs were few and far between and we were told not to rain affection on just anyone. I took that an ran with it.
There has been some other things but I was already not into affection before that. The feeling of being held longer then I want to makes me almost panic. I feel smothered and helpless.

Maybe it's all the Scorp I have in me that makes me so standoffish and independent. I don't like "needing" anyone. Neediness is horrifying to me.

I'm sorry to hear the story about your friend. Rape is monsterous. 😢

I've just got to say, my Mom is a scorpio, and not only is she beautiful, she has aged very nicely and gracefully!!! Lucky I have her genes :-)