is it just me?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by youngscorpkid on Saturday, May 18, 2013 and has 6 replies.
Or do most scorpio males play with scorpio females? Speaking from experience every scorpio female ive talked to ive damaged in some shape way or form (none of it intentional) i have a habbit of getting close to females and making them the center of my world then pulling back when i start to get too close as a result ive un intentionally played with the emotions of numerous females usually water signs (most notably scorpio females) ive matured and i havnt led anyone on in like 3 months thats alot for me im still young...so my question is this do scorpio men usually play other water signs and why do scorpio women allow themselves to be led on by me endlessly? are they just weaker then i percieve them to be or are all scorpios guys like this or am i just a fucked up individual
No Im a scorpio and I do it alot when I get too close with somebody and it starts to unnerve me. I mean with all those walls opening up and crassing down so I back up. For those that dont get teh back up way its them, not putting much big deal out of it, but if you are asking for heartbreak leave everything open but not me. I choose those that can get inside my walls even those that I have chosen went a great deal to understand me.
Smfh....reading sh*t like this makes me really think that all scorp men are the same.......
Posted by youngscorpkid
Or do most scorpio males play with scorpio females? Speaking from experience every scorpio female ive talked to ive damaged in some shape way or form (none of it intentional) i have a habbit of getting close to females and making them the center of my world then pulling back when i start to get too close as a result ive un intentionally played with the emotions of numerous females usually water signs (most notably scorpio females)


Scorpio is a water sign and Scorpio men are emotional creatures.When they become friendly with someone/invest emotions in someone,they lose control and hence pull back to try and stop the loss of control.This creates confusion for the other person,they start thinking why is this Scorpio man who was so warm suddenly acting distant/cold and in turn distance themselves from him.
I don't blame people for withdrawing when they sense coldness instead of warmth which was previously there.
Damage control can be done if scorpio man makes it a point to let people know that when he pulls back/acts distant or cold at times, he does not mean to push them away but just needs some time by himself and they still mean the same to him.
He has to learn to say it in words,its hard to figure out what he is feeling/thinking.
Posted by youngscorpkid
why do scorpio women allow themselves to be led on by me endlessly? are they just weaker then i percieve them to be or are all scorpios guys like this or am i just a fucked up individual


Scorpio men and scorpio women are pretty similar,so when they meet the initial 'introduction' stage is over super fast and they warm up to each other quickly.
Scorpio in general love it when someone understands them in entirety.A scorpio man understands a scorpio woman quite well,can sense her emotional needs(they are similar to his own) and even fulfills them to the best of his abilities.Also,scorpio women are strong individuals and respect a person only if he matches their strength(strength implying a strong character and spine).They find a Scorpio man equaling them in strength and hence let their guard down to warm up to him.They are not weak.
I hope you now know why you 'connect' so well with scorpio females.
No you're not a fucked up individual,just a scorpio boy who is learning new things in life.
Relax.
No, I've been involved with Scorpio men, as a Scorpio woman and I've played quite a few Scorpio men, along with quite a few other signs.
I know you are not trying to hurt her. I am what you are describing your behavior to be. You are young and if you really are anything like me, then you won't stop messing with love interest until you find the one, you trust.
As far as the Scorpio's letting you use them or if they are weaker than they appear, i.d.k... but you are choosing to play with them. You are probably magnetized by the similarity. I know I always appreciate another Scorpio. For example, you probably aren't duping as many Geminis because you two don't get close... no attraction.

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