I was dating this Scorpio woman for a little while and we got into a super small argument with her hanging up on me. I was over it literally the next day, she ignored me for a full week which I found funny.
So I decided I'll just be her friend, no more dating.
She finally started contacting me again and she just replied with one or two words now instead of our long conversations like before. She told me she has really bad trust issues but I noticed she's a very sneaky woman herself how ironic is that! But I told her I don't care if she has trust issues I wouldn't lie to her or act jealous if she dates other guys.
I asked her should I leave her alone and she replied "your choice".
Should I keep being friends with this stubborn woman? I do still like her and I'm attracted to more than her physical appearance but it seems like I have to kiss her ass, contact her first and be careful not to offend her and that's so much work to me.
Scorpio women is this normal behavior or is she just that full of herself?
I've never met someone that gets that upset over something so minor. It seems like men have to walk on eggshells or else, why do you guys act this way?
How do you expect someone to respect you with such child like behavior??
I apologize for generalizing that way
Very wrong of me, you're correct ?
Lol this sounds like me. I cant speak for every scorpio but i act this way because ive been used a lot. Im scared to open up until the person proves themselves. These are just walls. She might not be playing games. Whn i dont reply i am simply just thinking. If she didnt like you she wouldnt be texting you. Its that simple. Shes just scared and trying to protect herself the only way she knows how.
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Jan 23, 2015Comments: 306 · Posts: 1335 · Topics: 77
This sounds like how my dad acted many times but he is a libra sun.
Have to be careful to not offend him or else the threats begin e.e No hitting/physical threats but I have had to learn how to keep my calm while being yelled at.
Then when in dramatic situations with other people,
I'm seen as cold sometimes because I've had to
pick up the skill on not to panic easily then they assume I don't care. (+ the Aqua rising xD haha, but I love it.)
Sigh it's something I'll work on.
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As for the girl,
I'd advise to stay away. Or if you still talk to her, keep your emotional distance and definitely use more of a rational approach from the mind with people who manipulate with guilt trips.
Side note- I'm well aware this is more of a
"toxic pattern" in some people, which occur in any sign.
My placements are Sun in Virgo, Moon in Sag, Mercury in Virgo, Venus in Libra and Mars in Gem
She is 22, I'm 24
We go to school together
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Sep 03, 2016Comments: 36264 · Posts: 40764 · Topics: 321
Awwww she is a young Scorp....they can be difficult...i was, especially with the love thing
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
That mercury in Virgo will be a hard one to match probably better to pick a fire or air Mercury's. All that nitpicking will get you many problems.
I don't think I'm not picky though lol
I try to let people be themselves and accept them for who they are, I can be a bit shallow though?
I always gotta have the girl that's a head turner lol
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Sep 26, 2016Comments: 0 · Posts: 1266 · Topics: 54
Ah yes normal behavior been with one for 10 years,mine behaved like this but unlike you i found the outburst sometimes adorable so instead of her going nuts it made her melt everytime i hug her or kiss her or just stare at her because im amused of her outburst,this work if its minor and she can still go back from darkness that is but if she is super pissed at me then i better be ready with something romantic otherwise she will not forgive me but a scorp forgive but never forgets so after she forgives me we will talk about why she was angry with me and make sure her point is being heard of ?