Is this how you guys see it?

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We must seem like a bunch of wackos to you.. which to me I would think is good since you like strange.
Also, if you don't feel like watching just go to 9:25/9:30 lol when the cat says "no" I just thought it was funny as shit for some reason!
Makes me wonder if people ever understand WTF it is I'm talking about half the time.
Anyways, obviously bored.. guess I'll start looking at some advanced corporate accounting...
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Yeah, it's kinda long and drawn out
They make it seem like to a Scorpio we belong in the Psyche Ward or Looney Bin ^.^
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I think the video is almost dead on especially the song. Tho I don't see aquas as wackos but more silly. I do agree if both signs harness the energy the right way amazing things can happen. The off shoot is it can be easy to bring out the worst in each other
I understand in theory how aquas are but it's hard understanding how they are at any specific minute. Are they in a bad mood or reflecting? For example.
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My sister is aqua sun/moon. She is not really eccentric, but is very smart, and thinks out of the box. I act much more eccentric than she does. But my ascendant is aqua, I think hers is picses
I like aquas. Just never have attracted one, except this one I ... never mind, Imma leave that alone, lol
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I thought it made scorpios look dark and mean, lol
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Long ass video.
I loved Lilo as Aqua and Mr. Bubbles as Scorpio. So funny.
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Posted by AreTwoFour
I thought it made scorpios look dark and mean, lol


No necessarily dark and mean but more serious, intense, mysterious all in one
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Posted by MidniteStar
This was cute! smile
I've always been attracted to the weirdness of Aqua. Weird = sexy!


But confusing isnt
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I think it is fascinating how the female scorpios and male Aquas are so attracted to each other. It can go both ways too though with male scorp, female Aqua just never seems to work out that way for some reason though.... But there are a lot of happily married people scorp female and aqua male. There is a lot of attraction there but it really takes faith by both partners that each other loves the other one at times because the communication appears to be confusing. Unless we somehow learn to understand each other.... I think the hardest part about it is it requires quite a bit of humbling by us both because we both have a lot of respect for ourselves. We don't like to just bend to the whims of other people. I think I could learn a lot from a scorpio female. I just don't know if she could ever understand me :/
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Posted by ScorpioFemale79
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This was cute! smile
I've always been attracted to the weirdness of Aqua. Weird = sexy!


But confusing isnt


Oh confusing definitely isn't. I've alway been attracted to Aquas, but romantically speaking....things never last. I've come to accept that I will never completely understand them and I should just leave it at that. lol
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I've always been attracted to aquas quickly. I love how I feel so protected. Tho I understand the general way an aqua is. I just don't know what is going through their mind at specific times. So I just try and give the space but I always try to contact them at least once that day or whatnot to indicate that they matter to me. But they always return within a reasonable time so I've learned to not knock them for it.
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Posted by MidniteStar
This was cute! smile
I've always been attracted to the weirdness of Aqua. Weird = sexy!


But confusing isnt


Oh confusing definitely isn't. I've alway been attracted to Aquas, but romantically speaking....things never last. I've come to accept that I will never completely understand them and I should just leave it at that. lol


I've always been attracted to aquas quickly. I love how I feel so protected. Tho I understand the general way an aqua is. I just don't know what is going through their mind at specific times. So I just try and give the space but I always try to contact them at least once that day or whatnot to indicate that they matter to me. But they always return within a reasonable time so I've learned to not knock them for it.


That's cool. I'm still attracted to them too even though I get a sinking feeling when I find out they are an Aqua. I guess it's because I'm still kind of bitter over how things ended with my ex Aqua. I can't hate him though as he's the one who brought me to this forum. He was the first guy I ever REALLY loved, but was too afraid to tell him. I always kept my feelings to myself since he kept telling me how he did not want to get tied down with anything serious, even though the girl he met after me he married. So I knew I just wasn't the right one for him. The mind is a bitch though...wont ever let you forget the one you love/loved.
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One thing I learned is they learn they trust you through building a friendship. They want someone who challenges them intellectually, who's fun but also does burden th and gives them space. It's hard to know what it is they want and you never really know what they mean but if you ask them they'll tell you. I guess it takes a special person to never having clarity with them.
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Posted by MidniteStar
^^^^^^^^^Yeah, and I could have handled things differently too. I often make it out to sound like it was all him, but in reality I had a lot to do with things not working out. It went much deeper than our differences and lack of understanding. I was extremely insecure and everything I did I second guessed. I also think some women are just cut out to handle them and some are't. The Aries he ended up marrying was just a better fit for him. Don't know if I could ever go through something like that again. I definitely learned from the experience though. I also respect him for telling me the truth in the end. One thing I can say is that he was always honest with me.


That's how it is with the aqua I'm interested in. We get along wayyyyy easier than he does with any other sign/person we know. But when I was more accessible I guess he spent more time with others to balance it out. I saw it as neglect, got insecure and took it out on him and got uber emotional and it made things get to a point where we don't know how to be around each other anymore. Even though we get along well , I feel like its only on this surface level now and occasionally I make stupid assumptions that get me all depressed just cause he is keeping to himself. I still need to learn that his actions never mean what I think and to stop taking it so personally. It does take someone like an Aries to handle an aqua
It's certainly a battle for an emotional sign like me
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Oh yes, that's another thing with me...I am always making assumptions! Most of my assumptions aren't true in the slightest, but are enough to put me in a negative mindset. I met the Aqua before I ever got into astrology and knew absolutely nothing about that sign. So when he would go on these stretches of not communicating with me, I automatically assumed the worst.
I wish you all the best with your Aqua interest. It definitely sounds like you are much better prepared and epuipped to handle them than I am. You certainly know a lot about them. Hope things work out because I certainly know that Aqua and Scorpio can blend wonderfully together given the right circumstance and people involved. smile
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^^^^^^ um ^.^?
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
^^^^^^ um ^.^?


Idk wtf that was
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What I was trying to say is I know a lot about squad but they still confuse me. It's like I can't handle inconsistency
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Ahh it only appears as in inconsistency Im afraid. :/
Well their are exceptions but anyone who has stepped through the ranks to a leadership like his has shown consistency somewhere to someone...
Unless the inconsistency you refer to is his signs of interest in you?
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius

We must seem like a bunch of wackos to you.. which to me I would think is good since you like strange.



I can't speak for all Scorps, but I don't like "strange". I would say "not easily explained" is more accurate. "Strange" to me is unnerving and frenetic.
....I seem to be all over your sh*t today NYAA. Sorry. One of those moods. *logging off now*
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Aww it's cool I like the attention haha smile
Hmm well I could see both as something that would intrigue a scorpio. But it is good to keep in perspective that everyone is a little different. I do think they mean when they say strange they mean 'not easily explained' at least usually. No one would like a total wacko psyche job.
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Ahh it only appears as in inconsistency Im afraid. :/
Well their are exceptions but anyone who has stepped through the ranks to a leadership like his has shown consistency somewhere to someone...
Unless the inconsistency you refer to is his signs of interest in you?


Your assuming he's interested. He may very well not be. Although Aquarius hides feelings ... If they want to be around you they will. But it's like some days he's all in my business mumbling something sheepishly and other days its like I'm the only one he doesn't acknowledge so I socialize with others and he gets all pissy
I just don't get it and what makes it tougher us he never tells you anything. Or you find out 6 months later
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Posted by ScorpioFemale79
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Ahh it only appears as in inconsistency Im afraid. :/
Well their are exceptions but anyone who has stepped through the ranks to a leadership like his has shown consistency somewhere to someone...
Unless the inconsistency you refer to is his signs of interest in you?


Your assuming he's interested. He may very well not be. Although Aquarius hides feelings ... If they want to be around you they will. But it's like some days he's all in my business mumbling something sheepishly and other days its like I'm the only one he doesn't acknowledge so I socialize with others and he gets all pissy
I just don't get it and what makes it tougher us he never tells you anything. Or you find out 6 months later
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Well I meant he is inconsistent with showing signs that he is in fact interested in you.
If he gets pissy because you don't show him attention lol... I would say he is but what do I know I'm not there.
I think from what I gather... he tries in his own way to show he is interested in you but you never seem to show it back in a way that let's him know you are as well. And since neither of you have openly expressed how you feel it will always be left out their like this big mystery until someone bites the bullet. When you think your showing your interest in him...maybe he doesn't always get it and when he is showing it to you .. maybe you don't always get it I guess. I know if I was into someone but I didn't know if they were into me and I have shown interest but not felt I have had that interest directly reciprocated or am unsure them; I would make an effort to not be all up in their shit at times and avoid them to not seem clingy and weird. I do that a lot actually... so... maybe he is too. But he's not me.
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To be honest I know aquas are random, hot/cold, aloof, need freedom and all of the above. I get that and I also know that:
-He randomly brought myself and himself a smoothie from jambs juice (I didn't even know he liked the place)
- He's subtly protective/territorial at times
- he's been subtly touchy in the past
- he seems to hover around me a lot
- I'm the only one who has seen his angry side
- he comes to me for advice and opinions
But:
- I'm the only one that he doesn't ask about how their weekends are going
- he doesn't have lunch with me anymore
- we can be alone for hours and he wouldn't say a thing
- I'm the only person he doesn't tease or joke with
- im the only one he doesn't make any comments on my new outfits or hair style s
- I practically have to bitch at him for him to be supportive/helpful yet he's so helpful with others
So yes NYAA he shows nice traits you can see y I get confused. Where in that do you see interest?
Aquas are supposed to be helpful and I can't remember the last time he's ever tried to ask me what's wrong. I feel like I have his back but I don't feel 100% supported by him
That doesn't mean he's an asshole or a bad guy. He is a wonderful guy. My point is something about him has made him stop being so helpful when it comes to me. I think I know what it is but it's hard to say
Anyway. Someone who's interested Aquarius or not would make use of opportunity
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They would.
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius

We must seem like a bunch of wackos to you.. which to me I would think is good since you like strange.



I can't speak for all Scorps, but I don't like "strange". I would say "not easily explained" is more accurate. "Strange" to me is unnerving and frenetic.
....I seem to be all over your sh*t today NYAA. Sorry. One of those moods. *logging off now*


No! Please don't log off - I just got home. I saved a funny video for you, because you post so many things that make me laugh, and I thought this video would make you laugh, too. (But I posted it on the wrong thread.)
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LOL! I posted this earlier today. My mood was rubbing off on my post and I needed a breather to chill out. Not fair to NYAA. I'm lurking on the Virgo board.
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You dirty little lurker
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Posted by MidniteStar
Can't believe I'm saying this, but sometimes I actually miss the chaos of being with an Aqua...... Endings are hard for me and I know that if I begin something new, the end will inevitably come sooner or later as it always does and I just don't feel like dealing with that right now.


If this is how you view it all .. then it will end up like how you say. A lot of who we are and how we act comes from how we choose to think about things in our minds. I saw somewhere else you were saying something about love being a waste of time. Love is never a waste of time I wish it weren't true but it isn't.
I've been pretty bitter guy for a long time but you know what? A Scorpio girl like yourself has healed my bitter feelings! I mean she is pretty much... I dunno whats going on with it I guess... point is I hadn't felt like that about anyone in a while. You should stop expecting everything to always end. It only ends when you die... unless of course you have beliefs outside the scope of this conversation but that's besides the point.
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
You dirty little lurker



How so? My goal is to learn about astrology? Isn't it yours? I find the things people post on the boards far more telling about their signs/placements than anything astro.cafeastrology.com could tell me.
...Oh, you must have thought I meant something else. So who is the dirty one?
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I'm always pretty dirty but don't you go telling anyone K?
Let's keep this our little secret.
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I'm always pretty dirty but don't you go telling anyone K?
Let's keep this our little secret.


I guess I shouldn't quote you?
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I'm always pretty dirty but don't you go telling anyone K?
Let's keep this our little secret.


I've come to the conclusion that I really don't have one. Like that user up there with the purplish avatar said. I'll always be attracted to the Aqua man's presence. Just the way he moved, stood there, looks at you, smiled, and hovered always drew me in. Innocently enough as brilliant as aqua man is, he's not aware of this fact. He can always find be focused; seemingly quiet and busy doing my work when I'm really lost in thought. Wondering why things at that exact moment are quiet yet again. I'm good at that I suppose.
I don't do it on purpose. I don't want to make it seem like I don't value his existence but I don't wanna be clingy so if I've got nothing to day, I always fall back to my projects assuming if he wanted to talk he will. And when he does .... He always does at the end of the day. I don't say more than I have to.
Is this what it comes down to? Two ships passing by.
If you saw us two years ago, you'd not have predicted this
I've got to fix this somehow.
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The fact that you want to fix it is good. I want to fix my situation but it is beyond odd for me.... at least you can communicate without it seeming extremely weird. Maybe if I was crazier I would never leave her alone BUT I can't go blindly into the dark with her no more till she shows me more...
I've allowed the girl to humiliate me, at least to me it was lol... And I've let it drop because I can't stay mad at her but Im not gonna just sit their and keep lining up for he to feel great. She should learn some manners you know ^.^
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I'm always pretty dirty but don't you go telling anyone K?
Let's keep this our little secret.


I guess I shouldn't quote you?
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You just did lol
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
The fact that you want to fix it is good. I want to fix my situation but it is beyond odd for me.... at least you can communicate without it seeming extremely weird. Maybe if I was crazier I would never leave her alone BUT I can't go blindly into the dark with her no more till she shows me more...
I've allowed the girl to humiliate me, at least to me it was lol... And I've let it drop because I can't stay mad at her but Im not gonna just sit their and keep lining up for he to feel great. She should learn some manners you know ^.^


Both of our ooa's should
I'm tired of going for hours without saying anything. I'm not quiet cause I don't want to talk; I'm quiet cause he's not saying anything.
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Posted by MidniteStar
I wont derail your thread any further with my babble. lol
It really was a cute thread and I enjoyed the video. smile


I'm in the same position as you. If this thing doesn't end well it's gonna ruin me for future men. He'll it already has... I don't enjoy dating because its not him.
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^^^^^You have got to stop thinking like that... And the sooner you do the better you'll feel. If what you said is true why would be have ever stuck around at all? I don't know your situation but at worst all it can be is a mistake that you learn from and move forward... Ehh w/e Im sure you've heard this gospel plenty of times before. You know you are the one who can help yourself so just do it fuck him whoever he is... is he here now? Stop wasting your time thinking about him... No one has power over you unless you grant it and no one can tell you your not good enough but yourself. I think it is quite mature of you to sit back and not date however seeing as how you know your mind is not in the right place... Very few people seem to practice that these days... It's a very enlightening experience.
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Hey it was my own form of therapy too so no worries smile
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Posted by MidniteStar
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I wont derail your thread any further with my babble. lol
It really was a cute thread and I enjoyed the video. smile


I'm in the same position as you. If this thing doesn't end well it's gonna ruin me for future men. He'll it already has... I don't enjoy dating because its not him.


Nah, you wont be in the same position as me. Trust me, I have more issues going on with me than meets the eye. I'm seriously a messed up basket case and more than some guy or guys got me this way. Not that I'm a special case or anything...just sayin.
I do understand though what you mean about not wanting to date because it's not him. Over 2 years later and I STILL compare guys to him. I still wonder if I'm going to run into him someplace and how the hell would I handle it. Thank God I got rid of his number right away or I'd pobabably have tried to contact him. I got rid of every trace of evidence of him and yet I still can't stop thinking of him. You'd think that after 2 years I'd be able to get a grip. I've even now managed to turn this whole thing around on me. I've told myself over and over again that he was just with me for the sex and nothing more because I was too easy and now I'm questioning myself if he was ever even attracted to me. I know he drank alot and now I sometimes wonder if that's why he drank everytime we were with each other. Maybe that's the only way he could touch me beause he couldn't while sober. Now I'm embarrassed that the whole thing happened because I'm left feeling like a fool. The mind can play dirty tricks on you. I don't even know what's real anymore. Maybe I imagined the whole damn romance.
But I do think you are in a better position. You seem way more level headed than I was/am.
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Me level headed? Nah.... I haven't posted everything that has happened in the time I've known him. Lol I'd annoy people here with my dramatic posts.
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Hey it was my own form of therapy too so no worries smile


I wish I could pick your brain I've got sooooo many questions
You too purple avatar!!
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Posted by ScorpioFemale79
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Hey it was my own form of therapy too so no worries smile


I wish I could pick your brain I've got sooooo many questions
You too purple avatar!!
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feel free to PM me anytime you feel like it
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Done !!
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Wow that video was co cool! Disney and zodiac signs what a match!!
Anyway, I'm a Cancer sun but have Moon, Rising and Saturn in Aquarius. And many of my friends are Scorpios! However, one thing I have noticed is that these Scorpios have some Libra influences. I get along with them great! We just have this connection that is beyond amazing!
I guess being a Cancer with a Scorpio is amazing on its own, but add the air compatibility and you've got an even more amazing relationship.
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Interesting input silvermoon.
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This is for the Midnite Star.... Scorpio women are obsessive as we know. I know because I am married to one for the last 18 years. I have also got a number of Scorpio lady friends who are close to me on different levels (all platonic please)
There are the Aquarian qualities which are of being coolly detached and quirky humour which attracts the Deeply Emotional Scorp lady crazily. Believe me you hand yourselves on a platter losing yourself in the process which you later regret as you have given all of yourself totally and are absolutely naked emotionally ( Aquarians love unravelling secrets and what makes one tick). I have known a number of Aquarians as friends and there is a method and stubborn determination which at times is more extreme than Taurus . Since there is no mystery for them to unravell they take you literally on a limb. But I have have seen the Aqua guys behaving like idiots when they fall for Virgo (sometimes Taurus ) women who make twirl around their little finger( one aqua guy could not consummate his marriage with his Virgo wife for a month after his wedding. Ultimately we had to give him expert advise on how to approach her). But that is how the whole astrological karma works. We run after whom we can never can have heart and soul( like I could never get a libra whole though there used to be an xrtreme sexual attraction between us). Me I am a Pisces: Aqua cusp.
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This is for the Midnite Star.... Scorpio women are obsessive as we know. I know because I am married to one for the last 18 years. I have also got a number of Scorpio lady friends who are close to me on different levels (all platonic please)
There are the Aquarian qualities which are of being coolly detached and quirky humour which attracts the Deeply Emotional Scorp lady crazily. Believe me you hand yourselves on a platter losing yourself in the process which you later regret as you have given all of yourself totally and are absolutely naked emotionally ( Aquarians love unravelling secrets and what makes one tick). I have known a number of Aquarians as friends and there is a method and stubborn determination which at times is more extreme than Taurus . Since there is no mystery for them to unravell they take you literally on a limb. But I have have seen the Aqua guys behaving like idiots when they fall for Virgo (sometimes Taurus ) women who make twirl around their little finger( one aqua guy could not consummate his marriage with his Virgo wife for a month after his wedding. Ultimately we had to give him expert advise on how to approach her). But that is how the whole astrological karma works. We run after whom we can never can have heart and soul( like I could never get a libra whole though there used to be an xrtreme sexual attraction between us). Me I am a Pisces: Aqua cusp.


I just like the aquas comforting and quirky nature. Yes I will serve myself 100x whole on a platter if I had the chance to do it all over again. I don't regret being fascinated by him. The only thing I regret is letting my Scorpio nature get to me soooooooooo much my inability to look at things without logic consumed me and made me act so irrationally. Thank God Aquas don't judge 99.999999% of the time as we are still on good terms.
The only thing I can't handle is the whole "Is he/Isn't he?" dilemma. Once clarity is given then I can handle their inconsistency.
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I think ultimately ..... we kinda intimidate each other. Why else would two signs that instantly attract each other always have a hard time... well not always but it sure does seem like it at times.
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Attraction entirely on different levels : The Scorp attraction because she sees that part which is dispassionate/intelligent/quick wit etc and she obsesses about possesing and owning heart & soul ....while the Aqua sees a very intelligent sexual being. Long term problem the Aquarians does not want to be possessed ( though I think it is more of an exaggerated sense of freedom) and cannot appreciate/sympathise with the Scorp depth of feelings . Emotional Burn for the Scorp and Aqua takes off on a long distance flight...
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I probably just suck with 'ze' emotions. Right, I mean if I really was any good with them maybe I'd have the one girl I've actually wanted to date in a long ass time....
I think for me what the problem is:
a)I am so attracted to this personality that I wanna move to fast and I'm not a fast mover.
b)I want to be around you all the time?
c)You guys like a good mystery to solve but I just wanna be open and let you know me way to fast =/= instant buzzkill
d)You don't seem to be able to trust me.
e)You don't communicate for shit.
Honestly, I know how that nutter felt you just talked about.... I wouldn't do that obviously but that's pretty much how I'd feel from the day you let me in to your little world.
It's like a dream come true that can't understand you. It's like the enivatble let down. The dissapointment scorpios assume from the start. It is going to be the biggest regret of my life, being born under the eleventh sign... why must we square?
Probably the only type of female personality I'd do anything for yet we confuse each other. We are like kindred souls reaching out in the dark for validation. I am hoping, wishing, longing to find your warm inviting 'touch'.
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Awww. NYAA is so adorable *pats his head*
I love how honest & open you are. Maybe things will be ok someday, heh? Aquas love & crush very hard lol. I wish people could see that.
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& +1 on what brownie said, aquas like to go all out for what they cant possess. The aim is not to possess, but it sure is thrilling & a turn-on to try catch a rainbow, clouds, stars etc...
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Get caught then... *yawn*
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