Is this Scorpio guy testing me ?
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Twinkitty91 on Monday, March 4, 2019 and has 7 replies.
Dear Scorpions, badly need ur advice/suggestions/conclusion on my issue with this Scorp guy.
I'm Cancer female he is Scorp guy.
Before moving ahead I will tell u that me being the water sign even I feel unnecessarily getting this issue over my head, even I m responsible for my condition.
So....
We know each other for 3 years now good friends.
He knows that I love him as few months back I confessed him.
He is the type when in isolation he gets depressed and stressed. So he stays around people.
So day before yesterday he called and spoke on office work. He was pissed off. After putting off call I texted him to stay calm. To which he wrote he he already going through many things. Well this was not first time he mentioned about his trouble but even before he hinted me but I never talk to him about it thinkingI might intergere. This time I decided to hear him out. So as our chats went on I found out that I was asking him to 'discuss about the issue vent out dint let it eat u' all in return his answer were unusual like he would sent me pics of packs of cigarettes that he will be having, telling he is not able to cry, he wants to die, he do drugs on weekend. I even asked him question about his issues which I already knew even to that he didnt responded. Instead he was phrasing sad depressing quotes and send me. I was like wtf..! And then no reply came after sending him 2 series of quotions back to back. This went in for two days.
I was wonder any normal, if they never want to discuss on issuethay will say that " please dont ask me about issue I will not able to disscuss.
But he even didnt say that.
After two days we were back to our work routine. I already knew he might feel awkward or guilt to face me after talming to me that way. But tgen I was firm that no matter what I will be normal to him. I went, I smiled I was being normal. After just an hour and two my enegies started draning felt like something is wrong. I felt wrong about him. My pleasing behaviour started to get anxious. He was behaving strange even after me being normal with him.
And in hours I found muself in bad temper.
I was literally exhausted.
I thought he knows I care for him, I love him so why dont he just open up about his issue and then it clicked that what if he was playing mind games on me or testing me by playing a victim. I dont know whats on his mind.
Normally I dont think that his depressed mind should interfere our friendship and worklife because he himself said that he is all okay at work but in isolation he is messed up.
If anyone xan help me what to do cause this has litterally pissed me off and turn me stone cold.
I'm Cancer female he is Scorp guy.
Before moving ahead I will tell u that me being the water sign even I feel unnecessarily getting this issue over my head, even I m responsible for my condition.
So....
We know each other for 3 years now good friends.
He knows that I love him as few months back I confessed him.
He is the type when in isolation he gets depressed and stressed. So he stays around people.
So day before yesterday he called and spoke on office work. He was pissed off. After putting off call I texted him to stay calm. To which he wrote he he already going through many things. Well this was not first time he mentioned about his trouble but even before he hinted me but I never talk to him about it thinkingI might intergere. This time I decided to hear him out. So as our chats went on I found out that I was asking him to 'discuss about the issue vent out dint let it eat u' all in return his answer were unusual like he would sent me pics of packs of cigarettes that he will be having, telling he is not able to cry, he wants to die, he do drugs on weekend. I even asked him question about his issues which I already knew even to that he didnt responded. Instead he was phrasing sad depressing quotes and send me. I was like wtf..! And then no reply came after sending him 2 series of quotions back to back. This went in for two days.
I was wonder any normal, if they never want to discuss on issuethay will say that " please dont ask me about issue I will not able to disscuss.
But he even didnt say that.
After two days we were back to our work routine. I already knew he might feel awkward or guilt to face me after talming to me that way. But tgen I was firm that no matter what I will be normal to him. I went, I smiled I was being normal. After just an hour and two my enegies started draning felt like something is wrong. I felt wrong about him. My pleasing behaviour started to get anxious. He was behaving strange even after me being normal with him.
And in hours I found muself in bad temper.
I was literally exhausted.
I thought he knows I care for him, I love him so why dont he just open up about his issue and then it clicked that what if he was playing mind games on me or testing me by playing a victim. I dont know whats on his mind.
Normally I dont think that his depressed mind should interfere our friendship and worklife because he himself said that he is all okay at work but in isolation he is messed up.
If anyone xan help me what to do cause this has litterally pissed me off and turn me stone cold.
wut
Posted by LadyLuna19So what am I suppose to do?
No just no, I would just be his friend and advise therapy or some positive outlet. But his negativity is going to affect and drag you down. No man is worth that
Because there was time I tried doverting him from negativities to other topics he likes but they dont last or sometimes he would ignore the text after giving 3-4 reply
So he's your co worker who is fine at work.
But then on the weekends he does drugs and smokes.
And you love him...and made a declaration (cringy)
But because he's depressed and opened up about it you are now pissed and stone cold.
Did I get that right?
But then on the weekends he does drugs and smokes.
And you love him...and made a declaration (cringy)
But because he's depressed and opened up about it you are now pissed and stone cold.
Did I get that right?
Posted by stopeWhat u mean?
You are not an empath. Are you on le drugs too?
If u mean to say I cannot feel his pain the for that its different story.. Since 2 years I all dead in his thoughts whenever he was in pain. Excessively showering my love and care... He knows I m into him.. I told him everytime i will b there for him to hear.. What all I got in return ??? Nit even a single statements saying "dont ask my issues I might not be able to tell or comfortable to tell"
All I knew is he came to me to talk when he lost his contact with this other girl whom he usually text all time.
Posted by Ellygant
Neither of you sound like you’d be good for each other. He’s an emotional vampire and you sound codependent. That’s the worst possible combo.
You shouldn’t be ok with pouring so much devotion and care into someone who doesn’t appreciate it, offers nothing in return and treats you with contempt. That’s no love. That’s need.
Make sense....
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