Is this typical of a Scorpio?

Hey Everyone!!

I'm gonna try make this short and simple! Okay, me and this Scorpio guy were involved for about 2 1/2 months. He seemed to really like me (he's told me before) and I really liked him!! (I'm a Gemini). Well as time went on, things started to change and become inconsistent. We has a casual little connection and he just seemed to lose interest. Well I brought up the issues and within a month, nothing seemed to have changed. Well I got fed up with my unhappiness with out relationship, so I broke things off. I called him and he wasn't answering....so I texted him. Well at first, he tried to play things cool and then he got inquisitive. After discussing things, he gave me the cold shoulder for about 3 weeks.

Well for NYE, I went to a party he had out in Kankakee. Well I had some car troubles and ended up being stranded. He was there, but I didn't bother to ask him for help because we wasn't talking to one another. The next day, I told him what had happened and he kept asking me why didn't I call him. I was shocked by it and was happy to know that he would've helped. Well for the rest of the day, he called and checked up on me. Later that day, he invited me to a party he had near my house. When I arrived, he paid for me to get in and offered to buy me drinks.

I'm just wondering what all does this mean? Is this typical after a break-up with a Scorpio? Was he just being nice? What should I expect? All advice & opinions are welcomed!!

Either you got clingy, you failed his tests, or he told you how he felt and then backed off to see your reaction and you took it as he wasn't interested.. but he was, and now he's hurt. But unless he was really really bitter about it, once you're in a scorpio's inner circle we will do anything for you. There are not very many ex-bf's I wouldn't help out if they were stranded. I still care about nearly all of them. Things didn't work for one reason or another, I wouldn't get back with them, but I'd still help them if they needed it.

Thanks for your comment! Well we established that we were just gonna be casual, but after that....he started to act like we were more which really confused me. When I broke things off, he did plead his case....but that was that. I don't think I got clingy because I kinda backed off and slowed down with communication.....due to me not wanting to seem clingy.

I do know that after the whole break-up, we were out at the same social spot. Well my room mate said that she seen him telling his friend (Pointing At Me) "There she go over there. She talking about she not fucking with me no more"

I was just really curious and confused on why the concern and communication after 3 weeks of a cold shoulder. I honestly didn't think he cared much about me anyway...

Ok well I don't understand that slang.. but it sounds like he really did care about you. But obviously he knows he *shouldn't* be bitter because it was supposed to be strictly casual, but he started to care when he wasn't supposed to. So he didn't talk to you because he was hurt, but isn't angry with you/bitter because he knows he never should have let himself care like that. So yeah, he would have helped you, you made it into his inner circle, and he cares. Most of the time Scorpio would have stung you when he was hurt, but in this case just retreated because he knew it was his own fault for allowing himself to care, and thus his own fault for causing the pain. He probably stung himself a bunch of times 'why do I care about her? stupid stupid stupid'.

That's the way I see it.

Posted by bluemoon2
What was the discussion that you two had about? What did you discuss? What was your mood at that time? What emotions were you experiencing? Just curious.

We discussed what happened to me while I was stranded and just how the situation occurred. My mood was more so in a shock due to us talking after so long. My emotions were beginning to rise, but stayed still because I didn't think things would've happened how he claimed they would have. So it was more so like I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt, but I didn't wanna hold my breathe either.

Posted by Skykomish
Ok well I don't understand that slang.. but it sounds like he really did care about you. But obviously he knows he *shouldn't* be bitter because it was supposed to be strictly casual, but he started to care when he wasn't supposed to. So he didn't talk to you because he was hurt, but isn't angry with you/bitter because he knows he never should have let himself care like that. So yeah, he would have helped you, you made it into his inner circle, and he cares. Most of the time Scorpio would have stung you when he was hurt, but in this case just retreated because he knew it was his own fault for allowing himself to care, and thus his own fault for causing the pain. He probably stung himself a bunch of times 'why do I care about her? stupid stupid stupid'.

That's the way I see it.

Oh wow! I never looked at it that way. That is very interesting. I Scorpios are great at hiding their true feelings because I would've never thought that he cared for me enough. You know, it's like when you're not into anything serious with anyone, you don't too much expect feelings to go far. That was my whole out look on things. I just didn't want to get too attached and involved in something that I felt/thought wasn't going to progress into anything more.

We are actually back to speaking terms and some "funny business" happened, but things actually seem the same. Nothing seems to have changed between us, but best believe that I am keeping my eyes and ears open!