yea, we'll drive you crazy thats for sure. tell you what, sounds like you need another scorpio. thats what id do if i were you i dont know what else could take your mind off it. use that sagitarion bow and arrow and shoot 'em in the back then tell him to start loving you or your going to go idevil on his ass.
Why do I have a feeling that Jollity's problem is quite common and the same happens with males in general.. That's exactly what made me lose my interest on every guy that I have been talking with (more or less). That playing games. Every time I see that ignorance, it takes only 1 or 2 days and I just say to myself that "Go ahead, play those games, you'll see you are gonna have to play alone, coz I'm outta here". And I suggest to other women to do the same. In love games there are no winners.
"Maybe it's down to at the start of a new romance,it's ,mostly, quite full on,then reality kicks in and the person realise there's all these other things in their life that have fallen by the wayside...plus 'absence makes the heart grow fonder',etc...."
I don't know.. Maybe that goes to some situations but not in my case. I have a word which describes exactly how I feel. Unfortunately there's no word in English that is equivalent with my word. I guess getting sick and tired is closest to that feeling, but it doesn't describe enough... Anyway, that feeling makes you sour, you wanna see how sour? LOL
I know I'm not telling details but you can figure out how does that feel when you open up yourself and tell how you feel and then someone ignores you. I don't know about you, but that makes me feel that I have said too much. Better to be cold if telling about your feelings makes that reaction. And the funny thing here is that the guy is not a "new friend".. I understand if it's a new romance that you could freak out if someone tells how she feels about you, but someone you have known for years already... That's unforgivable. Or at least very close to that.
Now I'm already thinking too much of this.. Gotta chill out.
"In real life I hope that someone will prove me wrong"
With this I meant that hopefully I will someday meet someone who will prove me wrong.. I'm sure there are many who could prove me wrong, I just never meet them 🙂
"s+S....fair enough, it seems as though you're at this guys mercy then, as you've opened up and he's holding all the aces,so to speak....that is unfair, as if you've had the confidence to open yourself to him,he should at lest do the same,if only to give you closure on the matter....."
Ok.. Coz I didn't tell much details I understand why you thought like that.. We have known for a few years. So this was not just the first time opening up to each other. He actually opened up before me. Then I opened up. And then he's not responding in any way. It doesn't matter how long time that ignorance has been. The fact is that he ignored me. I would understand it very well if we just met. Then you are maybe a lil scared and hesitate to go on..
I know it sounds like I'm making a big deal out of this. But knowing myself, if I really like someone maybe 2 or 3 times in my life, then that is a big deal. I'm more for career than for love. That's why if a guy can make me feel something, then I'll take that seriously.
Even though that guy is my biggest crush ever (and that has to be a huge thing), I could do such thing that I will never talk to him again and just forget about him. Maybe next time he likes someone he will think twice before he ignores her. And maybe when I'm old and I have time to think of my past, then I'll remember him and smile about this 🙂
"but you'll end up a cranky old spinster if all you focus on is Career"
You are so right about this. And that's the reason why I still hesitate doing something irrational and irreversible with this guy. 🙂
"If it's come to this conclusion,then ,in my mind, he wasn't what you thought he was (in regards to this little predicament) ,regardless of how long you've known him...."
This is also very true, I've been thinking the same...
"My thoughts on this are to got out loads"
I know I should do this. I just don't wanna go out anymore, I mean going to bars.. I have a men-in-bars phobia.. LOL Somehow I've always felt that men disturb me in bars. And of course the last time in bar effected in me a lot. How am I gonna tell my friend that her husband told he's interested in me and tried to kiss me? In the worst scenario she would hate ME.
But you are right. I should leave this thing from my mind for a while and do things that I like. Maybe later I'll find an answer to all my questions. At least I know that I'm not satisfied with this right now.
*pressing off-button* Feeling better already 🙂 Have fun, bling! And thanks..
Actually I have phobia in men everywhere. But not here on message boeards.. 🙂 I guess that has something to do with my teenage years. I just feel that guys are harassing me.. lol I know that's funny but I like to have my own space and I decide when someone is allowed to enter to my space. My space is quite wide.. 😉
I'm already 30 but I have many younger friends. And older than me, too. I have never been with a guy who's younger than me.. Maybe guys never grow up but younger guys are for sex only.. kidding.. 🙂
Lol..I think you pretty much hit the nail on the head there...I am just bored..I wonder when Robots are planned to take over the mans place..I, robot eat your heart out..
hahaha @ scorpius..are you trying to say I am a machine (how do I do that crying icon) in fact I don't know how to get those smilies at all!!!! I've asked so many times, nobody listens!
True, missy. Actually right at this moment I couldn't care less about men. As friends yes, but no feelings to fall in love ever again. How could any man be different to others? I could be too demanding though. But I can't see myself to settle for less than I need. I feel so sorry for my friend who dreams about a good relationship but always ends up with a guy who uses her. At least I'm a bit more realistic to leave someone when I see there's no happiness for me with him. My friend is an Aquarius.
I've never had any encounters with an Aquarius..apart from my little nephew who is a true gem..he is lubly..
Nah your right, I couldn't settle for anything less than what I deserve..which is the best!..lol..of course..I am trying to see as much of the world as possible, do everything I want to do and sort my career out..if love happens along the way then great, but I am not out to look for it..Best things come to those who wait..
This is a terrible terrible day! I should go back to bed. Is anyone else feeling lousy today? I'd love to have energy today but somehow I feel my batteries are so low. Anyone has a good joke?
Yes I did..I meet him every day on chat..lol..he can't keep away..bless him..he left a distressed message on my voicemail the other day cos I was ignoring him "quit annoying me hun, and call me...please"..he sounded so down..lol bless him..so I still didn't call him..called him the next day and he was pleased as punch!..
Why you feeling lousy? I heard this quote today and decided to pinch it for my msn nic..
"Denial aint just a river in egypt"..hahaha and another
I think I'm going through a process of leaving something behind for good.. It normally takes a couple of days from me. Now it's my third day. I'm sure tomorrow I'm a new person again.
"quit annoying me hun, and call me...please"
That's funny. Coz I could have said the same many times but I never did. I'm too stubborn and too realistic.
Missy.. You are funny too, but look at Branh's comment on Pisces board. He's just hilarious, just being himself.. hahaha.. If that's not funny then I must be crazy.. lol
Sweet&sour "I think I'm going through a process of leaving something behind for good.. It normally takes a couple of days from me. Now it's my third day."
Yeah just read Branhs comment..It was alright I suppose..I am much funnier!..lol what he should've said was I like to grab their hair and say whats my name biatch!..
Sweet&sour: Please don't be killing your feelings. Feelings are apart of us. If it's about a guy for example then those feelings will maybe never disappear. I've been trying to do that about a certain guy. Thought I could. You know what? It didn't work. Much to my annoyance.
You know what you are right. I have this friend who I really like but he doesn't know it since I'm subtle. I don't want to scare him away. Besides he's away at work now. I thought it would be best to end the friendship due to certain circumstances. Then I became so sad (why I'll never now) and took contact with him. Turned out I wasn't going to be able to get rid of him so fast he told me. Actually, I never wanted to get rid of him either. Anyway, he had sent me 2 text messages which I responded to. Then I sent him an extra one on Sunday and he had yet to respond to me or call me. It's infuriating. I feel he can at least take 2 minutes to check in with me. Today, I was in the kitchen making dinner and I had him on my mind also. Trying to not think of him although not easy. When I started to eat my cell phone was beeping. Turned out he had called me a half an hour before while I was in the kitchen. Oh, I was so annoyed I missed his call because I love talking to him. He has a great voice to listen to. I've sent him back a text message saying I saw he called. Now I have to see when I hear from him the next time. He completely surprises me over and over again. I wanted to share this with you so maybe you don't give up hope on that special person you want to kill the feelings for. You never know what can happen.
"I wanted to share this with you so maybe you don't give up hope on that special person you want to kill the feelings for. You never know what can happen."
Mystical,
that's nice of you.. 🙂 But I already let it go. I just felt that it's not good for me. I know that he ignored me for fact. And he knows that I don't need any games right now. He knows that I have some business arrangements to do and also many other things going on for my future, so if he cared a lil he wouldn't make things harder for me right now. I mean playing games with me. For me that's unforgivable. Your lover should ease your pain not make it. So I guess I need to let him go. I'm not mad at him. He's still special but not something that I want anymore. I know I couldn't be his friend anymore. So I just cut all my connections with him. And I hope I will never hear of him or see him anymore. Then I think it's possible to let it go forever. I already feel better and have other things in my mind. I just wanted to reply to you but I think I'll stop coming here too. I'll just come here to say hi when I feel so.
Btw.. I hope your special friend will see how sweet lady he has.. 🙂
