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I(scorp 35f) just found out that my ex boyfriend (Leo 35m) is dating an aqua25f version of me. I am not projecting but she really is exactly who I was when I was 25. Down to the quirks, interests and way of talking. I've even heard it from a few mutuals we have (small town things)
We started dating when we were 25 and then parted ways after a few years because...caste...life...mismatched expectations. I told myself it was because I wasn't good enough for him. He was more successful than I was at that point.
Clearly he's the bf I didn't properly get over so I go to his profile sometimes to just 'catch up' and saw this.
I don't know what to feel anymore.
It certainly helps in the getting over part because what 35 yr old dates a 25 yr old??? But I am also weirdly flattered?!
Hopefully I'll find proper love at some point but being replaced by a younger version of yourself just feels weird.
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Oct 02, 2013Comments: 34 · Posts: 2216 · Topics: 66
Men always go for the same "type" of women. It's as old as time.
They start to go for younger "versions" once they realize time is cayching up to them and they're getting old.
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Jan 29, 2011Comments: 663 · Posts: 12440 · Topics: 2
He has a type and if you are the prototype, then he’s looking to replace you in every woman. Seeking someone way younger is just his mid-life crisis. Happens to women too. It’s just 😆 funny to watch one in real life.
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Mar 27, 2020Comments: 1124 · Posts: 809 · Topics: 9
This is just another Scorpio stalker thread
Telling yourself things like “I also wore white adidas 10 years ago! He is dating a younger version of me” is just borderline crazy.
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 287 · Posts: 30828 · Topics: 650
Did he date before you guys got together?