l think she fancies me!NOT AGAIN!!

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by rocket1968 on Wednesday, October 22, 2008 and has 44 replies.
HI Scorpio Guys and Gals
ok this is doing my head in , its the fourth time this as happened to me in the last to years , and l am thinking of giving up trying to be friends with girls , me a girl also .
it seems when ever l meet a girl l find interesting to be friends with , they fancy me. its doing my head in , l do nothing to cause it , but then again l am a natural flirt and quiet with it. so here guys l have a new dilemma!! .
l saw a girl out in a club while dancing in a club with friends, and l love individuals who stand out, she had on a wicked jumper dress ,and because l love fashion l kept checking out the style , but as it's dark in a Night club l kept looking, funny enough she was too , but she looked as though she was full of her self , so l thought l want ask her were she got it from , as her head may grow bigger than it already is. anyway , sitting in the with my girlfriends , this same girl walked in during the day time , and l said to my friends hey! l think thats that girl who had that wicked! jumper dress . she came to the bar and l said to her do you have a white jumper dress . as she was wearing her hair different, she said No!! l thought it must be her, so l kept asking but she was sure it was not her . funny thing was her eyes were just fixed intensely on me, and her body language seemed quite drawn to me.
Next night saw her leaving the hotel club again with her friend, and because we were sitting in a group of guys l thought l would invite her other for a bit of fun for them . when she sat with me and these four guys one being my boyfriend, she just seemed interested in talking to me, she asked me where l was from and so on then it just seemed like no one else existed!!.she said l never saw you dancing the other nite. then she asked me about my rings on my wedding finger , and l said oh one is emeralds , and the other is white diamonds, she then said how strong my arms looked and how good l looked for my age , so l started to make reference to my guy saying how l loved him and how she can meet a decent guy,
She seemed cold to these two guys who were with us and got quite cold to them , as she is so gougous looking it was quite baffling to me , but l just thought maybe they were not her type, then she said she liked older friends ,always has. so l thought right! what type do you go for , she said l like black skin. l thought oh sugar!! because l am all the things she liked.
my friend said lets take a picture of you
erghhhhhhhhhh and what exactly is the problem here?????
Continued!
anyway we took the picture , but while we put her arm around my waist , she kept moving her hand up and down my side , but sort of like stroking, l thought no its in my head, then my friend who was taking the picture was laughing , like he knew something and said let me take one more picture , he did this three times. l started laughing too , because l know him well , and l thought he his thinking what l am , ( Iam Cancer ) he is Virgo but we love Sociology.
Anyway my boyfriend was talking to her friend flirting if you like , but seemed bored as the other girl did not say much and me and the other girl kept giggling with each other. she then said will you send the picture ,l said of course so l took her email. my boyfriend jumped in then also and asked for he r Number which l didn't ask for , l joked and said don't give it him, when walked to a coffee bar and said goodnight , and she held my hands this after l said l had a friend who was to clingy and it turned out she was in love with me.
l walked over to my friend and said was you laughing for the reason l think you were, and he said yes its obvious she fancies you , he said he could not believe it , as he went through the last Lesbian attraction l had problems with. it is Funny !! but we were in shock!! . anyway l tried to send the email , and it bounced back , but l realized the letters are the wrong way round and it works now. l just said thanks for the fun and laughs ,can you let me know if you got this and l will forward the photos,
she leaves Egypt today , so when she gets to Russia , she should reply back , so l will know then if she wants to be friends or not, l left my number at the hotel for her to call me so l could make sure the email is right this morning ,but nothing yet ,
So my question is Scorpios,
A. is she attracted to me ?
B. away signs if she trys to hide it. ?
if she is, but she is trying to hide it since l told her about this other incident , what will be the give away.
hmmm...question!!!
are you attracted to her?
are you lesbian?

gimme some info and maybe i will help you out...by the way...any lesbian experience you wanna share????
keep me posted!
Basically l am sure she fancies me , but the last time l ignored my instincts , things got messy ,and this girlfriend hated me and would not talk to me again ,because l did not want a relationship with her!! l suffered no end of pain as l really liked her, she even went out her way to say l raped her because she could not have me. THATS THE PROBLEM!!
now l like someone it looks like its gonna happen again , so l want insight on what a scorpio woman does when she is attracted to someone, and no Secrets Please. l am water too , so l am sure l am right about this.
still didnt answer my questions....
its makes quite a difference if you tell me if you are alesbian or not, cause you being interested in her as a friend is something...if its something else...well, then its something elsesmile
l dont know how to post images ,but for the security of others most likely not a good thing.think (Sharon Stone ) well this other girl who was Russian also same name as well how SCARY!! , we did have a fling yes it was good ,but she fell in love with me , l am engaged so l really hurt when l said can we start again and be friends because she is Taurus , it was like banging my head against a brick wall. The answer to your question
1.No l am not gay
2.And yes there is chemistry.
l think more because l have not fully got over the last episode. but yes l did find myself thinking of her after wards.so HELP! she said she would like to stay in touch l am scared!
GIRL....
1- what are you scared of?
2- if you start thinkin about her afterwords maybe yes...you have a bit of a lasbian in you.
3- is that bad?
4- if theres chemistry...what do you want to do about it???
Ok what do you think , my minds bending, and l think l want to see her again. does this help, if so what do l do ? as she is YOUNGER than me but seems clued up, and aware of my thoughts! and Scorpios like my fiance are very aware of your intentions.
elena90
l think u missed the start and yes l know your one for being harsh ,so you want to bash me ,this is not the Taurus , she is out my system Crazy Bitch !! the hotel threw her out for sexual harassment and fraud! so read from the start ok
ok answer to my Scorpio friend , yes maybe all this attraction as turned my thoughts and found something in me , not a problem , but ok if its going to be a regular issue l may as well confront it , so what shall l say to her shall l wait and see what her replies are. fragm3nt3d_mind?
Elena90
this is to simplify things
1 my guy is Scorpio
2 the Taurus l had a fling with , ( out the picture ) since July
3 Just back from hols were Taurus worked , she was sacked Saturday for sexual Harassment ( lol!! ) she deserved it.
4. Meet a Scorpio girl who was making signals to me , that indicate attraction , almost a repeat of Taurus.
so its not the Taurus l want to figure out ,its Bisexual or lesbian behavior , as its all happening so fast , like to see u deal with it , l feel like a male stud but l am not that amazing ,and cannot understand why these awesome looking girls fancy me.
hope this helps LOL! ok . :-)
ok l think lm bI got to be bit late in the day ,but just looked at your private window elena90 and your stunning WOW!
now l feel stupid. ..... shit. now l need your help!!
oh dear I think she fancies your avatar....
well since you're bi, you 'll be happy eitherway... worse comes to worse, just ask, if she,s not, then u laugh over it become friends... if she is.... well come to mama, right ? Confused
oh dear I think she fancies your avatar....
who was that for . confused even more , no l dont fancy anyone here but Elena 90 looks wicked !!
thats a good thing YES!! no offence there , no l am not Bi- but all the attention is turning my head , so guys
l will play mind games if you like , but answer my thoughts ok, since when could women not flatter
the looks of other women without being Gay, and if l did fancy Elena90 , for me l would ask in private and
with a bit more style than a public forum for sure. so lets get back to the subject .
Well funny thou, Ha Ha .... LOL , what does lmao mean? sorry if it sound s thick!
if you don't know then its not thick! right so tell me.
and why the fuck are we so complicated! ?
well, speaking for myself, i'm not complicated at all but then i'm straight.
having said that, i've had a few female admirers in the past but they were shemale types and not feminine at all. are you sure you're not reading the signs wrongly??
i actually feel for lesbian and gay people cos it must be hard following up an attraction when you aren't sure of the sexuality of the object of your desire.
lmao = laugh my ass off btw.
SHIT! what do l know this is confusing the hell out of me. if girls just liked men and vice a visa , we would not have this confusion right! l flirt like all girls ,but when you sense a feellin, your normally right , well l am, but also the chances of my male friend thinkin the same at the same time, was too close to be a mis understanding!
you guys are Scorpio's so l am trying to understand the Scorpio female ,not the male as most of my partners all male have been Scorpio, but l don't normally get on with Scorpio females from my experience, so l dont want to put effort in being her pen pal or what ever, and find that her intentions are for a relationship, and loose another friend it would break my Cancerian Heart.
*Scratches ass

HUH
No FERDY
l SWEAR !! but it keeps happening , and l am wondering if there is some sort of fashion out there lately for Tall Black Girls
l love a laugh and can be really adventurous, plus l do not look 36 more 27 lm told . its these girls . l think there looking for something that they see in me that guys are not showing them , l am athletic and have been told l draw attention to me easy, but thats not my fault. l want to know how to stop it , as its wrecking my chances of having good female friends , and its quiet depressing in some ways. why me. ... Yes ferdy its started again , l cannot believe it. !!! what do l do stay away from girls its impossible.
Anyway what you doing on here. ?
do you mind if I reply tomorrow ...typing on the phone can be a hell of a pain in the arse
i don't flirt actually. it's not a scorpio thing to flirt.
fraggie: i'm off to bed so i will catch you manana Winking
aha! rocket's a cancerian. now i know why she doesn't make any sense LOL!!
no offence crabby one.
Got ya ! , l dont chase them they follow me, and yes am gonna run if thats the only option , did not know u were a Scorpio Ferdy!!
Yep guys any replies funny or truly honest welcome, come to think of it , l think this lesbian fashion thing is happening a lot in Europe as the girls over here dont care , they like sex ! and don't mind exploring maybe its a bit of a culture shock to you guys over there also, but l have been hearing this a lot lately , and my Friend in Egypt said that the Russian Girls do like black guys that goes for girls also , so its making sense now . l say some of you should have a Vacation over here , and that American prudish mentality may change . not my words , its just what they say about you guys out there , hope its wrong LOL!! what can l say . ..... lm a babe magnet ! and l may as well enjoy it for the attention anyway, but my experience tells me as a Cancer , with a lot of Virgo influence, l like trouble , and so what if l am a cancerian WHATS THAT GOT TO DO WITH IT!!? fill me in on that joke !!
OFF TO BED WITH MY MAN NOW HA HA , ,,, HOW MANY CAN SAY THAT !!
Anyway my boyfriend was talking to her friend flirting if you like




Awwww you and your man must be so happy!
::: i don't flirt actually. it's not a scorpio thing to flirt.::: no not true Rox...so not truesmile
and to the Poster...that last comment of yours was just soooooooo unnecessary...if you were so happy to go to bed with your BF, you wouldnt be here making a fool of yourself asking the same question over and over again...
its a new fashion digging black chicks??? i couldnt care less and you shouldnt either unless INDEED you are BI!! why do you care so much if she likes you or not? for fucks sakes, make up your mind, one post you say i might be bi the other you say you arent...and in the end you are here fucking our heads asking about a CHICK...not a GUY with a DICK...a freaking CHICK...sorry my honesty, but...either you are sick..or you are bi and are just so freaking afraid of admitting it or trying it cause you might just like it and realize that the MAN waiting for you in bed, isnt really what you want to have in bed....
prontos falei...porra!
fragm3nt3d_mind
Ok you sound really Angry!! on your last post maybe your tied! , Why it's just a discussion, no l am not offended by your feedback , l actually like a straight forward reply , as long as your not mocking me, or not adult enough to discuss this issue with out being open minded about it. l said maybe l Bi- just to get a reaction!! as l felt frustrated. if you know Cancer,we do this from time to time.
its not a question of knowing l am Bi- or not, how does one know if they are or not. l heard recently women or more fluid with their sexuality than men , and more likely to move between the sexes . l have only started to experience these situations recently , maybe thats a lucky thing , as l also read many women's fantasies involve sleeping with a girl, never me before all this kicked off last year,l have had a lot of attention lately and l don't know why.
So unless anyone of you guys have been involved with a girl ,maybe you cannot understand what l am experiencing . l feel its its an interesting issue, because l never thought in my wildest dreams l would attract girls or consider being involved , so you never know it may happen to you then what.!! you gonna treck back here 2-3 years later asking the same question , at least you can find out your answer now!!.by asking Questions YES!!
She as replied to my email, so it was correct, and fragm3nt3d_mind you have a private post , from me so you now know l do value your option ok. so get back to me. also guys if you explain something in slang !! please explain it, as l don't get half of it ok ,and stop fighting and bitching fragm3nt3d_mind your right Scorpios do flirt Badly too, and l think thats a sexy side l like about them as my boyfriend would do this with my girl friends ,and it use to make me jealous ,as he worked with a lot of catwalk models , but now l realize its the reason or sex life is still as intense and interesting , as he does not stop me from being me.
Thanks Rocs,
Gimme some info and maybe i will help you out...by the way...any lesbian experience you wanna share???? keep me posted!
Does this mean you have experience? or your an expert? fragm3nt3d_mind thats from your early post.
Roxanne were did you get your image its wicked ,love it. and were as elena90 gone , she said she was not scared ! of anyone or to kiss ass, but as soon as she felt l was flirting with her lol!! love it ! she as gone into hiding, l reckon if she comes back and reads this she will be Angry !! because l placed her in the limelight!. its a compliment thou, and she should embrace that ,seriously , her pictures are model standard , should my guy and he took pictures for Hello ,Ok , and Tatler Magazine and he agrees also. so if she wants a agent drop us a line. He He .... l love teasing !! Love to you all .
Come on tell answer the question from her behavior ,was she flirting with me or coming onto me? read the story again guys before your reply.
rocket...have replied to you already...yes indeed, i sometimes get angry...just my nature, that was cause you were contradicting yourself, regarding being open minded or not..well, i admire lesbians and gays that have the gutts to assume they sexuality and yes i have had a lesbian experience before....smile
I knew it!! at least your honest ,and don't hide behind a false persona, to project perfection! thats the kinda person l wanna know.l think l will keep a steady conversation by email and get a better feel for the situation, because ,friendships are normally based on attraction first anyway, and maybe l am jumping the Gun because of a past experience.
fragm3nt3d_mind l dig ya!! keep it real l say.
lol...@ rocketsmile
ok , l gotta admit this girl is beautiful , and l could feel she her flirting with me , but GB for you it must be the same , when you meet a girl and she only as eyes for you .. its like a double take you cannot believe it, so you question you judgement, for sure like frag .. l had a experience , but because according to her l was so good !! she went CRAZY!! on me. .. and being a girl l know how horny we really are , even thou we pretend diffently!! RIGHT!! LOL..!! she shes driving me crazy because now its in my head do l or don't l . sugar. ... Haaaaa....... LOVE IT.
lol rocket...chill...chill...
GB does the girl-on-girl action idea turns you on????
ok Scorpio Girls Feed back ,!! dont get all shy and coy now, its a Cancer your dealing with , so your all trying to figure how to reply with out blowing your cover and secrets Ha Ha .. . well stay away if its to hot a subject. Cancers are hotter than we get Credit for. TRUST ME!! we can have you climbing walls fro sure and Scorpio Knows it . TAKE YOUR TIME MY FELLOW WATER PALS , because us crabs LOVE u all. .. X
you love teasing dont ya rocket?
its the best form of old fashion foreplay!! you folk should try it more often, sends your mind in a spin!!
and as long as all involved know the rules no one gets hurt !!
Roc the House l say!! lol!! ...
ok Know you guys are working and l want you all to have work tomorrow , so catch you later , l just posted back to her . Man this is Crazy!! hope lam right thou. .... its a ego thing .

I hear ya GB...
rocket you're overanalysing this thing to death - to me, sounds like you're interested in G-on-G action so just do it man ! and report back ...we wanna know, ok only GB and Zen Tongue
I've been picked up a few times in clubs by girls but I didn't think anything of it cos I don't swing that way...if I did, then you know...I would analyse it and get the party started !
Ok, I need food...
look you re all Kinky , you don't wanna admit it , but Frag like me we can take on new experiences no problem, its just if you could have been there you would have caught on fire it was a very HOT!! night that day , but not as hot as the flirting. ...
sure l can test the water , but l ain't rushing in, l need to figure what it is l want fun or if l am just GOING THROUGH A CRAZY !!
phase. plus l got a lot to loose . l don't know what she wants either , but Scorpqueen seems to be the only one who as give me a yes or no direct feed back on if she fancies me or not ,
zenalchemy if l do get things moving your not gonna get all the facts on the bedroom activity , thats for sure !! Ha Ha ... ..Lol
mmmmmmmm ,........... dreamy.
careful, mind, she might try to pull you in too.
what do you take me for GB a champion pulling Machine , l am Cancer , we talk a subject to death, your just envying the moment because you want the action ,and you feel left out HA ... Winking your minds running riot l can tell GB. ......
Ok l GB lets call it a day then fun over , no answers no dilemma right!
l will deal with it. in a quiet silence. thanks anyway. .....;-(
bye all . Rocs gives in. dilemma
Rocs gives in
waiting for juice...
OK look .. Cancers are bad enough dragging their feet, but reading up on Scorpio Women last nite, she will sit back and expect me to chase the friendship ,thus placing me in a situation that l am the one desperate for a friendship. she as my email and my number , l told her about this other girl who fANCIED ME !! so l am assuming either 1. she is busy ( Doubt it thou ) 2. she does not want to seem desparate after what l said , so wants to see how keen l am. or 3. she is playing me until l crack!! what ever her reasons l am not showing my hand .
l have sent the picture plus a email to say is everything ok and did l offend her in some way, so now l will wait ,if l hear nothing then l got my head in a tiss for nothing, ,, right!! l do not understand the female Scorpio mind , but she showed me a lot that she wanted to know me , not just flirting but also by physical contact. if there are any BI- OR Gay Scorpios out there ,then give me your Views , other wise the is no more Juice..... sorry ;-(
Rocs awaits !! the Scorpio Curiosity!!.

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