Lack of Attraction For Sex Gods!!!

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by crabRiot on Monday, February 2, 2015 and has 40 replies.
Crab girl here, I'm wondering why is it that I seem to be not attracted to Scorpios for anything other than friendship.They seem to be wildly attracted to me and I do love their qualities but I'm not physically attracted to the sex gods at all.
I'm a Cancer Sun
Taurus Ascendant
Taurus Moon
Leo Venus/Mercury
Capricorn Mars
Pluto in Scorpio in my 7th house.
This kinda bothered me a bit because I really do admire Scorps and Pisces because I appreciate water sign men.
They understand my intense emotions and are not too frightened by it.
Help me work this out!
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I think the concept of being attracted to all scorpios is bit far fetched. I know that I have attracted a couple of scorpios that I wasn't just that into beyond friendship, and some that I absolutely love. I think for me I recognized the variety scorp men come in.
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Posted by deathnirvana
I'll be honest with you. If you're a water sign & you're not sexually attracted to scorpio men then something must be wrong with you. Not with us.
Maybe you should sleep with one & you'll change your mind.
I'm sure.


LMAO I did boo
Hence this post!
Even he was confused that I was not amazed at his sexual prowess as other females were.
I felt bad for him because he wanted to have me eating out his hands lol and it just wasn't happening.
To be fair to him I was still quite emotionally attached to a Piscean I had not long ago broken up with.
I wonder if that was why I felt nothing for him.
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Posted by Lex
I think the concept of being attracted to all scorpios is bit far fetched. I know that I have attracted a couple of scorpios that I wasn't just that into beyond friendship, and some that I absolutely love. I think for me I recognized the variety scorp men come in.


I feel you!
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Posted by Reincarnation
Leo Venus.


Is that bish Leo Venus the problem??
She always making trouble, being a diva and butter.
Imma have to straighten her out(sighs)
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Just because they are kinky doesn't mean that they are good at it. Overrated indeed.
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Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Reincarnation
Leo Venus.


Is that bish Leo Venus the problem??
She always making trouble, being a diva and butter.
Imma have to straighten her out(sighs)


Speak English.
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I thought that was ENGLISH its certainly not french!
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Posted by gemeliorist
Just because they are kinky doesn't mean that they are good at it. Overrated indeed.


AGREED...There was definitely no heat not even a sizzle..I was expecting intensity, skill, sparks and I got NADA(shrugs)
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What's in your 8th house? What sign?
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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
What's in your 8th house? What sign?


No planets there..Its empty!
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Posted by Rabbit
Another sex argument thread on the Scorpio board.
How predictable.


Be the change you wanna see and stop complaining RABBIT!
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Posted by Rabbit
I'd be more than willing to affect the changes that I want.
Unfortunately there are laws against execution-style murders Sad
See this butter...I'm scared a you!
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Posted by Arielle83
I have scorpio In my 8th. What's that related to?

His p-planet in your H/8 means a true/deep connection. Better than H/7 connection which is a paper issue.
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Posted by crabRiot
Posted by AriesIntrovert16
What's in your 8th house? What sign?


No planets there..Its empty!
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Ok, but what sign rules your 8th house?
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Posted by Impulsv
They don't get it u won't get passion from a scorp who feels nothing for u. Up get basic because u havebt stirred their emotions. So if a scorp is having casual sex yeah u can get what described.


See this makes sense, because we were both just friends.He had a girlfriend, I just ended it with mines and wanted to get over the attachment fast so we just went there.TWICE since the first time was a failure but so was the second so I gave up and embarrassed him for wasting my time.So he was left confused cause I wasn't impressed and I was left disappointed cause I wasn't impressed..I even limit interaction with him cause I didn't think he was worth my time after that because everytime I saw him I remembered the awful sex.Yet he begged to see me.I eventually deleted his number but I can't help but wonder you know cause he a fellow water sign like myself.
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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by AriesIntrovert16
What's in your 8th house? What sign?


Libra
No planets there..Its empty!


Ok, but what sign rules your 8th house?
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Posted by Arielle83
I have scorpio In my 8th. What's that related to?


Apparently your 8th house relates to who you're attracted to/attract. So since Scorpio rules your 8th house you would attract Scorpios/Scorpio influenced people.
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@ AriesIntrovert16---LIBRA
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Posted by crabRiot
@ AriesIntrovert16---LIBRA


Try finding a Scorpio with Libra placements.
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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Posted by crabRiot
@ AriesIntrovert16---LIBRA
Ok I will see what happens. I do adore Libra men so polite, cooperative, loving and graceful and the sex is awesome!
Try finding a Scorpio with Libra placements.

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@ AriesIntrovert16 ,I do adore Libra men.So polite, cooperative, loving and graceful and the sex is awesome.
BUT I would choose a Scorpio man any day just for the qualities that they also possess plus the added emotional understanding but I just need to figure out whats up with the sexual attraction part even though you guys are giving some very good tips
Thankyou!!!
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Impulsv and AriesIntrovert16 you guys are making much sense..great advice..Things I wouldn't even think of..That dude in particular I dont really care about he had someone and the sex was bad Im just shocked because I thought that a Cancer/Scorpio combo was suppose to be steamy..But Impulsv you made sense with all that you said and I will test out the whole Scorpio with Libra placements theory.
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Posted by crabRiot
Crab girl here, I'm wondering why is it that I seem to be not attracted to Scorpios for anything other than friendship.They seem to be wildly attracted to me and I do love their qualities but I'm not physically attracted to the sex gods at all.
I'm a Cancer Sun
Taurus Ascendant
Taurus Moon
Leo Venus/Mercury
Capricorn Mars
Pluto in Scorpio in my 7th house.
This kinda bothered me a bit because I really do admire Scorps and Pisces because I appreciate water sign men.
They understand my intense emotions and are not too frightened by it.
Help me work this out!


you're not attracted to scorpios because of your leo venus. Perhaps a fire sign is better for you?
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So, you slept with one Scorp and now we all suck in bed to you? We don't all have sex the same because of our sign. We're all individual people. Maybe that guy just happened to suck at it. Maybe you sucked at it and he stopped trying. Maybe he didn't care about you and was using you for fun so it didn't matter to him. There's a lot of factors that can contribute to bad sex, most unrelated to someone's sign.
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Posted by Shruikan
So, you slept with one Scorp and now we all suck in bed to you? We don't all have sex the same because of our sign. We're all individual people. Maybe that guy just happened to suck at it. Maybe you sucked at it and he stopped trying. Maybe he didn't care about you and was using you for fun so it didn't matter to him. There's a lot of factors that can contribute to bad sex, most unrelated to someone's sign.


Why you the only one taking offense to this butter?
Think about it..
I already make it clear on dxp on another thread that I can't be tore down easily so get a grip FAST.
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@ Noreallynow..Fire signs are a No No for this crab..Give me water and earth sign anyday and watch me soar. No time fire.I dont care how adorable Leo men are..The spotlight won't be shared!
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Posted by deathnirvana
Posted by crabRiot
@ AriesIntrovert16 ,I do adore Libra men.So polite, cooperative, loving and graceful and the sex is awesome.
BUT I would choose a Scorpio man any day just for the qualities that they also possess plus the added emotional understanding but I just need to figure out whats up with the sexual attraction part even though you guys are giving some very good tips
Thankyou!!!


You brought a smile to my face. Haha. Thanks.
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Anytime love!
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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
What's in your 8th house? What sign?


I just realised that my 8th house is SAGGITARUS and not LIBRA as I thought and the 2 planets within that house is Saturn and Uranus.
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Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Shruikan
So, you slept with one Scorp and now we all suck in bed to you? We don't all have sex the same because of our sign. We're all individual people. Maybe that guy just happened to suck at it. Maybe you sucked at it and he stopped trying. Maybe he didn't care about you and was using you for fun so it didn't matter to him. There's a lot of factors that can contribute to bad sex, most unrelated to someone's sign.


Why you the only one taking offense to this butter?
Think about it..
I already make it clear on dxp on another thread that I can't be tore down easily so get a grip FAST.
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I'm not taking offense at all. I'm attempting to understand your reason, which is so far completely flawed. I don't know you, unless I was trying to sleep with you, and I can guarantee you I'm not, I have no reason to be offended. Try again, but think this time.
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Posted by Reincarnation
Leo Venus.


What's wrong with Leo Venus? Stop picking on my kitty!!
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OP, maybe you haven't met many Scorpios, or the right one? Or we could just blame that Taurus moon. So much mud! Winking
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Posted by Shruikan
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Shruikan
So, you slept with one Scorp and now we all suck in bed to you? We don't all have sex the same because of our sign. We're all individual people. Maybe that guy just happened to suck at it. Maybe you sucked at it and he stopped trying. Maybe he didn't care about you and was using you for fun so it didn't matter to him. There's a lot of factors that can contribute to bad sex, most unrelated to someone's sign.


Why you the only one taking offense to this butter?
Think about it..
I already make it clear on dxp on another thread that I can't be tore down easily so get a grip FAST.


I'm not taking offense at all. I'm attempting to understand your reason, which is so far completely flawed. I don't know you, unless I was trying to sleep with you, and I can guarantee you I'm not, I have no reason to be offended. Try again, but think this time.
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Ok Shruikan I hear ya but just know this---that dude could never use me no matter how hard he may try.
I'm not a idiot and I never had any romantic feelings for him to begin with(he was suppose to be a distraction for me to get over my ex)He never got bored I did because yhe sex was bad.I limit contact after that, then I disappeared for good! Read what I wrote to the other posters before you make foolish assumptions.
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Posted by Rambunctious76
Posted by crabRiot
@ Noreallynow..Fire signs are a No No for this crab..Give me water and earth sign anyday and watch me soar. No time fire.I dont care how adorable Leo men are..The spotlight won't be shared!


Um..there are other fire signs besides Leo?
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Yea but a Lion is the most dateable for me..Sagg men don't know anything about commitment so they're definitely out and Aries men are too damn wild and I love devotion from my men because I am devoted.
SO NO FIRE!
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Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Shruikan
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Shruikan
So, you slept with one Scorp and now we all suck in bed to you? We don't all have sex the same because of our sign. We're all individual people. Maybe that guy just happened to suck at it. Maybe you sucked at it and he stopped trying. Maybe he didn't care about you and was using you for fun so it didn't matter to him. There's a lot of factors that can contribute to bad sex, most unrelated to someone's sign.


Why you the only one taking offense to this butter?
Think about it..
I already make it clear on dxp on another thread that I can't be tore down easily so get a grip FAST.


I'm not taking offense at all. I'm attempting to understand your reason, which is so far completely flawed. I don't know you, unless I was trying to sleep with you, and I can guarantee you I'm not, I have no reason to be offended. Try again, but think this time.


Ok Shruikan I hear ya but just know this---that dude could never use me no matter how hard he may try.
I'm not a idiot and I never had any romantic feelings for him to begin with(he was suppose to be a distraction for me to get over my ex)He never got bored I did because yhe sex was bad.I limit contact after that, then I disappeared for good! Read what I wrote to the other posters before you make foolish assumptions.
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First of all it would not be an assumption I'm making, it would be surmising. And again, you're saying you had sex with one guy who was Scorpio that you didn't even like and you're surprised the sex was bad. Maybe it's not his sign. Maybe it's because you didn't like him. This is fairly simple, I'm not sure how you could not get this.
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Posted by Shruikan
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Shruikan
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Shruikan
So, you slept with one Scorp and now we all suck in bed to you? We don't all have sex the same because of our sign. We're all individual people. Maybe that guy just happened to suck at it. Maybe you sucked at it and he stopped trying. Maybe he didn't care about you and was using you for fun so it didn't matter to him. There's a lot of factors that can contribute to bad sex, most unrelated to someone's sign.


Why you the only one taking offense to this butter?
Think about it..
I already make it clear on dxp on another thread that I can't be tore down easily so get a grip FAST.


I'm not taking offense at all. I'm attempting to understand your reason, which is so far completely flawed. I don't know you, unless I was trying to sleep with you, and I can guarantee you I'm not, I have no reason to be offended. Try again, but think this time.


Ok Shruikan I hear ya but just know this---that dude could never use me no matter how hard he may try.
I'm not a idiot and I never had any romantic feelings for him to begin with(he was suppose to be a distraction for me to get over my ex)He never got bored I did because yhe sex was bad.I limit contact after that, then I disappeared for good! Read what I wrote to the other posters before you make foolish assumptions.


First of all it would not be an assumption I'm making, it would be surmising. And again, you're saying you had sex with one guy who was Scorpio that you didn't even like and you're surprised the sex was bad. Maybe it's not his sign. Maybe it's because you didn't like him. This is fairly simple, I'm not sure how you could not get this.
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lol the irony of the thread.Laughing dxp lol.Laughing
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Ok Shruikan I got it now..maybe it was because I didn't like him like that or even cared for his feelings to be honest.
My bad to cause a STIR...lol
My Leo Venus is showing Lmao
Thanks for your advice by the way, it was indeed very helpful.
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Ok Shruikan I got it now..maybe it was because I didn't like him like that or even cared for his feelings to be honest.
My bad to cause a STIR...lol
My Leo Mercury/Venus is showing Lmao
Thanks for your advice by the way, it was indeed very helpful.
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Posted by crabRiot
Ok Shruikan I got it now..maybe it was because I didn't like him like that or even cared for his feelings to be honest.
My bad to cause a STIR...lol
My Leo Mercury/Venus is showing Lmao
Thanks for your advice by the way, it was indeed very helpful.


Good. In my experience, when real feelings are involved sex is amazing. Sex with no feeling behind is drab and boring regardless of what sign the other person is. Of course this is just my experience.
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You are right! Thanks for your time and understanding. I appreciate it fully!
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Posted by Shruikan
Posted by crabRiot
Ok Shruikan I got it now..maybe it was because I didn't like him like that or even cared for his feelings to be honest.
My bad to cause a STIR...lol
My Leo Mercury/Venus is showing Lmao
Thanks for your advice by the way, it was indeed very helpful.


Good. In my experience, when real feelings are involved sex is amazing. Sex with no feeling behind is drab and boring regardless of what sign the other person is. Of course this is just my experience.
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I agree.
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