Left by my cancer lady of almost 6 years

I'm having a lot of trouble of letting go of my cancer lady who has left me. I Am very confused as to why she left me as she says it's nothing to do with me and it's just how she feels. We have been in love since we first met. We have both taught eachother so much ive managed to open up to her all the way and it seems like when times were a bit hard for me she just packed up and left. I still love her but I want to move on with my life but I don't think I could or would ever forget about our relationship. We had it all going for us so I don't get how things changed so quickly. Any thoughts on this or is this a habit of cancer?

If she's Cancer dominant, she's dominated by her emotions.

Possibilities:

1) You did something to upset her. Doesn't sound likely, but your post is very brief - especially for the apparent implosion of a Six Year Relationship so who knows.

2) She ain't into you anymore. Sometimes, it's just this simple.

Maybe she was never truly invested and has decided enough was enough.

No matter what though, you need to remember to keep it moving. Don't stop doing what matters, and keep yourself envisioning a life without them and how much you, yourself can keep improving. You'll be fine dude.

Posted by MrW
I'm having a lot of trouble of letting go of my cancer lady who has left me. I Am very confused as to why she left me as she says it's nothing to do with me and it's just how she feels. We have been in love since we first met. We have both taught eachother so much ive managed to open up to her all the way and it seems like when times were a bit hard for me she just packed up and left. I still love her but I want to move on with my life but I don't think I could or would ever forget about our relationship. We had it all going for us so I don't get how things changed so quickly. Any thoughts on this or is this a habit of cancer?

Sounds quite tragic and not very Cancer like...but as the previous post mentions it's slightly vague and I think we all sit on the same rock of confusion. There was likely more underlying details with you guys that have not been mentioned. With so much invested time it's ok to not be ready to move on right away grieve a little!

Thats fvkd up, l don't believe in the encouraging approach, only in realism, what are you supposed to do? You believe, and for good reason, that women are unreliable and could pack up at any minute...why bother doing anything?

But l guess, based on my experience, it makes you stronger and you donlt care as much, and women pick up on that and they find it very attractive...

Posted by bricklemark
Thats fvkd up, l don't believe in the encouraging approach, only in realism, what are you supposed to do? You believe, and for good reason, that women are unreliable and could pack up at any minute...why bother doing anything?

But l guess, based on my experience, it makes you stronger and you donlt care as much, and women pick up on that and they find it very attractive...

They always go for the fuckboi or Mr Unavailable

Posted by MrW

I'm having a lot of trouble of letting go of my cancer lady who has left me. I Am very confused as to why she left me as she says it's nothing to do with me and it's just how she feels. We have been in love since we first met. We have both taught eachother so much ive managed to open up to her all the way and it seems like when times were a bit hard for me she just packed up and left. I still love her but I want to move on with my life but I don't think I could or would ever forget about our relationship. We had it all going for us so I don't get how things changed so quickly. Any thoughts on this or is this a habit of cancer?

She must have gotten back to you by now.