Leo Needs Scorpios Advice
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by balsley on Thursday, July 27, 2006 and has 16 replies.
Scorpio and I have been very good friends for several years. Lately we're having a lot of trouble communicating and it seems that whenever we try to sort things out it makes things worse instead of better.
Any suggestions? Kind of a long story but will share details.Thanks for your help
Any suggestions? Kind of a long story but will share details.Thanks for your help
balsley, eh?
maybe you should post on the Leo board too...I know there are some other Leos who are currently involved with Scorpios and they might be able to help you. just a suggestionnnn.
maybe you should post on the Leo board too...I know there are some other Leos who are currently involved with Scorpios and they might be able to help you. just a suggestionnnn.
Thanks. I'll try that. Any ideas or suggestions from you?
I'm definitely not an expert...all I can say is that the difficulty you are having communicating may boil down to the simple fact that Leo and Scorpio are generally considered incompatible signs, however, if you've been friends for several years, that really makes no sense does it? 
In any case, don't push too hard...it's obviously your first inclination to try to mend the relationship, but if it's healthy, it shouldn't require tedious amounts of work, do you know what I mean? In the closest relationships, people can grow apart...it's just a part of life. So don't try too hard...just accept it for what it is. It could be that you guys are just on different wavelengths right now, different experiences, whatever. If you give it some time, things may get easier.
In any case, don't push too hard...it's obviously your first inclination to try to mend the relationship, but if it's healthy, it shouldn't require tedious amounts of work, do you know what I mean? In the closest relationships, people can grow apart...it's just a part of life. So don't try too hard...just accept it for what it is. It could be that you guys are just on different wavelengths right now, different experiences, whatever. If you give it some time, things may get easier.
Thanks. I think you're right about being in different places right now and no, good relationships take work but shouldn't be that difficult. Thanks for your perspective.
nooo problem
I'm sure some Scorpios would have some more helpful input but they seem to be incapable of posting...I am skeptical..maybe they're lurking *suspicious*
maybe?..LOL
Why are they so secretive? Any ideas on this one or any experience?
i could only say we scorpio r very intensely loyal friend, one deterrmind, never give up.
as a leo maybe u not have to be too passionate and like ' ok sth need to be fixed so i come!
just be an old friend, and nature will take care of it
as a leo maybe u not have to be too passionate and like ' ok sth need to be fixed so i come!
just be an old friend, and nature will take care of it
Thanks aqua. Time does tend to take care of many things. And don't get me wrong. Relationships with Scorpios are fantastic. I suppose that's why it matters so much to me.
basley
I have been friends with a a Leo girl for over 15 years and about 3 years ago, I seperated myself from her, for reasons or she bores me in just about in every thing we do. I do talk to her on the IM but that is as far as it goes, she has told me she misses me but to be honesty I don't want to see her. I need some space, as a matter of fact, I am distance from all my friends.
I also distanced myself from my Aries girlfriend, stretches the truth to much for me. (7) yrs.
I have no conversation for my Libra Girlfriend we are in two different worlds (10 yrs)
I have nothing against them, I just don't want to see them all the time nor do I want to talk to them all the time. I like my space
I hope this can be helpful
I have been friends with a a Leo girl for over 15 years and about 3 years ago, I seperated myself from her, for reasons or she bores me in just about in every thing we do. I do talk to her on the IM but that is as far as it goes, she has told me she misses me but to be honesty I don't want to see her. I need some space, as a matter of fact, I am distance from all my friends.
I also distanced myself from my Aries girlfriend, stretches the truth to much for me. (7) yrs.
I have no conversation for my Libra Girlfriend we are in two different worlds (10 yrs)
I have nothing against them, I just don't want to see them all the time nor do I want to talk to them all the time. I like my space
I hope this can be helpful
Thank you scorpion lady. Have you ever met someone that you felt you didn't need so much space from? Just curious, don't mean to pry.
I appreciate your response and honesty. We do give each other space at times and other times we are inseparable. Just depends.
I appreciate your response and honesty. We do give each other space at times and other times we are inseparable. Just depends.
Well from the sounds of it from all your posts I'd say communication is the key element that you'll need to use.Make sure she knows exactly what you were thinking and why you were upset with her and go from there with how you feel now about wanting to work past this "on the rocks" stage.Some of us aren't that bad and will admit fault or understand where you may have felt this or that way.It depends on her maturity level after that
My best friend of six years is a leo. We have had a falling out a couple of times. One time even lasted almost a year. Sometimes we are really close, and then sometimes I dont speak to her for days or weeks.
Scorpio secrecy huh? We dont like to be vulnerable. Plus, if we hold information close to us, and we get information from you, then we have all the cards right?
Sometimes its not so complicated. Scorpio's dont necessarily like to bend too much and neither to Leo's. Someone is going to have to back down.
Scorpio secrecy huh? We dont like to be vulnerable. Plus, if we hold information close to us, and we get information from you, then we have all the cards right?
Sometimes its not so complicated. Scorpio's dont necessarily like to bend too much and neither to Leo's. Someone is going to have to back down.
I hadn't thought about it from that perspective. Good point. I'll certainly keep that in mind when I talk to her. Thanks.
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