Libra guy is annoyingly polite....

Here is what is annoying me. We ended things. About a month ago. I have posted on this before. Well, now, I am trying to be nice to him at work. I text him once in awhile, sometimes I go days without really talking to him or what not. Im trying to show that nothing is bothering me about this situation. Im trying to show him that I want to be friends and its safe to come around me. It bothers me that he doesnt treat me the way he used to. He is being annoyingly polite to me. I want to just say "Hey, should I even be trying to be friends with you? Do you even want to try and stay or be friends again? Am I wasting my time and energy? I miss you and want your friendship back, but it seems as if you are politely putting me off."

Would that be too much for a libra guy? I mean, I guess you could say that if he wanted to be friends or try and salvage anything or have a conversation, I feel he could certainly make the effort. So in some ways, he must want things to be like this. I just want to ask him what makes him dislike me so much. Why cant he forgive and forget and move on? I mean, before it was all....I still want to be hang out with you and be with you and be your friend and this that and the other. Now he is elusive and polite and I have no idea what he is thinking.

Advice?

Maybe the break up hurt him alot, and he doesn't know if he can be your friend so soon again?... Maybe this is how he is dealing with it..It's alot better then him being a prick you know? I would say give him sometime ... but then again i'm not a libra, just trying to help?