Ew taurus. That email was probably too much, as well as the calling. Taurus are so full of themselves and they don't like to be have needy people around them. Not saying you're needy, but to a taurus that kinda is. Obviously the signs were there that he just wasn't feelin' ya. I would have cut my losses a long time ago and maybe it would have saved the relationship. Move on
I have already began the whole moving on process [seeing a new guy]. I just find it hard to let go sometimes, it's like i have this weird fixation with getting closure...but not to the extent where it consumes my whole life. An apology would be nice..but Life is still gonna go on regardless of if I get one 🙂
I really don't think you should count on an apology or some kind of awesome moment of closure (especially from a Taurus). Adult life can have moments of disappointment AND we always always move on and make our own closure (usually when it doesn't involve love). When it comes to relationships we wish we had closure, we only screw ourselves in the head by holding out for an apology or immediate closure. Know that in the best way and most acceptable way where you feel you can move on, that moment will come, but not because you want it now, and not because you stay in contact with this person. I know you want to think this is a negative situation that you are facing but it really isn't. You can let go of the situation, move on, and not think about it at all, and just let life go back to normal. Believe in the fact that you will look back later on and not feel this way and get that satisfaction about this situation from deciding not to dwell on it.
All my stubborn Taurus exes never ever apologized for anything, closure with one came 7 or so years later and I ran into her on the street, felt like hell opened up and spawned her in my path and as I stood there stunned, the very first thing she said out of her mouth was OMG I AM SO SORRY. Did I expect that from her, HELL NO. She was selfish, treated me horrible, ruined so much of my life at the time and I literally had to delete so many numbers and contacts in my life so I could be away from her completely and not dwell on that mess.
I am not knocking the behavior of the Taurus: stubborn, doesn't feel the need to apology quicky.
I strongly believe starting this year after so many times where my foolish heart has done me worse off, to be a stronger, better fool in love, where I do try my hardest to MOVE ON and not put my life on hold to wait for a phone call that won't come my way, or a response to my "I still love you".
I know you rock it well, and sorry for rambling again in my post, but seriously, those with romance in their heart, let's all be better at coping with exes.
On a side note, I think it is admirable to try to make nice with an ex at least for a little little while. Showing your best in the face of disappointing behavior in someone, not only gives you a chance to get things off your chest, but also makes you better off when people look back at what happened.
@heroic guy, don't apologise for rambling- your rambling has substance & has had a very significant influence on my current thoughts about that taurus era of my life..I kinda feel enlightened lol. Everything you said makes alot of sense. &Thank you soo much, everyone that contributed to this post 🙂
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