Looking for some advice on compatibility

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Thanks guys! For whatever strange reason I never meet Taurus guys, so no experience with them. I seem to attract and be attracted to those who I should stay as far away as possible from - Sags and Virgos 😢
Oh... Virgo should have been fine 😢

Have you tried water signs? Or Leo's?
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I do get along with Pisces and cancers really well, almost all of my close friends are water signs. Don't think I've ever had any kind of sexual energy with Pisces though (they are too nice and all I wanna do is hug them), cancers are awesome but my affairs with them didn't last long. Leo's are a rare occursnce in my social environment... If I'm around a group of people and catch someone's eye, chances are it's a Sag (or an Aries if I'm really lucky)... Then I can't resist it and it goes downhill from there haha
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WOW!!!

are your Scorpio placements in the first house or the 12th?

that's just curiosity. do you have other air in your chart?

I'm dominant water (Scorpio specifically), and air. I tend to like air signs myself 😄

dominant first houser with an Aries descendant, so I have some Aries qualities to my personality. if you are a dominant first houser you may be the same. I have a Libra ascendant though, so I have that going for me too. makes me very....Aries/Libra. however I have SCORPIO sun/Merc/Venus/Pluto. lucky for me the Venus is 0 degrees so it's conjunct my libra Jupiter and ascendant (and Merc).

if your Venus is conjunct your ascendant (late Libra) you would have some Libran traits as well 😄

don't worry. someone will love our intensity someday!

what signs do you usually attract? and what degree of Scorpio is your ascendant? Gemini may land in your 7th house too, which would make a Gemini also a viable partner....but that depends on the rest of your chart too. Some Gemini are watery with cancer placements. some Taurus placements too.
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WOW!!!

are your Scorpio placements in the first house or the 12th?

that's just curiosity. do you have other air in your chart?

I'm dominant water (Scorpio specifically), and air. I tend to like air signs myself 😄

dominant first houser with an Aries descendant, so I have some Aries qualities to my personality. if you are a dominant first houser you may be the same. I have a Libra ascendant though, so I have that going for me too. makes me very....Aries/Libra. however I have SCORPIO sun/Merc/Venus/Pluto. lucky for me the Venus is 0 degrees so it's conjunct my libra Jupiter and ascendant (and Merc).

if your Venus is conjunct your ascendant (late Libra) you would have some Libran traits as well 😄

don't worry. someone will love our intensity someday!

what signs do you usually attract? and what degree of Scorpio is your ascendant? Gemini may land in your 7th house too, which would make a Gemini also a viable partner....but that depends on the rest of your chart too. Some Gemini are watery with cancer placements. some Taurus placements too.
Sun and Mars are in the 12th, Mercury and Pluto (Pluto is also in Scorpio in my chart) are in the 1st. How good/bad is it?
i just double-checked and it turned out my Venus is actually in Virgo, oops (sneaky libra haha). My only air is Saturn (Aquarius).

I have a lot of history with Sags (both romantic and platonic), but got burned really bad by my last ex (Sag sun, Capricorn asc) so I'm staying away from them from now on. It seems like every other person in my social network is either a sag or dating one, ugh. I do find Aries attractive, but don't meet them that often. Other than that, I don't really have a pattern.
My ascendant is Scorpio 2°26' - could you please tell me what it means?
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I'm a woman with Scorpio Sun, Scorpio Rising, Leo Moon (plus Scorpio Mercury, Scorpio Mars, and Virgo Venus). It seems basically impossible for me to find a partner who can handle me and who I can get well along with. Who is a potentially good match for someone with so much Scorpio in them (like in my case)? Any insight would be very appreciated!
And what about other Scorps?
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I have a few good Scorp friends and buddies, we really get each other, but I am not sexually attracted to them.
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I'm a woman with Scorpio Sun, Scorpio Rising, Leo Moon (plus Scorpio Mercury, Scorpio Mars, and Virgo Venus). It seems basically impossible for me to find a partner who can handle me and who I can get well along with. Who is a potentially good match for someone with so much Scorpio in them (like in my case)? Any insight would be very appreciated!
And what about other Scorps?
I have a few good Scorp friends and buddies, we really get each other, but I am not sexually attracted to them.
How come———?? 😉
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My thoughts exactly haha! Dunno, I'm very difficult when it comes to physical attraction (thanks, Venus in Virgo) - as in, I'm very picky but not by choice. It's almost like falling at love at first sight every time, except that it's just mad sexual tension (and that's half of love for me, thanks Mars in Scorpio hahaha)
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I agree with the Capricorn statement above.

which btw sorry I didn't reply. I don't remember seeing this notification.

your 7th house is mostly Taurus then. with a little Gemini maybe at the end, so a Taurus placement would be good for you. maybe someone with a Taurus moon or Venus.

Where is your Juno? it is an asteroid. and what house is it in? that also represents your "ideal" marriage partner. and if there are any aspects to it list those too. Trine, square, sextile, opposition. my Juno is a mess (lol).

7th house is the house of relationships, and 4th is family/home, while 5th is children and sex (if I'm remembering correctly). people with those signs for you would be beneficial. maybe even some Gemini placements from your 8th house.

a good example based on my experience is...I normally like and date Aquarians... aquarius is my 4th house. I usually feel really at home with them. very true for me. my father is an Aquarius. I also like Gemini very well. that's my 8th house. my 7th house cusp is Aries but Taurus fills most of my 7th house. so I like Aries qualities but Aries never end up falling in my 7th 😢

my 5th house is Pisces. I love Pisces in friendship. never dated one and probably never will, but I love Pisces placements elsewhere especially on women. I prefer fiery or airy men. probably because of my descendant being in Aries. my major points are all air/fire.

your descendant is Taurus so you'd be looking for a partner more like Taurus. they don't have to BE a Taurus, but they could have Taurus placements as I mentioned before. I'd also look at Juno too. Juno is a very interesting asteroid. I love Juno and studied it quite a bit.
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I'm a woman with Scorpio Sun, Scorpio Rising, Leo Moon (plus Scorpio Mercury, Scorpio Mars, and Virgo Venus). It seems basically impossible for me to find a partner who can handle me and who I can get well along with. Who is a potentially good match for someone with so much Scorpio in them (like in my case)? Any insight would be very appreciated!
Whatever you do, do NOT date a handsome Pisces man.

You just might get spoiled so rotten that you realize how much of a waste of time the other 11 signs of the Zodiac truly are.
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I'm a woman with Scorpio Sun, Scorpio Rising, Leo Moon (plus Scorpio Mercury, Scorpio Mars, and Virgo Venus). It seems basically impossible for me to find a partner who can handle me and who I can get well along with. Who is a potentially good match for someone with so much Scorpio in them (like in my case)? Any insight would be very appreciated!
Whatever you do, do NOT date a handsome Pisces man.

You just might get spoiled so rotten that you realise how much of a waste of time the other 11 signs of the Zodiac truly are.
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Haha! Pisces are such sweethearts.
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I agree with the Capricorn statement above.

which btw sorry I didn't reply. I don't remember seeing this notification.

your 7th house is mostly Taurus then. with a little Gemini maybe at the end, so a Taurus placement would be good for you. maybe someone with a Taurus moon or Venus.

Where is your Juno? it is an asteroid. and what house is it in? that also represents your "ideal" marriage partner. and if there are any aspects to it list those too. Trine, square, sextile, opposition. my Juno is a mess (lol).

7th house is the house of relationships, and 4th is family/home, while 5th is children and sex (if I'm remembering correctly). people with those signs for you would be beneficial. maybe even some Gemini placements from your 8th house.

a good example based on my experience is...I normally like and date Aquarians... aquarius is my 4th house. I usually feel really at home with them. very true for me. my father is an Aquarius. I also like Gemini very well. that's my 8th house. my 7th house cusp is Aries but Taurus fills most of my 7th house. so I like Aries qualities but Aries never end up falling in my 7th 😢

my 5th house is Pisces. I love Pisces in friendship. never dated one and probably never will, but I love Pisces placements elsewhere especially on women. I prefer fiery or airy men. probably because of my descendant being in Aries. my major points are all air/fire.

your descendant is Taurus so you'd be looking for a partner more like Taurus. they don't have to BE a Taurus, but they could have Taurus placements as I mentioned before. I'd also look at Juno too. Juno is a very interesting asteroid. I love Juno and studied it quite a bit.
Correct, my 7th house is Taurus (2°46')!
Never looked into Juno before, this is interesting! Mine is in Capricorn (23°42') in the 3rd house. Aspects: Juno sextile Pluto, Juno trine Venus (if I'm interpreting my chart correctly, I'm still a noob 🙂 I don't have that much experience with Capricorns, but my dad is one and if his personal traits are anything to go by, I would say it's a pretty good match.

I like what you said about Pisces! my 5th house is also there, and I really appreciate Pisces around me (my mom is one, as well as a couple of very good friends), they are lovely. But Im not sure if I'd date one.
I certainly have a thing for fire signs, I spot them out immediately and am drawn to them. My only fire placements are Moon and MC (both Leo) tho, so maybe that's the reason it never works out haha. Gotta find myself someone Taurus-y
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Post your natal chart, redoctober
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. Your moon is receiving too many square energies and in a relationship with a Scorpio or a Taurus, it will get hit badly. And there could be a need to speak tour mind and it could lead to altercation. There are few signs that I would say would be hard for you and harder still for them.
Scorpio,Taurus,Leo will be difficult and anyone with their Pluto falling in your 12th Sun &Mars conjunction could lead to lots of angry power struggles.
For you a Virgo a Pisces or a Cancer should work. Or even a late Gemini. But a Sag with anything directly on your Sun&Mars(these are masculine planets albeit hidden,there will be angry moments triggered by the square from your moon) may not be longterm.
Another thing, date someone of your age to avoid their Pluto touching your Sun and Mars. I know, it has its oohh lalala moments but there could also be intense anger issues.
Few trines to your Sun instead of a direct conjunction, will ensure there are lesser tensed energy.
I won't pick Taurus, early Gemini and Aries, just to avoid oppositions and inconjunct energy.
My top pick for you? A Pisces with their Asc or Desc on your Sun and Mars and Virgo Mars on your Venus and Moon in Cancer.
Or you can interchange these placements. Even a double Virgo or a Pisces should work great.
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Thank you, very informative! Looking forward to your blog!