Losing Love

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ScorpioSkulls
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12 YearsScorpio

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A few months ago i met someone and like everything usually does, it started out slowly. Within 3 weeks we were in the back of her car. the feelings ive gained since then have surpassed any for any other girl ive been with, but recently she has been falling away from me. Its a different kind of hurt, we love eachother to pieces one day, and were arguing the next day, but no matter how much we fight i cant stop thinking about her. she refuses to see me, and she ignores me when i text her now, and i dont know what to do. The last night she was at my place she woke me up when she went to the bathroom at around 4am, and when i decided to be nosey, she had been laying in bed with me after telling me she loved me while she was sexting with 2 other guys, one of which was coming back into town this morning, and the other guy she had slept with before she started sleeping with me. I feel depressed, and i realize i have to move on, but i cant stop thinking about her, i spend my days in my room just thinking about everything that i love about her. Anyone able to give me any advice?
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Congratulations - you have just met your first SIREN...the evil, soul-less, attention-seeking creatures of myth who from the fog beckon to sailors "Love me, Love me" and have them crash their ships upon the rocks, trapping them on their Island, where the Sirens then can eat their brains ( drive them mad ).

As hard as it is ... ignore her. She will probably eventually come back to you once you ignore her.
If she does not, you are very very lucky.

As much as it hurts ... many of us have been there ... go out and ignore her. Otherwise, you will end up in jail ( ever wonder why so many guys are in jail for domestic abuse? - exactly this behaviour - SERIOUSLY ... who tells you that they just had sex with another guy? She wants a reaction- an angry one --- so she can tell all her friends how psycho you are. )

She has a mental disorder - you can't fix it - save YOURSELF.