LOST IN THE UNDERWORLD

HI-LOW!! VE, and it's kinda dark in here, but definetly likable to the nth degree!! Hey um, scorp ladies question; when a Virguy show his emotions, and expresses himself to you, after you plead with him for keeping his distance/reserve do you get all retalitory, and defensive with him? I hear you guys have alot of fire in your gut, and I KNOW IT....but when push comes to shove, can you guys handle some heat from another fire?

oh, yea, gents are invited too!! lol sorry guys.

oooook....still lost....it's pretty dark.....all I gotz a bag of chips....crumbs are pretty filling....help any denizens of the dark city...help...lol C'MON GUYZ!! I'M FREAKIN' LOST IN HE~A!! lol ;>

😉 *I'm gonna play with my board anyway that I want to...that's what I want yea, that's what I like yea~h* 😉 this boards pretty boring with no patties~er, playerz...hahahha...(damn, someones on to my ass now....! Great VE, now you're in hot/cold water now...)

C'mon in guyz!! I don't bite I swear!! Well not over the computer anyway....!! lol 😉

As a Scorpio/Sag cusp, here's what I would do. If I didn't have the same feelings for you, I would ignore you. If you kept bothering me, I would get PO'd and then probably tell you to get out of my face!!! Don't know that it would be just specifically Virgos, I would be that way with any sign.
And I don't know how the 'true' Scorpios would handle this, this is just me.

lol...you seem 'true' enough to me candlz...now the 'hazing' can begin...muwhahahah!! lol god; yeah I understand that right off da bat!!....Any asshole who can't take a kind, subtle hint at first is JUST BETTER OFF GETTEING THEIR FEELINGS SMASHED IN TO NOTHING!! LOL!!

You gotta undetstand though candlz; there's definitely something that happens to a person when a Virgo/Scorpio ignores them!! They just can't help being so damned interested!! I usually start fights with my Scorp friend when he ignores me, and likewise!! Funny thing is, we never go on as if after we fight we hate each other; he's a pretty good friend, and 1 year older than I; but one of my best friends

I am probably the most reserved person at my school, and EVERYONE WANTS TO TALK/FIND ME OUT....sheesh; I just look them dead in the eyes, and laugh my ass off....but hell, they're interested so, I may devulge a little info on myself...lol yeah, people start the oddest of conversations with me to get me to open up; one dude asked me if I work out/on a diet...I like to talk with my eyes as they really 'speak' to people; hell, through people!! I closed my eyes and laughed; he scratched his head, and laughed to; I said no, I just take care of myself; I mean, would I be on a diet if I was in the snack line? (I know, childish right?! 😉 lol).

I refuse to be seen as a creature that lives in the underworld, lol
I'm a "true" fresh scorpio, but we're nice people, just highly misunderstood, apparently (grrr)
I don't lash out easily, and can absorb a lot of hurt and anger. That doesn't mean it doesn't affect me though. I have so much water, I can drown the heat from another fire, no problem 🙂
IF MY FEELINGS AREN'T THE SAME: If someone doesn't get the hint after a while, I will then tell them, if they are being overly persistent, and overbearing.

"Any marker who can't take a kind, subtle hint at first is JUST BETTER OFF GETTEING THEIR FEELINGS SMASHED IN TO NOTHING!! LOL!!"
I don't think anybody deserves to get their feelings smashed in, I would truly wish that on nobody

oops! haha, I mean, I would never truly wish that on nobody

keyword missing: never

AHH, no wait, the first one was right. This i what I mean:

I would never truly wish that on anybody

LOL

LOL!! hey natgirl, Yea, I guess I have a way of 'shoot first ask stoopidly long and boring questions latter' I tend to try to see the past, and the future, but miss the bits and parts in the middle; Also, there's nothing wrong about living in the underworld, it does get hot down there na mean?! lol 😉 I usually do take alot and seethe slowly, than kwel it down, but then when I hit critical mass; the universe hangs in the balance....lol

I mean I don't like to hurt people; they try to hurt me! IT'S TRUE I SWEAR!! 😉

Depends on the scorp if they can take it or no.Some don't and theres a possibility that some will listen without taking it personally,astrologically speaking a scorp probably won't take it but reality wise,sure some may be mature enough.Right now,I'd say she wouldn't care cause scorps(Since shes bugging you to open up) can be very nosey about negative stuff also.She probably wants to see how you work mentally or whatever😉

Scorp-in-law, what I mean to ask is when you guys (scorps) get to your breaking point with Virgos, (as far as the courtship process goes) do you withdraw, and distance yourself from him, or do you appreciate the gesture, and want to continue the courtship?.....If I express romantic intrest, I admit, I can seem 'windy' at first, becuase I am just playful with the idea of romance, at first, NOT YOUR FEELINGS; because I have a tendacy to think so deeply, so fast about love that I scare myself into, well vacillation, or I will just play around/flirt with u playfully until I have an idea about your feelings for me, but I am upfront if nothing else.....but when I've convicted/resolved with in myself that you are sincere and ABOVE ALL GENUWINE (I can't spell worth a damn...😉) and your affections are directed at me out of true intrest, I will enjoy you to the full; I don't like to play games ESPECIALLY IN MATTERS OF THE HEART; I don't suffer fools gladly, and I enjoy good conversation, and laughs, but above all else a worthy lover whom HOLDS NOTHING BACK IN THE LOVE DEPARTMENT; words don't always convey sincerity and feeling, so I must have to 'feel' you in a sense....scorps should know just what I mean.

I can be pretty idealistic in love, and rather dramatic; I have this private dream of me and the girl I'm searching for....🙂

Scorp-in-law. You have got to be one of the most articulatly accurate persons I have ever encountered. I truly enjoy reading your comments. You just described a Virgo/Scorp relationship I had for about 3 years. It was both exhilerating and exhausting for me. He sometimes talked too much and would go way over the top just to p_ss me off. This was deliberately done and with my emotinal nature, it would take me days to get over one of his rants. He asked me to marry him and I almost did, but we had too many differences that could not be resolved. He talked too much and did not have the sexual stamina that was needed.

All I can say is OOOOOOOOOOOOOOH! You both have described my (scorpio) experience with virgo to a "T." At first Virgo scared me with her excitment "Windiness." At first it appeared somewhat as aggressive behavior that I wasn't sure she could control and I don't mean that in an egotistical sense. She expressed her interest in a clear straight forward sort of way, and it captured my full attention, but I didn't want her to know it. It took my breath away actually, and I found my self running from the feelings I began to experience. I'm sorry I tempered the interchange between us. I would have loved to be the recipient of her affections. Oh and her voice, she could be talking about the price of gasoline and I would just feel all warm all over. It hurts to see something that is perfect in so many ways and not be able to experience it exclusively.

I was just about to say the same thing about Scorp-in-law...i really enjoy reading your comments as well, and value your helpful insights.

Scorp-in-law,

Have had no contact in over a month, (which feels like a year). She belongs to another.

I see S-I-L; this seems very insight considering my own behavior patterns; in terms of that, I seem more scorpion; I don't divulge too much info to fast, but can If I feel that this is going nowhere fast; I'm not afraid to take the first step as I understand the caution, that we share, and the degree of discreetness we both can contain; I don't like to admitt or show all the feelings I'm feeling; It's like I process the feelings while I feel them; I don't really get too cryptic, as I'd prefer simple straight-forward talk; too much effort in decoding!! lol I can be 'windy' as well, as far as 'coming out of the blue' on ya and most of my nature can be capriousous, and instant....yet I am cautious in my dealings with people because I don't want to go getting my heart tap-danced on....I judge, discern, weigh, evaluate, and FEEL my way through untill I have analyzed that this relationship will pay off for us both. Did I actually say anything? 🙂

hope soooooo!......😉

soorry, guess I wouldn't be of any help to a fledgling...lol 😉

(ponders the future of the youth misguided by VE's own snobbery)

but in a better light of course, if I am attracted to a person, I can't help, but to get you to come out of your shell...I understand the mutual intrests in us, but have the staying power to crack the proverbial shell between us....that is, if you are interested in the long-haul too....

Scorp-in-law,

How did your virgo behave when they realized they fell for you? Or maybe a better question; how did they behave when you realized they fell for you?

Sweet Pea

Scorp-in-law,

Funny, it appears that your virgo still has quite an effect on you. What threw me off was that my virgo friend would constantly compliment me. So much that it would make me nervous. You know how we scorp's feel about what appears to be flattery. It was one of those things that I wasn't sure if I could trust. You know. And those long eye contact sessions. Our relationship was a working one so you know how so many other dynamics could play into that - that not trusting it part. But what I felt with her was a deep need to encourage, support and protect her and she obviously felt the same way. The moment I became anxious and excited about seeing her (hearing her voice) and the fact that I just had to see her or know that she was near - was the moment I knew I was in trouble and I began to withdraw, find reasons to be out of the office. I ran. As much as I wanted to I didn't initiate anything other than communication. The attraction was there, but in a way I didn't want her to give in to the temptation, because I wanted to know if she was the faithful type. If she could prove that she was faithful to her partner, she could be faithful to someone else. Does that make any sense? I also wanted her to know that I respected her life. I'll wait for your response then I'll tell you about the goodbye😢 Maybe you could help me with understanding that.

Sweet Pea