Loving This Scorpio Man is Killing Me. Why?

Posted by xygeneration
Did you find dxp from twitter?

Posted by tiziani
Basically sounds like he took out his revenge. It's petty but that's what it sounds like.

Lol @ xy's post

Posted by ellessque
nobody wants to be anyone's "second choice".
you had a shot and you blew it.
he might have thought he could rekindle those feelings....and even gave it a go....but probably couldn't trust that you wouldn't do the same thing again?
I wouldn't say it's revenge. he didn't do anything to hurt you. Sure, you hurt.....but it's really all your own doing.
You shouldn't have given up on him.
You do that and it pretty much seals the deal until we can come up with a proper exit strategy.

Posted by ellessque
how about you step back and go on with your life and take care of yourself and your child?
if he's going to do anything at all, let him show you.
stop trying to control the situation. it's not going to work.
YOU left him two years ago.
what the hell do you expect him to do?

Posted by BrownSagg
Im a sagg woman who has fallen head over heels in love; literally. I fell in love with his mystery, intelligence, and Big ass ego. So here it is i need real honest advice. I meet him in 2011 in the midst of me having a baby and being in a relationship; not a happy one. We exchanged numbers and that was it we talked almost everyday. He lived on the west coast and me on the east. Being a Sagg i would say i my view on love is light hearted. But with him it was diffrent i felt like i meet my match. Within 2 weeks he said he loved me. We continued to talk until my boyfriend proposed. I felt like i was in love with two men for very diffrent reasons one ive known forever and one i just meet. I choose to marry and told Mr Scorpio. He hated me I let him go but i never forgot him. Recently we meet again and i fell hard and heavy and choose to leave my unhappy marriage. He said he loved me wanted marriage wanted children. We talked everyday again. Then he begins to dissapear would not call for two weeks at a time, not answer phone calls, not show up for weekends we planned together. I would text and express my confussion and dissapointment he would respond days later as nothing ever happened and would say you know I love you wtf does that mean. He would tell me to keep myself busy to not date. Wtf he stood me up twice for two weekend visit trips. So confused if this is love kill me now. ADVICE

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Posted by tiziani
Basically sounds like he took out his revenge. It's petty but that's what it sounds like.

Lol @ xy's post

WHe assured me his intentions were pure. Pure evil.

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Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by BrownSagg
Im a sagg woman who has fallen head over heels in love; literally. I fell in love with his mystery, intelligence, and Big ass ego. So here it is i need real honest advice. I meet him in 2011 in the midst of me having a baby and being in a relationship; not a happy one. We exchanged numbers and that was it we talked almost everyday. He lived on the west coast and me on the east. Being a Sagg i would say i my view on love is light hearted. But with him it was diffrent i felt like i meet my match. Within 2 weeks he said he loved me. We continued to talk until my boyfriend proposed. I felt like i was in love with two men for very diffrent reasons one ive known forever and one i just meet. I choose to marry and told Mr Scorpio. He hated me I let him go but i never forgot him. Recently we meet again and i fell hard and heavy and choose to leave my unhappy marriage. He said he loved me wanted marriage wanted children. We talked everyday again. Then he begins to dissapear would not call for two weeks at a time, not answer phone calls, not show up for weekends we planned together. I would text and express my confussion and dissapointment he would respond days later as nothing ever happened and would say you know I love you wtf does that mean. He would tell me to keep myself busy to not date. Wtf he stood me up twice for two weekend visit trips. So confused if this is love kill me now. ADVICE

I truly wouldn't even know where to begin.....advice? A Scorpio man got involved with you while you were preggie and with someone else. After 2 weeks says he loves you--still preggie and with someone else. He gets burned (saw that coming), you decided to leave option A and now wants option B. I smell payback (some can be that petty). He cared about you, maybe still does, but doesn't trust that you won't do this again. So what advice do you want exactly? You can't "force"/convince a Scorp to trust you once you've given them cause not to.

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Posted by BrownSagg

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Posted by BrownSagg
Im a sagg woman who has fallen head over heels in love; literally. I fell in love with his mystery, intelligence, and Big ass ego. So here it is i need real honest advice. I meet him in 2011 in the midst of me having a baby and being in a relationship; not a happy one. We exchanged numbers and that was it we talked almost everyday. He lived on the west coast and me on the east. Being a Sagg i would say i my view on love is light hearted. But with him it was diffrent i felt like i meet my match. Within 2 weeks he said he loved me. We continued to talk until my boyfriend proposed. I felt like i was in love with two men for very diffrent reasons one ive known forever and one i just meet. I choose to marry and told Mr Scorpio. He hated me I let him go but i never forgot him. Recently we meet again and i fell hard and heavy and choose to leave my unhappy marriage. He said he loved me wanted marriage wanted children. We talked everyday again. Then he begins to dissapear would not call for two weeks at a time, not answer phone calls, not show up for weekends we planned together. I would text and express my confussion and dissapointment he would respond days later as nothing ever happened and would say you know I love you wtf does that mean. He would tell me to keep myself busy to not date. Wtf he stood me up twice for two weekend visit trips. So confused if this is love kill me now. ADVICE

I truly wouldn't even know where to begin.....advice? A Scorpio man got involved with you while you were preggie and with someone else. After 2 weeks says he loves you--still preggie and with someone else. He gets burned (saw that coming), you decided to leave option A and now wants option B. I smell payback (some can be that petty). He cared about you, maybe still does, but doesn't trust that you won't do this again. So what advice do you want exactly? You can't "force"/convince a Scorp to trust you once you've given them cause not to.

No i meet him when my child was seven months. He fell in love quick; so did I. My boyfriend proposed I choose the safe option. I didnt know if i went thru with Mr. scorpio if i would be burned. I married let him go but could never forget him he h

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Posted by xygeneration
Was your exhusband violent and lazy?

Posted by BrownSagg
I messed up I admit that. I had no intentions of hurting him. I am in love with him and honestly believe i will never love another the same. I guess i need to back off and respect his distance if he comes back he does. If not ill love him from a distance.

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Posted by BrownSagg
I messed up I admit that. I had no intentions of hurting him. I am in love with him and honestly believe i will never love another the same. I guess i need to back off and respect his distance if he comes back he does. If not ill love him from a distance.

excuse me, perhaps you can help me...
Why do I want to kill myself?

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