Mad Scorpio

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by SunshineEyes on Monday, April 17, 2017 and has 21 replies.
Hey guys! So I'm experiencing an odd disappearing act from a Scorpio man in which I got intimate with. I am a Capricorn woman.

The first time we met, he took me on several dates and made me feel extremely special. However, I had to leave. We continued chatting over a long distance and he still kept close to me. Very romantic conversations.

A month later, I flew in to see him again and he acted the complete opposite. I haven't done and said anything wrong to him. Out of anger, I expressed my disappointment to him and I never heard from him again. He never responded to my concern. It's been weeks and I haven't heard from him.

What do I do? I need some advice.
Do you express your feelings before he express it?

I heard scorps could turn off if he finds out that the potential SO's like him more than he likes her.

Maybe you could show a bit hot and cold action to make him curious about you.

Make yourself attractive and cheerful with a good heart/intentions in your conversations could be faster way to flirt him. Do it indirectly and act like you dont really like him.

Give him time to think about you, and miss you.

Good luck
Posted by SunshineEyes
Hey guys! So I'm experiencing an odd disappearing act from a Scorpio man in which I got intimate with. I am a Capricorn woman.

The first time we met, he took me on several dates and made me feel extremely special. However, I had to leave. We continued chatting over a long distance and he still kept close to me. Very romantic conversations.

A month later, I flew in to see him again and he acted the complete opposite. I haven't done and said anything wrong to him. Out of anger, I expressed my disappointment to him and I never heard from him again. He never responded to my concern. It's been weeks and I haven't heard from him.

What do I do? I need some advice.
I'm pretty sure he is ghosting you.
He expressed his feelings before I did. He did admit his interest. However his actions is saying something else.
Scorpios get so into themselves and their deep inner feelings and overthinking things. I have heard so many women complain about the "push away/pull you back" thing because they love to "test" you and make sure you want them.

Since you expressed some upset over his behavior, that could be why he backed away.

Scorpios have a strong need for control. Especially with his own emotions. Love and attachment can make a Scorp feel out of control.

You not "accepting" his behavior can make him feel he can't "control" you.

Also, Scorps like a challenge. If they sense they "have you" they get bored.

They tend to want what they can't have more.

For me as a scorpio (but im a female haha)

I get turned off as well when a guy fall in love with me so easily.

I tend to ignore him if he gets too possessive to me in the beginning and see how'd he react

if he consistently contacting me even though i keep ignoring him just because he really likes me then i start to give him my trust (quite stupid scorpio way tho)

In this case, he would ignore you because

1. He is not that into you- because if scorpio like someone we do it HARD and we wouldnt let them go too easily.

2. He is testing you- because we love HARD, it takes time for us to trust people, he might want to see if you are commit enough to come back to him even though he treated you badly.

3.He met someone else and he does not care about you anymore.

You could try texting him to ask him what happened if you do not mind your ego haha

Scorps who play games--why you play games? It's not nice
Posted by SunshineEyes
Hey guys! So I'm experiencing an odd disappearing act from a Scorpio man in which I got intimate with. I am a Capricorn woman.

The first time we met, he took me on several dates and made me feel extremely special. However, I had to leave. We continued chatting over a long distance and he still kept close to me. Very romantic conversations.

A month later, I flew in to see him again and he acted the complete opposite. I haven't done and said anything wrong to him. Out of anger, I expressed my disappointment to him and I never heard from him again. He never responded to my concern. It's been weeks and I haven't heard from him.

What do I do? I need some advice.


What else would you like to do? You expressed your disappointment and he doesn't care. Seems quite simple to me.

If he does care enough to address it, then you will talk about it. No much more to do beyond that.

I really like the guy and I invested so much time into him and seeing this reaction hurts a lot. It's been over a month now thus contacting him would be a waste of time. On to moving on.
Hi capricorn. I'm a capricorn woman too. And i know what exactly you are facing. I study Scorpio zodiac signs.

Let me make this easy for you. Ask your Scorpio man if he is angry on you. Tell him that you miss him and the situation has upset you (Don't blame him).

Here communication is the key. As you are an earth sign, you are the one who need to bring in stability to the relationship (he is a water sign). If he responds you (as simple as a hi, yes, no), then he does NOT want to let you go. Try this few time, I'm sure he'll want to be with you. When Scorpio falls for someone, he falls hard. If he feels that you are hurt, he'll do everything to ease your pain.

Tip: Hold your ground for him and show him that you are a strong and intelligent woman. At the same time, give him his space to breathe. Never get clingy.

Good luck you. Keep me posted.
Don't give up.. Remember you are a Capricorn. And this is exactly what he wants from you.. Not to give up.
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by SunshineEyes
Hey guys! So I'm experiencing an odd disappearing act from a Scorpio man in which I got intimate with. I am a Capricorn woman.

The first time we met, he took me on several dates and made me feel extremely special. However, I had to leave. We continued chatting over a long distance and he still kept close to me. Very romantic conversations.

A month later, I flew in to see him again and he acted the complete opposite. I haven't done and said anything wrong to him. Out of anger, I expressed my disappointment to him and I never heard from him again. He never responded to my concern. It's been weeks and I haven't heard from him.

What do I do? I need some advice.
I'm pretty sure he is ghosting you.
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Yea I think it's safe to say this was a fling..
Finally! Someone who understands. #TeamCapricorn. I feel so stupid after my angry text to send another one. Especially a month after.
Posted by notsosure
Posted by Capricorn10
Don't give up.. Remember you are a Capricorn. And this is exactly what he wants from you.. Not to give up.
This is completely off the mark. Don't feed a sad woman lies. When she then finally gets the truth, it will hurt even more.

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I am a wellwisher.. We capricorns don't give.. Because we don't give chances to regret.
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Posted by notsosure
Posted by Capricorn10
Don't give up.. Remember you are a Capricorn. And this is exactly what he wants from you.. Not to give up.
This is completely off the mark. Don't feed a sad woman lies. When she then finally gets the truth, it will hurt even more.

I am a wellwisher.. We capricorns don't give.. Because we don't give chances to regret.
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Don't give up*

Posted by SunshineEyes
Finally! Someone who understands. #TeamCapricorn. I feel so stupid after my angry text to send another one. Especially a month after.
He is witty enough to understand why you are angry.. Wait and give him better chances to turn around.. We capricorns are intelligent.. So your wit and bring him back. Don't let him go, you know how beautiful he made you feel about yourself, right.
Posted by Capricorn10
Don't give up.. Remember you are a Capricorn. And this is exactly what he wants from you.. Not to give up.
But there is nothing to hold on to

The lady needs to move on rather than wait around for nothing

Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Capricorn10
Don't give up.. Remember you are a Capricorn. And this is exactly what he wants from you.. Not to give up.
But there is nothing to hold on to

The lady needs to move on rather than wait around for nothing

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HI, I respect what you mean. But it's just a month that he isn't talking to her.. I strongly believe relationships don't build overnight, but take time to build. They are like heart pulse that modulate.. That's when each other know their strengths and weaknesses.. This helps to build a deep and a strong bond.. And Scorpios are folks who don't utter a word eventhough there are extreme emotions beneath them.

Posted by Impulsv
I'm sorry but what is there to save

He doesn't want saving or he would be there

Scorpio are intense and want to be with you why we obsess when in love

This man does not look like he want to be there

Otherwise he would( even move mountains for it)
True.. But he seems to be checking if she deserves moving mountains..
Posted by Capricorn10
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Capricorn10
Don't give up.. Remember you are a Capricorn. And this is exactly what he wants from you.. Not to give up.
But there is nothing to hold on to

The lady needs to move on rather than wait around for nothing



HI, I respect what you mean. But it's just a month that he isn't talking to her.. I strongly believe relationships don't build overnight, but take time to build. They are like heart pulse that modulate.. That's when each other know their strengths and weaknesses.. This helps to build a deep and a strong bond.. And Scorpios are folks who don't utter a word eventhough there are extreme emotions beneath them.

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I am one....I don't let anyone I care for slip away

Feels like he has ghosted her